The post below on hairy vs. shave bushes got me thinking...

How do you ladies feel about back hair? Honestly now...

I know some women loooovvveee chest hair, and some hate it.  Either way, I ain't waxin or shaving that for nobody.  Fact is I hate it on myself, but it is me, and it's staying, for better or worse.

But back hair.  Good gawd I hate having it, and just can't tolerate it.  Looks disgusting to me.  I imagine it's no better for a female viewing it.  I'm not all "fly man" or "gorilla man", but have a good patch above my ass, and some on my back.  I try to, at a minimum keep it trimmed, and at best, freshly shaved as much as possible so as to not incur the "cactus man" monicker (that was funny).

My problem is the "man" in me feels just freakin' silly shavin' my back.  Shavin' the balls I got over.  Better for her, and feels better for me.  Issue resolved.  But ladies, when you feel 12 hour razor stubble the next morning with a guy you just spent the night with, are you thinking "WTF, is this guy a half homo or what?"  Better to leave it, trim it to a respectable level, or shave clean???

I don't mind back hair. I don't like totally hairless men anyways, so some hair is pretty hot to me.

The only thing I hate is the regrowth. So, if you want to do the hair removal thing, please do something that will last longer then just shaving. Wax or maybe laser hair removal.

I had a boyfriend once that shaved him chest. Needless to say, we never really used missionary position when we were getting busy. I hate stubble!

we are doing a fetish or fantasy (I think you know where I am going with this), back hair doesn't phase me..

I have never thought a man to be an animal when it came to back hair.. I thought to myself, he has european roots..

If you can live with it, so can I.

Now on the other hand if you have crazy eyes or you smell bad, we are gonna have issues...

enjoy

If you don't like it start waxing . Have it
professionally waxed right away when it starts
to grow back and you will have smooth skin.

It does not bother me unless you shave it and
the nubbs come back and then your skin is
rough. But the more you wax , soon it stops growing.

You can use nair too and wax when it starts
to return but you have to do what is best suitable
to you . I met a man who shaves his chest and
is a fanatic about it . I feel that some hair on a man is nice .


is very nice

lol ok no cactus man moniker for you! So glad you enjoyed that

Ok, in all honesty, no back hair is not attractive. That kind of goes without saying. Despite that though, I have never really felt it detracted from a guy unless we are talking so much hair that it looks like he's been skinny dipping in Miracle Grow.

I wouldn't worry about it unless it really bothers you. If you really don't like it and want it gone, then I suggest as others have that you wax it rather than shave it. I can only imagine reaching back behind you in the heat of passion to pull you in closer and WHAMMO! My arms are on fire! Ok, just kidding! But waxing is preferable because you get to enjoy the results much longer than you do with shaving. Plus, over time the more you wax, the hairs tend to grow back softer and finer.

But as for me, no it won't cross my eyes at all if you have a little hair growing back there. That's just a sign that you are a MAN among men, since it is caused by higher levels of testerone

I don't mind back hair, chest hair at all..
as a matter of fact I like it..

It is a man thing in my eyes. Men are supposed to have hair.....
some women hate it. some women love it..
Just be you...

someone will find you sexy no matter what..

so I guess that means it doesn't bother me.

body hair does not bother me at all unless its facial hair, i AM sensitive =)