don;t sweat it listen everyone knows she is just doing it as a duty great some men would be so jealous of you, love her at least she wants to make you happy in your marrige not like a lot of wives.
I am interested how what percent of guys are getting bj from their wives. Does it decrease with the years?
Myself, I usually get oral about twice a month. Its good. The main difference between a good hobby bj, is that when my wife is sucking me off, I feel somewhat of an obligation to hurry up and cum, and I am a little more relaxed to enjoy the journey with a provider. Yeah, variety is nice, but my wife sucks (mostly) better than most providers. I am sure cuz she does it my way.
Just interested in how prevalent oral sex is in marriage.
THX
I would suggest that you talk with your wife about how you feel an obligation to hurry up, and what would be more satisfying from your perspective.
From what I've heard, sex should be planed as any other activity. It helps to get into the mood and keep a certain sexual chemistry. Also talking about how you feel and asking questions about how the wife feels about sex may open a door to improvement.
when I hear about women who won't give BJs. Both my ex's did. The second one loved to worship cock. She could suck it for hours and really worked hard to get as much of my cock down her throat as possible. We're still friends, and she told me now she can actually come, simply from sucking her BF's cock.
I have a friend who refuses to give her SO BJ's. Said she does not like the gagging feeling. I tried to explain how not to gag, but she still did not seem interested.
Personally I do not understand it. I love to give BJ's and find the entire experience satisfying.
Difference between having a job 20 years and being married 20 years....
After 20 years, the job still sucks
once a month max with much begging involved. and no more daty. she looks great but what good is that. it's like haveing a nice car in the garage but never driving it.
Thats probably why i'll be single till the day i die. Besides i don't think any woman could stand to be around me long enough for me to marry her. But, as an after thought, my ex gave me great bj's up until the time she started cheating, and then everything was cut off and thats when i realized she was cheating......
BJ's from your wife are definitely better than from providers.
Your wife specifically, though, not mine
Hit or miss around my place, sometimes she acts like a cock hungry little whore, most of the time though not. So like most guys that's why I'm here. Not into DATY which sucks, but that's what the lovely ladies here are for. Used to go to Greece about twice a month but those days have seemed to have passed by. I joke must be the damn moon phase or something with her, cause you never know when she'll turn nympho on ya, but as time goes by less and less. On another note don't know how many of you guys have kids but when she was in the last trimester of pregnancy, holy shit!!! She about killed me, and wanted anal like every other day. Obviously not very often now since I'm here.
At home is hit or miss. For me a nice hotel room will do it everytime. BJ, DATY, and all the positions. Encore Las Vegas = PSE.
All I need is plenty vitamin M.
I had a very nice BBBJ over lunch followed by BBFS leading to a cream pie. LOL
Wifee used to allow a bit of cock sucking until she got a bit of precum & that was it. Now there's essentially no sex. When I got her to agree to sex previously, she was happy to receive oral & maybe cum a few times... but not interested in reciprocating.
If I behave I can get a BJ from the "better half" somewhat regularly, but if I pop a load in her mouth I will be "cut off"! In time she gets over it, and things get back to normal.
Wife gives me by anytime I ask or hint and sometimes when I don't. Problem is no daty and rarely intercourse. Greek disappeared 10yrs back along with daty and most intercourse. Menopause and heart attack (very young for that). Like a wild sloppy bj sometimes, but her sweet tender ball linking and soft sucking is the best.
This is why daty and cg are most important items on a lady's menu to me.
Myself, I usually get oral about twice a month. Its good. The main difference between a good hobby bj, is that when my wife is sucking me off, I feel somewhat of an obligation to hurry up and cum, and I am a little more relaxed to enjoy the journey with a provider. Yeah, variety is nice, but my wife sucks (mostly) better than most providers. I am sure cuz she does it my way.
Just interested in how prevalent oral sex is in marriage.
THX
...ok with it at first but then began to think it was too perverted.
Second wife was all for it. Could suck the chrome off a trailer hitch & CIM. If everything else about her had been just half as good as the sex I'd still be with her.
I bet that is what both of my exes are thinking about now lol. Cooking and sucking was all they got! I don't do the long term shit, so I've never gotten to the point of being bored fkin the same guy. When that happens, I would just leave or hire him a hooker lol. At least that way, odds are I am getting a commission.
he loves a blowjob so he gets what he wants.
don;t sweat it listen everyone knows she is just doing it as a duty great some men would be so jealous of you, love her at least she wants to make you happy in your marrige not like a lot of wives.
Pretty much whenever I want it.
Our relationship went through a very weird cycle. When we met she was pretty much a slut. We fucked and sucked whenever and wherever we could. Then it dried up for a good 15 years after we were married. Once a week - no cim, no daty. Then about 3 years ago she started reading romance novels and boom - everything is on the table. Now she likes greek, cim, daty, watching porn, etc. Talking about maybe expanding into a little S&M or even adding a 3rd into the mix.
Crib note: Get your wife reading slutty romance novels. Sit back and reap the rewards.
Just saying. You guys claim sex with hookers "saved your marriages" and makes your sex life better, so maybe the wife had the same idea of getting some on the side. ![]()
but I got rid of my wife a long time ago, so "easy for me to say" lol
Amen brotha! I can't see how people stay together so long. I would go totally nuts, but at least I can admit that, and not lead some poor dude on, just to see the 'CRAZY' come out bwahahhaa. Have a good weekend all! Off to get my heathen!
If I benefit from it - why would I care where it is coming from. LOL
Myself, I usually get oral about twice a month. Its good. The main difference between a good hobby bj, is that when my wife is sucking me off, I feel somewhat of an obligation to hurry up and cum, and I am a little more relaxed to enjoy the journey with a provider. Yeah, variety is nice, but my wife sucks (mostly) better than most providers. I am sure cuz she does it my way.
Just interested in how prevalent oral sex is in marriage.
THX
Only get oral on there birthday and possibly christmas from there wives. Something I'll never understand and these women wonder why you come to us...
Xo
Kyla