So......I usually shy away from looking into their eyes during sex or oral. Last week I had a new client that insisted I look him in the eyes while sucking his dick. I was a little apprehensive in the beginning but I'm a pleaser so I usually do what's asked of me(within reason). I didn't think it was possible but I actually got turned on by this. What are your thought? Is this a turn on for u? I would like to hear from both parties!!!!

eye contact can be so hot and intense, love it! Although sometimes I do have to close my eyes and think about baseball...

an agency owner chided me for avoiding eye contact. I was very shy, much shyer then than I am now. As per her order, I had to force myself to look every client straight in the face, for pretty much the entire date.

I'll enjoy a BJ any which way.  If she has her eyes closed that's fine with me too - as I probably have my eyes closed 1/2 the time during a BJ anyway, just relaxing and reveling in the pleasure.

I am a total eye guy, and I love having my cock sucked, so there is no better for me

..dining at my Y coz it reminds me of bad porn. I hate watching porn where girls stare into the camera while they are eating out another girl. I like her to be so focused and involved in her muff diving that she has no time to stare up at me

I have a feeling 98.7% of the guys will agree.  

My ex and I usually didn't make eye contact when we were in the middle of whatever sex act. She almost always had her eyes closed. I had eyes open, as I liked to look at things, as do most guys.

It is even mentioned in many reviews. In fact, I'm sure I've said "great eye contact" in describing a blowjob in reviews myself. It's something that you get a lot more in porn and p4p than in real life, and it's a huge turn on for many guys.

Yes, seeing someone else's pleasure is a major turn on. But here in our little secret world, one has to be careful with whom one makes eye contact. There is a consensus out there that in our little world of P4P, some ladies are less than genuine in their pleasure. If he looks, a gentleman might see that something else (Damn, I forgot to pick up bananas, cucumbers, and batteries!). There's also a consensus among the ladies that some gentlemen couldn't tell the difference between what is genuine, and what is staged. As for me, I like to listen, feel, and look. If I see the forgotten battery look, or hear too many 'f*ck me daddies', or don't feel the quiver of delight, I'm not a happy camper. In fact, Mr. Happy will be camping somewhere else next time.

Eye contact vs no eye contact is like bbbj vs cbj.

... beyond the hotness factor why I love it when a provider looks into my eyes during the act, whether BJ or whatever. I think it's harder to be dishonest with someone when looking them in the eyes.

It's very sensual & like you said its a turn on... I love to see a guy orgasm during the eye contact.... Very satisfying....  

Because putting that much pressure on a hooker who sees you for the first time and is EXPECTED to show a "quiver of delight" for real, or you won't repeat....or she had better be a darn good actress. So, if you don't mind a really good fake, then I guess no problem BUT if you want genuine pleasure, then you had better come to the table with more than just the money honey.

And still fake the crap out of it. Seriously, take a look at Hollywood (we are acting in some form). There are some love scenes between people who hate each other and we think they can't keep their hands to themselves etc.  

I said it's more difficult to be dishonest when looking someone in the eyes--not impossible.  

And I know what you said, and I realize not all hookers have to act, but some that do, can pull of the sincere "I am so into you" look like breathing. And others well, they get the Razzie awards

I enjoy to look at the receiver in the eyes as I perform my skills. It feels good to see that they see how into I am and I believe that it's a better way to sync energies.  

I will have to find out for myself in the future Kenya! LOL

I love girl-girl porn and I love it when they look each other in the eye because to me it says they're in the moment.  I  hate it when one girl looks like she'd rather be somewhere else.  On the other hand I've read recently that it is actually a good thing for a person to do some inward focusing during sex in order to really enjoy the act of receiving.  

I've had the unfortunate but inevitable occasion of finding the lady staring at the ceiling, looking at the television, or screwing her eyes shut as if she's undergoing root canal  surgery.  But I've also had the payoff of many a genuine smile, that intense look of wondrous enjoyment and of course subtle encouragement.  But for me if I don't at least try to search out the lady's eyes then it's as if I'm just fondling  a series of body parts without any connection between them.

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I think its sexy for her to be looking me in the eyes while she's giving bbbj and love the look as I.fill her mouth with cum.

That is weird and gross, all at once.  

That is a good point, but its sexy to see her watching you daty and some dirty talk while you are thoroughly tonguing her is great to

there is a reason they are sometimes called "the window to the soul".

If both are into that sort of thing (connection, etc.)

but it got a little creepy as their eyes rolled back into their heads. It's just a cross I have to bear.

some ladies actually believe they are the " best lay i've ever had" or " that lingerie looks good on you" etc. etc.

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I said it's more difficult to be dishonest when looking someone in the eyes--not impossible.  
   
 Do you have any problems figuring out where to put all those Oscar statues?  

There's absolutely no pressure at all, and nothing is expected. Whatever is meant to happen always happens. But I do hope that a lady will attempt to enjoy herself in my company, regardless of what I look like, and my skill level. Besides, the last lady I saw called me positively gorgeous, and asked where I got my mad skills. Should I believe her? As far as the quiver of delight, every lady is different. Some ladies quiver. Some ladies shake. Some ladies humm. Some ladies bang their arms on the walls. Some ladies giggle. Some ladies growl. Some ladies buck. Some ladies squeal. Some ladies pull your hair, or slap your ass. Some ladies move from one to the next without so much as a rest. And on and on. My point being, just be yourself, let go, and have some fun. Maybe your type of quiver will come forth too.  

Had one provider that the first time oral was looking into my eyes for a length period of time... Now, it's mostly just glancing at me.... Miss the first one... (If you read this ... Hint.. Hint).

Damn man quit giving me chemo when I just need an aspirin!

hanks luv!!!
I appreciate all replys!!

A woman "regardless of what she looks like and her skill level"? Sometimes those things actually do count in getting turned on and enjoying the sex. A great personality only goes so far at least with me. If there is nothing much else to turn me on, I'd be better off masturbating to a great fantasy.  

The answer is yes. As you know, in this little world, I'm looking for that something extra. When I find it, I don't care what the lady looks like, what her skills are, her hair color, her race, her religion, her body type, nor anything of the sort. Over the years, I've had atfs in each category, including bbws, and not so attractive ladies. Nevertheless, they had the magic fountain, and I kept coming back to drink. Of course, sometimes the ladies were drop dead gorgeous, and had bodies like a Victoria Secret model. The times when I had two opposite atfs, sessions were evenly split. The beautiful lady didn't get more visits.  

And just for the record the ..."after meeting me" thing is a turn off. You have no idea what I like or dislike as far as anything intimate goes.  

One of my main ways of screening is watching how a lady presents herself with the written word. Be it on these boards, in an email, an inbox, on her website, or in her ad. Whether it's with humor, intelligence, common sense, commonalities, and the like, a lady's communication skills have a huge impact on me. May I compliment you on your skills? I would venture to guess that you have more mojo than your letting on.  

However in the auspices of good grace I will thank you for your compliment.