I came across an ad for a lovely lady who requested ALL of the following information to make a date:

Do you want to fuck or marry this woman??

-Full Name - No, but my first name is in my P411 profile.
 -DOB - No, but my age is in my P411 profile.
 -Cell #  - Yes, after I've been screened, if it's needed to communicate with her.
 -City & State of Residence - Yes, that's in my P411 profile.
 -Picture ID or a Website with Your Photo on it - No, although I might provide a body shot if the provider is looking for a certain physique.  
 -Any On-Line Verification Service memberships - Yes.
 -Either two provider references or your employment Info (Name of Company - Website Address - Your Title - Main Phone#) - Yes on references, although usually my P411 OKs are sufficient.  
 - Day/Date of Booking - Location of Meeting - Time of Meeting - The # of Hours/Duration  - Yes, unless it's a pre-screening request (which I rarely do).

I would be clicking on the next ad without delay.

to make sure you will always remain LOW VOLUME, . . . . . . maybe even no volume.  Does that answer your question?

I kind of feel that TER is OK.. but far from definitive.. P411.. they know who you are.. and the OK system speaks for itself.. even with old OK's.. it's valid.. If she won't take that.. move on..

not listed such as street address and marital status.

If she is going to ask for that level of personal detail, she might as well ask for proof income as well, to verify that you can afford her.

Gotta be high, since she probably spends more time verifying than fucking.

I look at that list and I'm thinking to myself...LAW ENFORCEMENT!! Ultimately, I'm running like hell away from that provider  (assuming she even is one LOL!!)

Tell them what you are willing to share.  If it's reasonable, and the last three are pretty standard, and you seem like a well established guy, there's a really good chance she will waive the requirements.  

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1-Full name- Is she giving me her full name, or her escort name? We all lie about our identities, so why would I ever agree to give my name. I wouldn't give my real name to my most trusted atf.  

I believe the consensus is that the screening is excessive and pass on the lady.
With P411 and Whitelist, a lady should be able to easily verify you.  There are a few ladies that I have not met because she wanted my full name...it's non-negotiable.    
Remember, once you pass your information, you do not know she may or may not do with it.  
Pass and find another lady.

I realize my screening is a little excessive. I'll have to modify that. Thanks for opening my eyes!

...and needed to jump through a hoop or two in order to see a provider. I gave her my name and referred her to my LinkedIn profile, where she could verify that I was who I said I was. I looked to her specifically because she was a low-volume advertiser that had good reviews on a local board where I had been a member for a couple of years.

-Full Name;   NO
-DOB     HELL NO
-Cell #     Well of course
-City & State of Residence;        If ya really want to know, sure
-Picture ID or a Website with Your Photo on it;     Typically No but since I am a provider, sure. Not like you can't find googling my number

If I could use Facebook as the website with my photo on it or use my old college ID, I'd be willing to submit to her screening

is pretty much my take. If she's getting the business she wants with those requirements that's good for her. If not she'll adjust in some say.

Might as well go ahead and throw your full SSN in there.  Hell no, pass.

applying for a fucking job!  I pay and use p411 for verification.  If that's not enough....NEXT!

Asking for date of birth is a little much, but I think the rest is reasonable. While I don't require it, I know a lot of ladies ask for full name and ask to see a driver's license when the guy shows up in addition to other screening and they have no problem getting appointments. I'm thinking of doing this myself.

as it's not your body on the line. Heck, using race as a screening parameter is a practice lots of people are totally fine with when they never have to consider being on the receiving end of profiling. Personally, I may feel 1,001 different ways about that. But a back and forth discourse about whether any individual companion should be compelled to meet anyone they don't want to never really goes far.

Guys don't provide your real name and real employment information, etc.  After providers get arrested, they negotiate with LE and gave your real personal information to FBI and police.  It has nothing to do with the safety of the providers.  The providers want to scream out the LE before they willing to set up a date.  Do the providers provide the guys with their real name, address, DOB, picture of their face, driver license, etc.?

Two recent references who have recent reviews. I've never had an issue

and you are right about one thing "Whoever doesn't want to provide that information can just move on"  That too seems to be pretty much "universal" as every guy and most of the women, including both the women who are "clients" agree that this is indeed "excessive" and that they too would "just move on" as would I.

This is a classic case of too much information...
So for me:
1-No, but please chose a alias I can call you without gagging (hint: avoid BigDicks69)
2- yes and no,I do ask the age as part as my screening as I have a age threshold (I won't meet below 40 gents) but the exact date is TMI
3-Yes if and only f we agree to a meeting and that is when I'll give you mine...
4- Just because I am interested to share the funny story that happened to me when I was in your town  
5-Never , I do not show my face or send pic ,what is good for the goose is good for the gander, I actually cringe when people send me their Linked profile,again TMI
6-Ideally P411 OR
7- One provider I know that match my style is enough
7-Yes of course,I need to know the when and the where...

I have never......lemme repeat myself, I have NEVER provided my name or anything more than my P411 references and my TER WhiteListings........again, NEVER, NOT ONCE have I ever done more than that...and I've been w/3-400 TER ladies

The things she asks for tell me she REEEAALLLY wants to make sure that you will be compatible for one another and that you both will have a good experience. She can ask for whatever she wants. If you are uncomfortable with what she is asking for just move on to someone with screening standards you are more comfortable with.

LE doesn't waste time getting you to tell the juicy details. They have to get you to take the bait first then they put you in the back room and question you to get all of your juicy info. So all of you pussies (eh ehrm, wussies) stop trying to dodge screening. If you don't like someones screening methods, move on.

sounds like you have had bad run-ins with your dates