Saw a lady who's really friendly and completely GFE. In fact a few minutes into the main course, she blurts out that she loves me, and more than once!  
WTF

The thing is we met a total of maybe 6 hours combined over a period of time. And although we chatted quite a bit over email, we never even had one candle light dinner together. Plus I don't exactly look like Brad Pitt so I rule out the chance of her having a secret crush on me.

A great GFE no doubt, but love??

People say stupid things when under the influence.  As Brian Ferry sang years ago:  "Love is the drug and I need to score."

Just ignore it and go about your business.

that you never have to pay her again?
If not, don't be fool and think she loves you. If she said it to you, she probably says it to most of her johns.
Some of you guys are so vulnerable.

No big deal.  Some people just use the world a lot.  I doubt she wants a proposal.

In my experience, women who say "I love you" and really mean it don't say it during sex.  Especially not the first time they say it.   It doesn't just pop out.  They plan it.  They fantasize about it.  They think about what they're going to wear, and what music will be playing, and what you'll say or do next.

And God help you if you don't respond according to the plan.

"Plus I don't exactly look like Brad Pitt so I rule out the chance of her having a secret crush on me."

let me tell you, i have crushed on dudes with all kinds of aesthetics.  short guys, tall guys, skinny guys, fat guys, guys with waist-length hair, balding guys, mohawk-wearing pierced & tattooed punkers, straitlaced button-down professionals, total geeks (well, they've all been geeks, some measure of geekiness is an uncompromisable prerequisite), etc.  they were beautiful to me because something about them made me feel a little sunbeam was shining on me in their presence, or even simply when i was  thinking about them.

don't discount the idea that she may really like you just because you don't think you'll be submitting your photos to GQ any time soon.

of course, yes, it COULD just be a marketing ploy.  also, she may say strange things in the heat of the moment if she is really enjoying herself.  but there's always the possibility that she actually likes you and enjoys your company.

I think you were  taken back by the first three words in the sentence "i love you   (that you did not hear the next two words )

Ben Franklin".


Thank you
2011 = 28

Look at it as if she said "Are you don yet"?..In this marvelous world of fantasy, she truly was a "real" GFE.
I hope it helped you over the top, and you left a good tip! The important thing is you wasnt the one muttering the phrase..Im sure not only you left with a smile 0n your face but your chest was a little expanded as well.

I usually get the "Are you done?"  
It's really irritating in the middle of foreplay!  (lol)

And I'm pretty sure she wasn't addressing me personally,
otherwise the session wouldn't have been a paid session.

When the time was over, I said that I need to get going and she didn't try to keep me longer (or go out for coffee/drinks or anything), so I doubt she really meant it.  I guess, there's always the chance that she had another appointment afterwards but it was kind of late. I'm usually the last appointment for most girls I see.

Either way, you're probably right people say all sorts of strange things in the heat of the moment.

It has got to be one of the most realistic girl friend experience I've had though, so I'm not really complaining. But a provider saying I love you is still very very unexpected. Still it's a whole lot better than hearing grunts and loud screams, lol

From one of Illinois' finest! Almost ruined my life! Spent 6 months in hell, torn between a loving, faithful wife and a young, beautiful - escort! I think I've made it out alive, but those words can REALLY fuck your life up!

You got a point there, It was a really intense session... Especially since we know each other's likes and dislikes by now.  If I didn't have plans I would have tried extending it another hour.

But I couldn't express how intense it was verbally,  since I am not anywhere near as expressive of my feelings as the  yosemite double rainbow guy... Lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQSNhk5ICTI

Beer.
Gravy.
Pittsburgh Steelers.
Beer.
Little Phil.

ooo. Maybe I should've kept that to myself.

Try it when there's no $$$$ involve, will she still stay that????

I know of a well reviewed lady who tells all her clients that.  She does it to get to them....and their money.  Sad but true.  She admitted that to me when I asked her why she does it.

So remember all of this is fantasy and don't fall for it...especially if she asks for a loan or gives you a sob story and she needs money.  

Just being honest AND not hiding behind an alias either.

invite you back OTC?   If not, I think it was either prt of her GFE illusion or you had her going enough for here hormones to overwhelm her sense of space.  
It is not just guys who occasionally fall for providers but (rarely) but still possible for providers to fall for a client.   Do be a gentleman & be cautious with her & not attempt to take advantage of her.  I am careful to rotate among Favorite providers...  so we both get perspective between appointments.  Serial appointments became so intense that I had to take a long break from her.
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Not long ago I was with a dancer I had convinced to go OTC for a 5 hour sex romp.  At about hour 4, she was snuggled up against me and said "I love........................laying her like this with you"  That pause was the longest 2 seconds in a long time.   I know she's got an ex that she still sees sometimes and I've overheard her tell him she loves him on the phone (while naked in bed with me), so I think she just got caught up in the moment.  Maybe she forgot who she was with for a second (I'm going with that because it makes me look better in my mind!    So maybe your experience was something like that.  Or, as others said, maybe a marketing ploy.

the only time those three words have ever been exchanged between us was on Valentine's Day.

I've had a client say he loved me several times within ONE 2hr visit so I mean it was weird but meh. She could be very infatuated with you now tho maybe not love but then again i'm not her.

I have to ask ............. did you ever disclose your crush to any of these gents?

Also, did you treat them better in any way than your ordinary clients?  

BTW, thanks for sharing.

Posted By: butterflydust

let me tell you, i have crushed on dudes with all kinds of aesthetics.  short guys, tall guys, skinny guys, fat guys, guys with waist-length hair, balding guys, mohawk-wearing pierced & tattooed punkers, straitlaced button-down professionals, total geeks (well, they've all been geeks, some measure of geekiness is an uncompromisable prerequisite), etc.  they were beautiful to me because something about them made me feel a little sunbeam was shining on me in their presence, or even simply when i was  thinking about them.

don't discount the idea that she may really like you just because you don't think you'll be submitting your photos to GQ any time soon.

of course, yes, it COULD just be a marketing ploy.  also, she may say strange things in the heat of the moment if she is really enjoying herself.  but there's always the possibility that she actually likes you and enjoys your company.