I just finished an appointment with a provider who asked me not to review her.  Her reasoning...this is my last night....I am getting married on Saturday...  My thinking is that she knew that a bad review would be coming.

This provider has had a so-so exposure on "The Other Board", guys questioning her authenticity...attitude and such, but a respected poster there said she was for real so I took one for the team.

Should I honor her wishes and not post?
Should I honor the needs of my fellow VIPs and post my not so good review?
Should I wait and see if she really gets out of the business and if she is still posting availability in a week or two, post then?

I try to be an honorable guy, but something seems fishy here.  I get the feeling the begging not to review is really a scam so she can keep on working.

Please send me an PM/Email since I don't check this board very often.

...then a bad review won't matter. In fact, an honest review one way or the other is why boards like this and the review process exists. I would "out" for the sake of this community and if she is still working, it may be a signal with her not to use people for the money and expect silence. From whether I sit, the hobby is full of people who get away with boorish behavior (on both sides). Just as a provider has a right to warn about certain clients, the door should swing both ways.

This was *your* date with her, right?  You paid for the time?  Then the experience was yours, and you have the right to tell others about it, including the right to write a review if you so wish, the only limit being to avoid divulging information that could compromise her safety.

This may sound harsh to some, but the ultimate purpose of the reviews on this site is *not* to act as a marketing tool for providers, but to provide accurate and objective information for hobbiests so as to allow them to make informed decisions.  This lady knew what she was doing and surely was aware of the possibility that her actions would show up in a review.  That's part of this business of providing.  If she had a problem with that, then she should never have taken your money.

Write the review, please...

Cheers!

Never, ever, review someone within 24 hours of a session.

Good or bad!

Give it some time,, let some perspective come into your head before reviewing them.

If you wait to find out if she is indeed retiring, then a review is moot. If she isn't retiring then a review is called for.

So my suggestion is to wait and find out the real situation.

TET

...the blushing bride?

Cheers!

If she's not taking any more appointments, the review doesn't matter.  She's no longer in the biz.  If she's taking appointments, however, the review would be helpful to your bretheren.

Lots of ladies retire for a month or so then come back to work.  It's difficult to walk away from the $$$.  Post the review because she might return, and the info will be helpful to the rest of us.

Unless shes a rip-off respect her wishes for christ sake. You said" NOT SO GOOD" not a "BAD"

MAYBE it was a YMMMV or she really didnt want to see anyone anymore but ...drumroll

shes getting MARRIED therefore following through with her last few clients/commitments when her heart is elsewhere made for a not so good session.

or she just didnt like you.

either way when a provider asks that you not review her and you do..well youre just being an ass. (unless its a rip off of course)

-- Modified on 6/25/2004 4:32:31 PM