Based on some of the responses I've read on different threads over the past weeks, I've come to understand that there are certain clients who don't understand that ways in which they show up might have an impact on the overall mutual enjoyment (or lack thereof) during a date. Maybe it's "the customer is always right" mentality taken to an extreme especially because of the overlap with skewed views about sex workers.  

 
From what I can tell, some are convinced that just having cash in hand and showing up is all that's required. However there is a range of things a client can do to contribute effort to a date being fun, or even phenomenal. Many of those things are touched on in the etiquette sections of many companions' websites. There are even "good client guide" blog posts that have gained traction. I think Tryst has something similar as well on their site with solid advice.

 
Even in platonic / friendship contexts, I've been blown away when thinking about the distinction between how men are socialized when it comes to feminized tasks and labor such as house chores and cleaning. I've seen 30 or 40 something men left to their own devices who keep their home space in the wildest condition. And I get that sometimes life can get overwhelming. Still, when you're hosting someone, you either get it together or coordinate another option. Even with civilian dating, many people would understand the example of wanting to shower in a bathroom that's clean. But I think some men think a mystery maternal figure appears out of nowhere to do the cleaning they are supposed to do *or* that their partners and playmates are supposed to wallow in a weird situation with them while somehow still being sexy and turned on.

 
Similarly, I think some men are not mindful or aware of how to prepare for the sex that they say they want. Manicured hands and trimmed nails for digital penetration is a must as Bia said. Anal prep and internal cleansing comes to mind as well. If you really want to experience rimming which feels amazing, there are things you have to do to facilitate that fantasy being a reality. Hopefully people engage earnestly with what's touched on the original post.

While I get the general idea, this reads like a rather privileged post. A manicure, pedicure and manscaping, and hire a cleaning service?!?!? None of this is necessary. I regularly clip and file my own nails, both fingers and toes. I shave my junk area every week, and always freshly the morning before a booking. I am more than capable of keeping my house clean, though I never would have a provider over to my personal residence. If I am booking an outcall, it's because I am staying at a hotel. And, I keep my room well kept. I don't think anyone capable of addressing the important part of this needs to be told how to do it. It should not matter whether someone is hired or if it's self managed. In the end, as long as the person and the place is well kept, how it got there is not of any significance.

A girl I was seeing for a long time. Hot as hell 10/10. Invited me to her rather nice house. The only thing clean was her kitchen and bed. I was dumbstruck. So I learned stick to hotels 😂  as much as I was paying her she could have easily paid for cleaning. Some people just live differently .