There are a lot of components involved. I pay more attention and take much better care of myself when I am in the providing world vs. the civie world. Should we be out of shape or sick we have much more to lose. One cold or sore body part and we potenially are out of work for a while. As well a lot of the job is mental and emotional so there has to be a good balance on that.

Too bad the responders didn't know that ahead of time. It would have saved them some time and energy!

what thoughts do folks have about different female body types and the ability to even take providing on as a trade?  clearly, dainty with a propensity to soreness and yeast infections isn't going to allow a woman to do this, anymore than an athlete with no arm could pitch baseball.  what physical attributes does it take to provide for a living that cuts many civvy girls out of even considering this for a profession?

"Follow the leader." I let others take the lead, and see if they fall in a trap!

Virtually all women are capable of fucking and clearly some guys will fuck absolutely anything.  The only traits that I've noticed among successful providers is having a screw loose and being good at lying to saps that want to believe she loves him.  They aren't universal but I challenge one person on this board to tell me that they haven't met at least one lady that fits that description.  I can name 20 off the top of my head.

I really should stop being surprised by the number of idiots in this world..
I am going to try my best to have faith in the fact that you can't be seriously asking this question!

I am joking of course.. You're cute

I sure hope that the east coast quake isn't rocking out west as well.  Seems like this might have scrambled some of those brain cells in you?

Come on now...as others have said...You can't be serious!

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i didn't say anything, i asked a question.  you really think every woman could hold up to the physical demands of providing?

fill me in cranky-pants, because what I'm really saying is, i think it takes a certain kind of physical specimen to do this.  no?

And if you really need evidence, just troll BP and look at all the different types/styles of gals that are on there.  Or for that matter, any escort mall would provide similar comparisons.

Mentally, that is a whole different question.  For a lot of the gals, this can be so draining that long-term (over a couple of years) many simply can't continue the double life, etc.

But really Dan, we've seen 'em in all shapes and sizes.  And as far as the physical demands, many only see a guy once a day (and many not even that often).

And I am warming up in the bullpen...finally have that rotator cuff problem fixed...and I hope I can still get the curve ball over the plate

WHen are you coming to Los Angeles so I can give you my love juice vitamins!!!  I love that little body of yours......Lets do it babe

Physically demanding sometimes but not all of the time.  Every client isn't aiming to wear a provider's vagina out so she can never use it again. She doesn't have to be skinny. I'm bbw and i can out-fuck practically anyone i've ever met. Some women can take a mean screwing and be quite girly at the same time.... it's whatever really.


Can literally every woman physically be a provider.... probably not. What percentage? Dunno.

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if the provider you are seeing is not fully developed. I.E under aged. Sad to saw it but there are lot of pimps out pimping out ladies of non-legal age to be escorts.

probably couldn't are the ones who are usually ill.

As for the 'no arm' athlete in baseball, look up Hugh Daily, Pete Gray and Jim Abbott. Abbott had one hand, Daily lost one arm in an accident. Keith Carradine once played a one-armed pitcher named Pete Gray in a "based on a true story" movie.

A dumb question is posted.
The answers supplied in all of the replies, both the serious and thoughtful, as well as the attempts at humor, are absolutely consistent in disputing the OP's position.
The OP's follow-up replies make it clear that he refuses to budge from his original position.

I've fell into the trap of the rhetorical question before and don't usually get it until there first reply which shows they don't plan to budge and after that  the going back & forth is a waste of time.

the OP came from thinking about all of the different women I've either been friends with or slept with and trying to imagine them transitioning into this profession.  what are the obstacles and challenges?  a couple of interesting comments about emotional or mental challenges.  nothing interesting coming from you except some derivative observations about the way the board works.  who is "disputing" and what "position" am i supposed to "budge" from?

And at least this one makes a whole lot more sense than your OP.  Go back and read your original post and it leads the reader to wonder what in the hell you are thinking.

Now you are asking "how can a gal get into this game...especially one's that I know?".  That is a far cry from what you asked originally.  And many of the responses were addressing that as the real issue vs a body type or physical limitation.

So are you terribly surprised that many posters simply "mocked" your OP?  Apparently you are given the responses you have made to them.  Sometimes it is better to say nothing than to just post some "thought" that hadn't really been thought through!  

There are some posters that English is clearly a second language.  And in those cases many will take into account the "cryptic" type of a post from them.  But it certainly doesn't appear that is your issue.  Just that you didn't express yourself carefully enough to get the reader to understand what you really wanted to know.

If I had, I'd have made up a nice shovel alias.  I believe that you've already done enough digging.  A woman needs a vagina, mouth, tits and an ass.  If she's got all that, somebody will pay to fuck her.

sort of says it all...and by the way, thanks for actually giving an opinion on my question.  an actual response appears to be in short supply.

Missing legs or boobs might hurt her a bit, but she could still get by.

But there has to be a hole.

Geez, what else does she need?

(sarcasm, no extra charge)

its a matter of what positions she's good at, isnt it?  To be fucked in heels, standing up, for 15 minutes, with a big dude hanging on your shoulders or waist, without feeling like it's a major imposition, you need strong legs and a strong back. A petite isnt going to specialize in that (partly out of height). How about being fucked while on your tummy with a guy putting weight all over your back?  Basically this is why i go for thick, big boned, size 12 girls, they can take a lot of rough play and not complain.

What can prevent a civvie from going pro has nothing to do with physical limitations and much to do with her personal life.

I had a high profile executive position I wasn't willing to risk losing to get into this before I was laid off after a corporate buyout. After they closed our company and there was no reputation to protect, I felt like "anything goes" and I started dabbling in the hobby out of curiosity.

Being a single mom, I've avoided serious and committed relationships to protect my kids from all the problems that come with having an SO who isn't their father, so there was no boyfriend or husband to worry about being jealous when I got started. I'm not looking to get into anything serious anytime soon either, so going pro isn't inhibiting my social life in anyway. If anything, I talk to men and fuck a LOT more with now than I did before. Woo-hoo!

And there is the concern of the long term affects of getting busted. There is the risk that what you are doing now could change and limit your future opportunities both professionally and romantically, nevermind the fallout and embarrassment of having your family, neighbors and loved ones find out what you are doing.

And there is the motivation. Some women just aren't willing to do "anything" for money. I know it takes more than just money for me to take an offer. In other words, if the guy is rude, in an apartment or mobile home or in a shabby neighborhood, or can't spell in texts or emails (I'm serious), I have no interest in seeing him no matter how much he is offering to pay or if he has references. I'm protecting myself from bad experiences as much as possible because I am going to have to live with whatever memories I am creating now for the rest of my life. As a result of my pickiness, most of my sessions are very enjoyable and I can look back on them and feel I have had a great time, too (I just got an offer to fly to Baltimore for an dinner date overnight... I am so excited!).

I used to think a woman had to be on drugs to be able to do this (driven by the addiction), but many providers will attest that there is a thrill to upscale escorting that is addicting itself, much like gambling. There's just nothing like it. I love it, but I am also sobered by the realities of the downsides to doing this.

You can buy my alias!

Totally correct.

Skinny girls often can't take a dick as well.
Some girls were built for sex, like Marilyn Monroe...

"it's like jello on springs" -some like it hot

easier to access altogether, so really unnecessary, yes, I agree.

Plus, you could just spin her around and stand still creating a completely new sensation.