Ladies what makes you want to go for the gusto with cowgirl (mashing down on the dick as hard as you can) versus taking your time with cowgirl ?

My guess would How horney they are as opposed to fast or how slow they want you to get off.Had one the other day couldnt get me off fast enough so we could do it again and have had dates were they ant me to get off so they can chill rest of time....LMAO..............saber

It is fun when you are use to them taking slow and then they go wild mashing down on it like there is no tomorrow.

because she either doesn't know what she is doing, or doesn't care and she is all over the place risking junior with her sloppy style.  This is also known as "Bad" CG.

Then there is MFCG AKA "male first", or "male fast" Where the lady concentrates solely on getting the guy off as fast as she can and  getting the male finish is the only goal.

Then there is FFCG or "female first".  This is where the lady rides you with her pleasure being her sole goal.  She is there to get hers and if it feels good for you, fine, but that is no where in her mind, she is simply riding to get her ring a ding ding, yabba dabba do, O God O God, body shuddering orgasm.  And as soon as she does, off she goes.

And Lastly there is MCG, or "Mutual".  This is where you are rocking in rhythm and both of you are getting to the promised land and both are enjoying the ride there.  This by the way, is the correct way for CG to happen and should be the goal of hobyists and providers everywhere.

I hope this information helps!

Have Fun And Ride With Care!




By The Way, This Is Whole Other Kind Of Cowgirl...LOL...

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Girls do that? Ouch, that sounds painful.

Never having had a dick of my own though, sometimes I don't realize something is less than pleasurable for the gentleman. That is why I love it when a gentleman tells me what he likes, what doesn't work, and of course, tells me if something I am doing is actually hurting him.

I don't know about this mashing on the dick thing, but I do know communication is key. If her style of CG doesn't feel good, either suggest a differnt position, or tell her she is doing it wrong and tell her how you would prefer it done

PS. One word of advice....HOLD STILL DAMMIT. I hate it when guys bounce around under me. You screw up my rhythm (I know what I"m doing thank you, just lay back and enjoy), wear my legs out, and the only time I ever had an accident of the "oh shit, did I break it??" variety was when he kept bouncing around too much. So just lay back and enjoy.

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That picture reminds me of BebeDoll...but that's a whole other story!

Having said that...

You are correct in that #4 is the correct use of CG, but I am very open to #3 as well.  The problem is that there are *some* ladies in the biz who do #2, basically to get the appointment over as soon as possible, and they has Z-E-R-O T-E-C-H-N-I-Q-U-E!  It is the equivalent of a guy being on top and just pistoning in and out with no technique.  YUK!

I don't know if it is porn flicks or what that makes women think that is sexy or fulfilling for a guy, but it is about as fulfilling as choking the bishop, ya know?

I'm assuming that the previous is where the cow girl rides in an up & down motion...  if so you have missed a delightful technique.  
I find it's easier to achieve on a bench or narrow coffee table where the lady settles deep in the saddle, plants the tip on her cervix & just rocks back & forth.  The civie (RN) who taught me this worked for Planned Parenthood & I bet it would have been good for that!  LOL.  

Details:  When the lady is very turned on & ready for O, the cervix changes position.  At that point, the C becomes a trigger for her O.  In my experience, the tip of the Penis is a trigger for me, so this is pretty intense if the fit, timing, and the stars align.  The fit has worked for me with some providers but not with others.  
skb

Could be described as reverse mish.  Lady on top, comes down for maximal body contact, kissing, wrap arms around her...same dynamics as mish except in reverse.  Pertinent since I spilled a cup last night in this manner.  Oh, yeah!

If I rode you hard and fast you would explode in the first 6o seconds!!

Perhaps that is why they ride FAST
To get it over with...Not my style
I rather like to M I L K my men!!

XOXO

I learned the hard way that a) I can never get the rhythm right during CG and b) it feels sooooo damn good when I just let go and let the lady have her way with me and my body.  It's truly a win/win situation.

It just might be, because according to sex manuals, if done properly, it's the position that delays ejaculation the longest because the
man plays a relatively passive mode & is less likely to suffer muscle tension & able to hold off coming for a longer time.

One, who I have seen several times has a great slow and sensual technique similar to what SKB described. She has a way of making me last quite a lot longer than I normally would.

The other, who I have only seen once, cowgirl is the only way she can squirt. She has her own technique, which starts by her telling you, "Don't move". She then rides slowly up and down, but only about half way, so just the head is involved. When she's getting ready, she seems to know when you're going to cum, goes all the way down, rocks forward and back, and squirts at the same time as you. I don't know if she can do this every time, but she got it perfectly timed with me. YIKES!!!

I like the idea of the guy being in a passive mode in many positions and milking him...
But then again...I do so enjoy it when we move to the beat together
fast or slow
Any time you use your mind and body together in an effort to explore your sensuality it's a good thing
I think a few times when I was riding I was able to tell that my date didn't enjoy the position as much as I did...HOWEVER...he did enjoy it for other reasone...the VISUAL and his DESIRE to please me. I also love cowgirl and having my nipples sucked on at the same time..that produces some very WET fun!!

Most Gentleman love us to be satisfied and for most ladies...Cowgirl is a very orgasmic!!

It oughtta be slow and sensual, at least to begin with... The only time I speed up if if I am cummin'. Then I slow back down. Great position for passion to be explored in kissing, breast suckling and I like to reach back a massage the balls too! ... I am getting moist. lol

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It depends on the size of...well...you know.

the first is to bounce up and down at 90 strokes per second - with force of 14000 lbs per sq inch.  This leads to a somewhat less than pleaurable experience and is sure to decrease the ability of the small head to withstand such pounding.

The second is to tease the little fella outa his shell... tantalize him to the point of eruption... with the soft and gentle caress of the ladies flower petel like lips...  the moist lubricant of her offering creating a glide rather than a grind.  that feels oh so much better - and creates a more lasting impression.  Holding off - a fraction of an inch so that you feel the body heat and sense the presence of the joy that is to come...  and in doing so - my member jumps to try to enter - only to squeeze out a tiny bit of ecstacy which dribbles into delight...


Yea I'll take #2 any day.

Cowgirl is worth it just for that initial pleasure of a sexy lady slowly lowering her wet self down onto my fully erect shaft, all the way down to the base. If done right, it is spectacular. And now I have to go find a girl to enjoy it with after reading all of this...

Oh my.  This whole conversation is a turn on.  Last night i was with a provider (Ann Braxton, Chicago) who absolutely loves CG and we did it twice.  I was quite taken aback on round two on the exquisite loud pleasure she demonstrated while pounding away.  I would let a provider do whatever she wants to get off--as long as it is before me.

But it is natural to want to thrust upward.  Maybe we should practice more.

when I start really rocking, it's cause I'm about to come. Don't worry, I'll slow back down and concentrate on you again when I'm through

ATF chose the gradually increasing up & down...  I'm loving the view...  but then I can't keep my hands down.  I just hold them so her niples brush my palms & she starts O's again.  Almost took me along then & there.  
Dang, I need another date already...
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