If any ladies should ever wonder why a perspective client initiates contact with them to schedule an appointment and they never hear back...
I have been scheduling several appointments for an upcoming trip and have always taken the time and effort to write more than a few lines (via their E mail/PM etc) introducing myself and providing more information about my request for time together.. When I receive a response consisting of something like  
"Sure babe.. see you them"
"Hi Hon.. Great"
"Thanks.. Let me know"

Yes, it would be so nice to have a Booking Assistant to do all the upfront correspondence and "connecting"!
Some are not afforded that luxury

...much less a thoughtful and well written one.

Why do you think this happens?  Is it:

Yes, in theory you are not wrong. It would be great if every lady took the time to call you by name while writing a full paragraph response, making sure they address all your points/issues. It would add to the fantasy of feeling special and desired.  But the reality is that providers receive many E-mails daily from perspective clients and often time simply doesn't allow responses in the detail you covet. And also, many ladies prob. don't want to get into "pre-meeting" lengthy E-mail and or text conversation exchanges.  There is nothing that really needs to be discussed beforehand, other than Time/date of appointment, your reference verification, and the donation (if not apparent from her ad/ or website). Its pure bottom line.  Besides, some of the best sessions I have had were by some of the worst pre appointment communicators. If I eliminated these ladies based solely on their initial E-mail response, I would have really missed out. I've learned its the nature of the business.  

This exact thing happened to me with a client when I tried to confirm and for 2 days heard nothing until an hour before the appointment and I'd already rescheduled. Good communication is key!

I firmly believe that it is mainly "B". Many providers just don't get it when it comes to proper customer service. They are either lazy or downright rude and inconsiderate in responding to appropriate and polite email requests. It really makes you wonder what goes thru their minds when they never reply. Nowadays I just chuckle & shrug, put them on my own DNS and move on.

Communication Skills , both verbal and written, were not in the list of general tasks and functions, responsibilities and qualifications , of the "Job-Description Box" on the resume, when she applied for the job.

The response to an initial inquiry I don't think about much. I know ladies often get inundated with bullshit emails and time wasters. Once things are moving along and something is scheduled (or being sorted out to find a mutually beneficial time/day) I prefer something a little more personal. I get that people are busy - I don't expect a long email. Just something to show there's some thought there. But, I also don't get bent out of shape for the most part if I don't get that. Long gaps in communication when it comes to confirmations though.....that's a no no for me.  

Are spoiled.you should be lucky to even get a response

The more likely it is the booker - agent - pimp, writing those sweet nothings.

I always thought lesbians were a touch more intelligent than straight women.

Some people still need to have their hand held while crossing the street.

Communication is not what is said, it is what is received, and understood.

... but I appreciate it when the provider has taken the time to READ my email before replying.  I try to be very clear in my emails to providers about details like when I'd like to see them. It's frustrating to get a response that demonstrates the provider didn't bother to read my email. (I'm not talking about auto-responses... I like those).  

I enjoy the getting to know process. Not necessarily someone who is a pain in the ass. But some back and forth banter and flirting is nice in my opinion. Of course it's not cool for everyone. I especially like it when I'm on the treadmill or in the pedi chair. Lol

I would root for you, BUT you are so unlikeable it's tough to root for you for anything, even SPOTY.

I loved having an agency or assistant handle the communications because my style tends to be prompt and concise. Some may prefer a bit more fluff, but most seem to appreciate that my sessions, like my emails, tend to omit any extraneous crap. I address them by name plenty when it matters.

...is a timely reply even if it is an auto-EMAIL at least it tells me that my message was received, after that I expect the provider & I to exchange personal EMAILs or to have a phone conversation (rare) to arrange the time & details of our get-together.

No.  
My strippers don't need to write me love letters. They show their love by offering me their bodies. But I suspect you wouldn't know anything about stuff like that.

Why do providers need to write you love letters?

We can't wait to hear this one...

... and I haven't clicked the like button all day.

Some clients and providers like more frilly getting-to-know-you communications and some don't.  I believe those that like the frilly, longer communications are in the minority, but to each his or her own.  There are plenty of clients and providers in this asylum, so hopefully everyone can find plenty of good matches for their own style.

You would think if you're writing an email expressing that you sincerely want to meet that it would be received with more enthusiasm and getting additional information to actually book. Me personally I'm very prompt and expressive in my communication so it's hard to imagine otherwise but I do know some ladies that simply won't respond if the first Contact doesn't have the verification information. And you might be looked at as a Time waster so you may be getting a generic response for that reason... Because like I said the lady may be wondering why didn't you just send the verification information if you know you're going to need it to book....just a thought....

First of all you dunce-where did I write that I wanted "love letters"? At least TRY to reply to the right poster fercrissakes.  

This is directed towards a guy who can obviously be articulate and polite? (and understands how punctuation works, btw)

I've got no problem with that, and as long as an email is worded in a polite and genuine sounding way I'll always reply to the best of my ability with answers and enthusiasm, even if I'm fully booked. You never know whether you'll get a cancellation or a return tour, and if you've been nice to someone he'll remember it.

Max, I do see your point and I agree, it's really nice when they thank you for providing the info needed, answer any questions you had and don't ask for anything you already gave. It shows they read what you sent and gave it at least a little consideration. That's nice to receive, but I also understand some of these women say their booking rate for first contact emails is 10 to 20%. I see their side of the coin that they can't spend all day writing emails knowing 80% of them are a waste of time. When you find one that does like to flirt leading up to an appointment, like Erin was saying, go with it and have a great time.

That's a great attitude! Really, it's the best way for any small business in a service industry to be. That's really appreciated and, you're correct, remembered. I wouldn't necessarily demand it, but it goes a long way.

matching wits with HIM is like you, fighting an "unarmed" man/person.  The way you exercise self-control is exemplary.

throw up.  Agree with you 1000% and my body is going into convulsions!  Please call 911 or not!

do, Erin.  For you are a lady of substance; sexy, delicious, AND intelligent!

communications;

They occur whenever he "thinks."  If you can call it thinking.

Sometimes, emails come when we are particularly busy taking care of outside work, family, traveling, etc. Of course, the best thing is to give a polite response explaining that any brevity is due to our outside engagements.  

i'd say both points of view have valid arguments.  to make an informed decision we'd have to know exactly what the op puts in his initial email.  assuming he provided all required info and screening info in his contact email, then i'd say that there's just some ladies that put their efforts into the bedroom, not the emails.  and that's ok for some.

I always return emails in a timely fashion and have had gents send emails introducing themselves sounding very interested.
I return the emails same day sometimes less than an hour later and not get a reply back.
It happens.Some are better than others as far as responding but it can get frustrating at times

I only reply to text at first, thus my ads say to text me. Most guys send a "hey" and I try to reply with at minimum a "hi. how are you today?", but I just started and can honestly say most guys either do not know how to read and call me right away, which gets them put on a list, or never reply with a response that fits the way the conversation is going. I can honestly say I this weekend alone I have seen two guys out of the 50+ that have contacted me. Most start going on about what they want in explicit detail which causes me to shut down. One guy continues to send me hi, I reply with the above and next thing I get back is "who's this?" Just my thoughts as a new girl.

For some ladies, like myself, less is more. There IS such thing as too much information, which is good in some cases, because you screen yourself out right off the bat. The more you write, the higher the chance your request will be declined, in my experience over the years. Like pretty much at 100%, in fact and here's why:

...I just can't bring myself to be inhumane to dumb animals.

Thanks Erin--  
Thanks everyone for their responses and opinions. I like to K.I.S.S. too-- Just a little more than a quick hello is what I was implying.. Everyone's time is valuable and I prefer not to waste their's or mine

I speak from experience, because I have seen the lovely Jaydalee... All it took was a simple response from her acknowledging me and my request to meet.. Nothing that required her from dropping everything and writing a novel. She seemed interested and that was the first step in confirming an appointment..
Hope u r well, my dear

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They don't have to deal with the likes of us, and they already understand (To the extent that women are capable of being understood.) the objects of their affection.

I think not. Women with your attitude are lucky to have a dime from a client. It isn't wrong to expect good customer service from a lady I am going to pay hundreds an hour to. Women with golden pussy syndrome are the spoiled ones.

I'm guessing providers get a shit ton of e-mails and texts with "hey, how about a date".  Probably a lot of those are tire kickers or those trying to pin down a date amongst three or more girls.  

k, I typically phone, and if the person does not pick up, leave a pleasant upbeat message with date, potential time, etc., and that I'm easily verified with xxx site.  But I don't leave more personal info on the phone message until the provider calls back.  If there is a call back, I give any of the usual screening info and more info about myself.  

Just goes to show you can't even give a group of people a compliment with out people taking it the wrong way.  

It has cost me thousands of brain cells.

ould you possibly make that 24 years