I am interested how what percent of guys are getting bj from their wives.  Does it decrease with the years?
Myself, I usually get oral about twice a month.  Its good.  The main difference between a good hobby bj, is that when my wife is sucking me off, I feel somewhat of an obligation to hurry up and cum, and I am a little more relaxed to enjoy the journey with a provider.  Yeah, variety is nice, but my wife sucks (mostly) better than most providers.  I am sure cuz she does it my way.

I would suggest that you talk with your wife about how you feel an obligation to hurry up, and what would be more satisfying from your perspective.

when I hear about women who won't give BJs.  Both my ex's did.  The second one loved to worship cock.  She could suck it for hours and really worked hard to get as much of my cock down her throat as possible.  We're still friends, and she told me now she can actually come, simply from sucking her BF's cock.

once a month max with much begging involved. and no more daty. she looks great but what good is that. it's like haveing a nice car in the garage but never  driving it.

Thats probably why i'll be single till the day i die. Besides i don't think any woman could stand to be around me long enough for me to marry her. But, as an after thought, my ex gave me great bj's up until the time she started cheating, and then everything was cut off and thats when i realized she was cheating......

BJ's from your wife are definitely better than from providers.

Hit or miss around my place, sometimes she acts like a cock hungry little whore, most of the time though not. So like most guys that's why I'm here. Not into DATY which sucks, but that's what the lovely ladies here are for. Used to go to Greece about twice a month but those days have seemed to have passed by. I joke must be the damn moon phase or something with her, cause you never know when she'll turn nympho on ya, but as time goes by less and less. On another note don't know how many of you guys have kids but when she was in the last trimester of pregnancy, holy shit!!! She about killed me, and wanted anal like every other day. Obviously not very often now since I'm here.

At home is hit or miss. For me a nice hotel room will do it everytime. BJ, DATY, and all the positions. Encore Las Vegas = PSE.
All I need is plenty vitamin M.

I had a very nice BBBJ over lunch followed by BBFS leading to a cream pie.  LOL

From what I've heard, sex should be planed as any other activity. It helps to get into the mood and keep a certain sexual chemistry. Also talking about how you feel and asking questions about how the wife feels about sex may open a door to improvement.

Wifee used to allow a bit of cock sucking until she got a bit of precum & that was it.  Now there's essentially no sex.  When I got her to agree to sex previously, she was happy to receive oral & maybe cum a few times...   but not interested in reciprocating.

If I behave I can get a BJ from the "better half" somewhat regularly, but if I pop a load in her mouth I will be "cut off"!  In time she gets over it, and things get back to normal.

Wife gives me by anytime I ask or hint and sometimes  when I don't. Problem is no daty and rarely intercourse. Greek disappeared 10yrs back along with daty and most intercourse. Menopause and heart attack (very young for that). Like a wild sloppy bj sometimes,  but her sweet tender ball linking and soft sucking is the best.  
This is why daty and cg are most important items on a lady's menu to me.  

...ok with it at first but then began to think it was too perverted.

I bet that is what both of my exes are thinking about now lol. Cooking and sucking was all they got! I don't do the long term shit, so I've never gotten to the point of being bored fkin the same guy. When that happens, I would just leave or hire him a hooker lol. At least that way, odds are I am getting a commission.

I have a friend who refuses to give her SO BJ's.  Said she does not like the gagging feeling.  I tried to explain how not to gag, but she still did not seem interested.  

he loves a blowjob so he gets what he wants.

don;t sweat it listen everyone knows she is just doing it as a duty great some men would be so jealous of you, love her at least she wants to make you happy in your marrige not like a lot of wives.

Pretty much whenever I want it.  

Just saying. You guys claim sex with hookers "saved your marriages" and makes your sex life better, so maybe the wife had the same idea of getting some on the side.

but I got rid of my wife a long time ago, so "easy for me to say" lol

Amen brotha! I can't see how people stay together so long. I would go totally nuts, but at least I can admit that, and not lead some poor dude on, just to see the 'CRAZY' come out bwahahhaa. Have a good weekend all! Off to get my heathen!

Difference between having a job 20 years and being married 20 years....

marry me?]

Only get oral on there birthday and possibly christmas from there wives. Something I'll never understand and these women wonder why you come to us...

If I benefit from it - why would I care where it is coming from.  LOL

Posted By: London Rayne

Just saying. You guys claim sex with hookers "saved your marriages" and makes your sex life better, so maybe the wife had the same idea of getting some on the side.