TER General Board

People are people.
GaGambler 1147 reads
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1 / 39

but as a group (always a big mistake) they are more honest than the married guys that make up the bulk of their clientele.

OTOH hand they are paid to be at least a little dishonest, I mean do you really want blunt, brutal honesty from the young hot thing that is only fucking you because you paid her. Too much honesty can be a bad thing.

MartiniMagic 1062 reads
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2 / 39

The perspective here seems to be skewed because a lot guys who've had negative experiences with women apply their biased spin inaccurately with a very broad brush. Bottom line is every situation is as unique as the people involved.

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 961 reads
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3 / 39

absolutely..it involves there very livelihood..unless we are talking about Backpage..where dishonesty is the norm..

JoeBanzai 30 Reviews 975 reads
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4 / 39

In the narrow context of sex, yes they are more honest. You certainly have a no strings situation. Once most of the civilian girls give you their "special gift" they have expectations. Many times you find out later they don't even like sex.

Dr Who revived 867 reads
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5 / 39

Hookers are indeed honest when it comes to selling pussy...maybe you've noticed that they even post "donations" on websites for their honesty.

Civvy gals are not as honest as they don't generally use websites to advertise their pussy.  But the guys who want civvy pussy aren't as naive as you're portraying the "old rich guy" either.  They know what the deal is...as does the trophy wife or GF.

Outside of selling pussy...women are honest when they want you to know what they want you to know. Same as you or I...or most people  LOL  
Posted By: blue6314
I know someone who says that prostitutes are more honest than other women--in other words, they are the most honest women--because they are selling ass and put a price on it. They are honest and upfront with the transaction and what each is getting from it. In contrast, he thinks that in many cases civvie women are also selling ass, but they are trying to cloak the transaction in a more socially acceptable way. You know, like when an old, rich guy has a young chippy at his side.  
   
 Thoughts?

Zana12345 See my TER Reviews 1184 reads
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6 / 39

Honesty depends on the person.  But I think that when the provider and the client get together they are honest about what they want.

Dr Who revived 1164 reads
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Dr Who revived 681 reads
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10 / 39

There are some guys who don't want to know the realities of a hookers life.  They just want to get fucked and sucked...period.

But then those dudes see a hooker more than a few times...or do the "long dates" and start listening to her stories, which quite often morph from meeting to meeting.  Then you see those dudes crying here about the phoniness and lying that a hooker perpetrates on him.

Why those guys want to listen...and then bitch about some apparent truisms that quickly become lies is beyond me.  But it happens...quite often.

But it's not only in Hobbyland...happens everywhere.  Honesty is grossly overrated.  Best to just STFU and stick to one story...but for most they simply can't do that.
Posted By: HonkingOnBoBo
Fuck your brains out, and look good doing it, does it matter if I'm honest or not?  What the fuck do you care?  
   
 How can you judge all hookers?  How can you define every hooker the same?  Just like all women?  Some lie, some don't.  Some cheat, some don't. Some dress like trampy sluts when out and about running the basic of errands, some don't.  Some women, and providers want to get married and have children, and some don't.  Some lie, cheat, steal, do drugs, manipulate, evade paying taxes, neglect their children, and some are salt of the earth individuals who just like to get paid to make your fantasy come true.  
   
 Some providers lie, some don't.   Me personally.... don't lie.  When someone asks me question I don't want to answer, I tell them it's none of their fucking business.  
   
 Yes, any woman having sex is indeed selling her ass.  Some do it for cash, others do it for whatever they want in return.  Could be sexual gratification, a new Jaguar, a shiny new Rolex.... the possibilities are endless.  But yeah, we are all selling our asses for something in return, even if it's just to achieve an orgasm without self stimulating.

Dr Who revived 954 reads
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11 / 39

Shit..even under oath most lie.

Why would average anyone tell the truth when it's more convenient to manufacture some story?  

But in this gig...I certainly don't give a rats ass if she is telling me the truth, anymore than she cares if I am telling her the truth.  To me it's an irrelevant fact to know

no_email 3 Reviews 1314 reads
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12 / 39

"We pay for it one way or another"  

I don't believe this statement to be un-true.  

 
After hearing it so many times, it is starting to sound like something we say to justify our whore mongering, kind of like a reassuring phrase we say to our self.

 
Your thoughts

*disclaimer I'm not against whore mongering*

MfSD 39 Reviews 1137 reads
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13 / 39

It's a good point. Besides what level of honesty are clients looking for....she shows up on time, provides service in exchange for the donation that matches her reviews, and she looks like her pictures...I'm good with that level of honesty.

MfSD>>>>

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 1122 reads
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14 / 39

I have had a lot of friends that Mary rich men they are not attracted to and most don't admit to THEM SELVES that it is all about money ....so I feel life I am more honest with myself about who and what I am . Don't let any if the girls I know hear you mumble the G.D word .....

ROGM 910 reads
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15 / 39

Posted By: bigvern
"We pay for it one way or another"  
   
 I don't believe this statement to be un-true.  
   
   
 After hearing it so many times, it is starting to sound like something we say to justify our whore mongering, kind of like a reassuring phrase we say to our self.  
   
   
 Your thoughts  
   
 *disclaimer I'm not against whore mongering*
Girlfriend, Wife or Providers, there's always a Price us Guys have to pay. Money is usually the top choice for Women. Girlfriend or Wife it's not only Money, it's also Time and don't forget the Yelling, Screaming, and Fighting.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 866 reads
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16 / 39

Your application of the word honest is very specific here. Honest about what their occupation is when dealing with booking a client? I would say yes. They have to be if they want to get any business. Even then, there is a fair amount of subterfuge involved up until clothing comes off and money is exchanged.  Honest about how they go about conducting business?  Sometimes yes, sometimes no. I've been, for the most part, very fortunate in this hobby but you don't have to read too far here on TER to find stories about customers being ripped-off in one form or another. If we are going to talk about "socially acceptable" I would ask you how many prostitutes would put that occupation on a credit application or a tax form? I'm gonna go out on a limb and say none.  So really, how honest are they?

Don't get me wrong, I'm a big fan of women in this industry but "honesty" only goes so far.  Discretion is what keeps things rolling along smoothly.

AnotherPerspective 1083 reads
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17 / 39

If you are yelling , screaming and fighting with your wife or GF ,  both  of you picked the wrong one .  

   Most women besides Gold diggers don't size a man up by his money . If a guy can't recognize a Gold digger , it's not her fault he's not wise enough to keep his money  .  
   Two twins with identical looks and almost identical charm walk into a bar . One twin tells everyone how rich he is ,  the other twin doesn't mention his money or the fact  he's richer than his brother  . The braggart  rich  twin will usually go home alone .  
    A man boasting  about his money will turn a  lot more women off  than on , except the Gold diggers .  
   

 
   
Posted By: ROGM
 
   Girlfriend, Wife or Providers, there's always a Price us Guys have to pay. Money is usually the top choice for Women. Girlfriend or Wife it's not only Money, it's also Time and don't forget the Yelling, Screaming, and Fighting.  

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 974 reads
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18 / 39
donbecker54 19 Reviews 1198 reads
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19 / 39

Posted By: ROGM
 
   
Posted By: bigvern
"We pay for it one way or another"    
     
  I don't believe this statement to be un-true.    
     
     
  After hearing it so many times, it is starting to sound like something we say to justify our whore mongering, kind of like a reassuring phrase we say to our self.  
     
     
  Your thoughts  
     
  *disclaimer I'm not against whore mongering*
   
 Girlfriend, Wife or Providers, there's always a Price us Guys have to pay. Money is usually the top choice for Women. Girlfriend or Wife it's not only Money, it's also Time and don't forget the Yelling, Screaming, and Fighting.  
Since my divorce months back, I've had time to reflect on my marriage, and this subject paying for it in particular.  

There's an axiom I heard recently that says, "if a woman has a good day, she has sex. If a man has sex, he has a good day".

Much of my marriage was devoted to making my wife's days good, and getting sex as a result. Sometimes it was gifts, other times it was going with her to something that bored me to tears. Other times we'd go out for dinner and/or drinks. After the first year or two of us dating, it was rare that we had sex without my first having done one of the above.  I paid. When I paid and stopped getting sex was the point where I realized the relationship was going south.

She never made enough money to cover her half of expenses. Now that she's gone, I have an extra $1500 or so a month that I can use for providers. I'm getting younger, more attractive women whose job it is to make me happy. I think it's a better deal

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1068 reads
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20 / 39

Both women and men are honest and dishonest. A lot of people, including me, let things fly out of their mouths because they think they know something, something is true, not true, etc. etc. A lot of us really don't even know what's really going on inside of us. How often do we even look?

I have to say, I've always been a people person, and I still am... BUT. I've noticed, personally, fast money can corrupt a person. So can lots of (dishonest) sex. Being discreet, hiding from suspicious people, having a different name than your own, having a system for someone to meet you in a hotel room or a discreet place because one (or two) are married, lying to your family about what you do for a living just so you can make a living? Getting surgery (haven't done that yet, but I'm sure one day...) to look like a different person, on and on and on...

I love this life, but I hope never to forget who I am and who the person is walking through the door.

While some hobbyists pry for information, I have control on what's appropriate and not appropriate to tell someone I'm providing for. Just like in real life. Not revealing information isn't lying... BUT...

The list above in paragraph 2 IS. Dishonesty to others and myself. So I'm a liar. :) (I am claiming taxes though. More out of fear than honesty though, lol.)

justanillusion 974 reads
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21 / 39

Personally I lie like a rug. I am paid to make every guy I see happy. And there are many time I have to lie to do it. I just consider it part of my job.

IRL, I am way more truthful, however, if the truth is just going to hurt someone, then no. If it's not life and  death I don't see the point. Sometimes honesty is over-rated.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 901 reads
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22 / 39

Posted By: MfSD
It's a good point. Besides what level of honesty are clients looking for....she shows up on time, provides service in exchange for the donation that matches her reviews, and she looks like her pictures...I'm good with that level of honesty.  
   
 MfSD>>>>

Hu11 40 Reviews 967 reads
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23 / 39

But, she will not steal your wallet if you are her customer -- there is no need, since she could just ask you to withdraw $$$ from ATM.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 994 reads
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24 / 39

when the hero took a lady out of the whore house he would say, "I'm going to make an honest woman out of you!" :D

Tufu 2 Reviews 609 reads
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26 / 39

Based on my experiences, you're an exception. Most women I meet want to talk about their lives, as well as others, and a few will go on and on with unsolicited info without any prompting on my part. I usually don't mind--I'm pretty curious about the people I fuck. I'm funny that way. But if you're the strong, silent type, that's fine also. World enough for all types.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 1206 reads
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28 / 39

Wait a minute. You just said you are a liar above, so I don't believe you. :D

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1087 reads
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29 / 39

Got me! Dammit... >:(

Posted By: perfectstorm
Wait a minute. You just said you are a liar above, so I don't believe you. :D

DirtyJesus 1045 reads
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RedheadBombshell See my TER Reviews 927 reads
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What an insightful and succinct message!  I'm ashamed I didn't compose it myself. Not too ashamed to "borrow" from it, of course.  Uh-oh....dishonesty reigns!
 

Posted By: Courtney.ova
Both women and men are honest and dishonest. A lot of people, including me, let things fly out of their mouths because they think they know something, something is true, not true, etc. etc. A lot of us really don't even know what's really going on inside of us. How often do we even look?  
   
 I have to say, I've always been a people person, and I still am... BUT. I've noticed, personally, fast money can corrupt a person. So can lots of (dishonest) sex. Being discreet, hiding from suspicious people, having a different name than your own, having a system for someone to meet you in a hotel room or a discreet place because one (or two) are married, lying to your family about what you do for a living just so you can make a living? Getting surgery (haven't done that yet, but I'm sure one day...) to look like a different person, on and on and on...  
   
 I love this life, but I hope never to forget who I am and who the person is walking through the door.  
   
 While some hobbyists pry for information, I have control on what's appropriate and not appropriate to tell someone I'm providing for. Just like in real life. Not revealing information isn't lying... BUT...  
   
 The list above in paragraph 2 IS. Dishonesty to others and myself. So I'm a liar. :) (I am claiming taxes though. More out of fear than honesty though, lol.)

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1001 reads
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33 / 39

WTF do they have to lose?

Now for some:

"Escalade, My car is in the shop and I need 200.00"
"Escalade, My water heater just broke and my kids need hot water hon"
"Escalade, Its been slow and the rent is due, I will make it up to you baby"

Perhaps, not so much....LOL

3mdssa 1067 reads
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Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1121 reads
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35 / 39

NO I will not give you my last name.
NO I will not GIVE you my LAST name.
Do you understand what kind of business this is? NO I WILL NOT... ok. I think it's time for you to go home.

Don't cross my boundaries or you'll get the truth, lol. That or you'll get a heel in the a** as you walk out the door.

Anywhoo, that's the only time I get nasty. (Other weird things happened too, and I got that guy out so fast. No.)

Sorry, just venting. This is when we discern what to say and what not to say. Very penetrating questions, especially the last name thing. Seriously? Come on.

Love my dates, just have to stay safe.

Good night everyone!!! :)

Courtney

LoboGris 3 Reviews 982 reads
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36 / 39

... but what did you say your last name was ??

GhostWriteroftheDamned 1126 reads
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Whether it’s "arranged marriage" negotiated by the parents while the girl is still a child, or in fairy tales where the heroine marries the "handsome Prince". It's always about hooking a rich, secure "provider" for a mate.  

  The general ethos behind prostitution is much more equal or "honest" than civilian dating and courtship; but the commonly found subterfuge, machinations, and questionable associations often beset a hooker due to its illegality often unfairly taints the individual character of the supply side participants

chicagodude123 1133 reads
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38 / 39

Well Pimps are bad people.  They usually tak advantage of the girls.  There are so many stories of pimps robbing the girls or the clients.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 1315 reads
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39 / 39

lol

Posted By: LoboGris
 
 ... but what did you say your last name was ??

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