Just curious


 With "outsourcing" being such a big word these days, what do you, men and women, feel about guys who look for a wife outside the usa?

 Have any of you single guys ever thought about going through with it?

 Do you believe most american women resent or they just don't care?

 It seems like that has become very popular the past 15 years.

The big problem with mail order brides
is that guys think they will continue to be submissive
after they arrive in the US and earn legal residency.

San diego, for example, is full of filipinas who divorced their
navy husbands after a few years.

2yrs is all it takes for them to stay and stick around with their new american hubby. After that, most take off like a jet.

Remember this too is all about the money.  Everyone wants to get to the Land of the big PX.

This reminds me of Eddie Murphy in Delirious.  There is a skit he does about finding a Bush wife, Umfufu or something is her name.  He talks about finding her butt naked (with bones in her nose) and bringing her back.  Of course he expects her to be the good wife.  Well, she has an American friend who educates her -  ``Girl don't you know you can take half his shit''.

It is F'n hilarious (sorry I don't do it justice).

Foreign "mail order" brides stop being submissive soon after they learn how to change channels on the TV set. Once the ink is dry on their citizenship papers they become as liberated as Gloria Stienam. Any man thinking he can import a submissive mate from a second or third world culture and not have that mate quickly "westernize" is kidding himself.

just live in a foreign country and treat her like a queen, then she'd never leave you.

Ci Ci

I actually have friends outside the hobby. Who have participated in mail-order brides. Sounds like the women subscribed are extremly nice and agreeable to anything before leaving their country. Also my friends tells me they will do almost anything sexually. Time will tell how this relationship works out when the woman will get to move in with her new husband.

I think any supposedly long term relationship not based on an  equal plain is ultimate DOOMED![to quote a fedex commercial]

I don't mind a wife now and then, long as she ain't my own.

I acquired two wives outside the US, one from Thailand, and one
from the Philippines. I won't say they became 'Americanized' as
soon as they got here, but they did both exhibit what I can only describe as insane jealousy.
Any woman that knew my name was obviously someone I'd been f**king. If I was 20 minutes later than expected in getting home from work, I must have stopped for a quickee.
If there's ever another, we're staying in her country!

talks like "Little Kathy" except in a foreign tongue (pardon the pun).

Hugs,
Ciara

Italian women are like that too.   Not just the asians.  Insanely jealous.