ever meet up with with an escort  (ok girls or you with a guy)   that you hadnt seen in several or many years.   in my experience in most cases the magic was gone.   in worst case a lady i flew for several overnights and treated great,  a couple years later we hooked up in vegas and ..  she treated me like a quick vegas hit and quit trick.     or in another case the formerly stunning true 10 escort had gotten ..well  fluffy would be a kind word.    

I doubt they remember me ten minutes after I walk out the door.  

I have felt the same way.

A great session is a gift that keeps on giving, and it's free after the first payment.   Sometimes I think that is the best part of this whole enterprise.

I’ve had a couple cases of 3-year gaps between sessions.  In the first case, the first session was great but due to problems finding a mutual hole in calendars I didn’t see her again for about 3 years.  That session was ok, but I got the feeling she was on auto-pilot vs the first time when she seemed fully engaged. In the second case, my first session was a threesome with a friend of hers, and it was great.  For whatever reason I waited nearly three years before seeing her again, this time just her and for several hours.  It was one of the best sessions I’ve had with a provider.  Then not long afterwards she retired. I could kick myself for waiting as long as I did to get reacquainted.  

...saw this smart, hot, articulate young woman who would come down to the city and spend time. First three times, she came to my apartment, hung out, we had a leisurely hot, sensual time, talked about a range of topics, etc. She borrowed books from me. She was opening in a play back at school and I sent her opening night roses... she was so grateful. Then the next time I contact her to set up our next date it's like a different person -- she blasts me for not giving her a big enough tip. Comes out of nowhere -- it's all, "We spend so much time and you don't give me all this extra cash..." Hey, I said, you never asked and you acted like you just sincerely wanted to linger and hang out. if you had told me the first time, we would have made other arrangements or none at all. Maybe she had a pimp or angry SO, who the hell knows, but it really pissed me off.

I've done this twice. Both times it had been at least 3 years ( many more in one case) since I'd seen the provider. The sessions were every bit as good or better than the last time I had seen them and I had seen them both several times before circumstances caused the long break between sessions. I counted these ladies among my favorites. I put one of them in my top 3.

to  canceling a reunion with a former favorite after checking out her more recent pics on Twitter.  

To duplicate what we had say 5-6 years or so ago. Like I have mentioned before, there's only been once where we didn't skip a beat. It's just a sign of the time, we're all changing day to day.

several ladies who had retired and then returned to SW.  For me, the change in their physical appearance from what I remembered is the biggest disappointment, and from, since I'm not that attracted to her look, I'm just not into it as much as before.  Obviously, the length of time since the last time I saw her is the biggest factor.  If its a year, she usually doesn't change that  much unless she let herself go physically.  If its five or six years, the change can be dramatic.  Sometimes, the service will be a bit improved, but as you say, overall, you never get all the way back to the way it was before.  

I almost hate to shatter a perfect memory by seeing a provider who was a regular or atf after several years have passed. Unfortunately I have been sucked in by this temptation a few times with former pornstars. In two cases I was particularly shocked by the mileage on these women! Also the body transformation was astounding.  The one saving grace was that they both knew how to give bbdt!

My best experiences are women new to the business. They think they aren't doing enough for the massive amounts of money the are getting. They want to please and go over the top to do as much as possible to make you happy.

Alternately, repetitive tasks get boring.  

to fall into that trap in the market segment that I patronize most.  That's why its important to take charge of the session yourself and make it interesting for YOU.  Making it different that what she is used to makes it interesting for her as well.  Otherwise, you get the standard "script" where she is going through the motions while mentally zoned out, and after three or four of the same routine, you feel like you're "working" on an assembly line.

... do  you think you would remember the 87th Rib Eye steak you served in 2017?  
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Yes, your 87th Rib Eye customer will definitely remember that amazing, juicy steak, along with the bacon-wrapped scallop appetizer, and that bottle of 2014 Paraduxx wine they drank with it.  
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But you probably would not. That doesn't mean the quality of steak #825 and beyond are not the same high quality as your 1st 100, It just means you've served a lot of great steaks in three years.  
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With apologies to providers that think I am using this analogy to imply that your service is a simple commodity. Not my intention! Each service/customer experience is a genuinely unique moment... At least I hope it is! :p  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

your point is certainly usually right now.   but i have to admit i have been surprised by the occasional lady who actually does remember me !  ..   of course not certain if its because i was a particularly positive or a weird experience  LOL  

If there is meat involved.  

I've seen this lady at least a dozen times over the years.  She's with an agency, leaves every so often for a year or two break, but then will pop up again.  She's near 40 now, and still gorgeous. I don't know how she keeps that body looking so good, even with a kid, but she's held up better than me. Every time we get together, it's just as good as ever and we do have a real, friendly connection, which is nice.

It's still a relationship. In some cases feelings develop.  We spend countless hours and even days together.  We explore each others minds and bodies.  We laugh, we cry, we cum....
It's a relationship.  
Then, there's a parting of the ways. It's over.  
Years later I have that spark with someone else.  You are now the other man that everyone else was when we were hot and heavy.  
Just know that we are not void of feelings.  
I hope this helps.  

I'm happy to keep friends for life, but maybe that's because I keep light friendships.  I don't try to impose on them, and become wary if they try to impose too much on me.

I have a few friendships that are so "light" I only hear from them when they need something from me.  Lol

You must know my cousin.

with four words that I DON'T want to know your cousin.  Lol

No not that much good experience of mine, I almost remember every escort I had be but their are few girls who remember me when I message them back in 8 9 months they don't know me then

It's a numbers game.  Maybe you've seen a few (or a few dozen.)  She's probably seen hundreds.

This has happened to me more than a couple of times over the years.  
Their eyes clearly indicate that they don’t recognize you when you first meet again after a long absence. So the conversation remains general.
Then the clothes come off. And suddenly she asks if you still do a lot of biking or some other comment or question comes up that clearly indicates she now remembers you.
It’s probably not surprising that providers tend to remember you better when you’re naked.

During my hobby hiatus from 2016 thru July 2020, I continued attending M&G's, to keep up the community presence, since TER was down.  I met some new "friends" there, and caught up with old ones.  All fully clothed, obviously.  Recently, I met up individually (yeah, like that ) with one lady I knew from the M&G.  She remembered me from there, including what we talked about.  I feel like it made a slight difference in the service level.

That's sort of funny, but one provider actually told me she does remember peckers.

that spit in her eye!!

"I am probably the most forgettable human being walking the face of the earth."

speaking of never going back - sad news - found out via facebook another girl i dated in my youth passed away.   thats now 4  .....  that i know about !!     one wonders of the fate of others whose paths we have crossed.  

I tried to date a co-worker in the mid-1980's -- had a huge crush on her.  A couple years ago I found out she'd died 13 years earlier.  I think I would have been sad had I heard it at the time of her death.  But when you find out someone has already been dead 13 years it feels more like some ancient history rather than anything close to your heart.
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On the flip side of that, I was pretty shy as a teenager.  I had a crush on a girl in high school.  Never really talked to her or anything.  Always used to wonder whatever happened to her.  I finally met her at our 30 year reunion and we became good friends for a few years.  The meeting always made me happy to think about because I always felt a sort of melancholy about missing out on a possible romance/friendship.   We eventually stopped communicating after a few years -- leaving me with the realization that I really hadn't missed "the one and only."  We weren't a good match.  She was just a fantasy.  
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I felt a lot better about my life after that.  There was really no "other" out there that I had missed meeting.  My crushes were based on non-rational things.  So in retrospect I hadn't really missed great opportunities.  

friends start dying.  All you can do is pay  your respects to your departed friend at his funeral and do your best to console the young rich widows over the next few weeks.