There are very few local providers in my area and i've always relied on P411 and TER to  
find visiting providers. More providers are on Tryst Link. Have you had good luck, bad
luck or so so using Tryst Link? Thanks

P 411 is better in my opinion. The selection maybe smaller but some girls will you allow you to use oks instead on rwi. Be very careful sending out your personal info. You can get screwed. I’ve had much better luck using p411. Btw, cress’s check bc some providers on Tryst are in p411 and if so then that can view your p411 profile and let you use oks by previous providers instead of sending out your personal info. Good lipuck!

I have had good luck using Tryst to find both local and touring ladies coming to my area. However, 95% of the time I'm only considering the ones who have TER reviews. I always cross check. On a rare occassion, I may TOFTT, but that is only if I am able to do other research and feel it passes the smell test despite the lack of TER reviews. That said, at least 3/4 of those posting on Tryst do not have TER reviews nor pass the smell test.

I’ve never seen anyone based only on tryst. I have to be able to verify from other sources.

Always cross reference and do your research. There are a lot of deposit scammers and onlyfans accounts on tryst. I have posted before some tips to locate the scammers. As always, if it seems to good to be true it probably is!!

As Ronald Reagan said: "Trust but verify."

I’ve paid $300 for ads in one month to be listed in multiple cities & categories. I won’t renew. TER is free to post ads. I have a VIP membership it’s priceless.

I agree. I’ve not relied on one source since I gave up my P411 membership. I can usually cross-reference between TER and Tryst to come up with the best option(s), but it’s still hit or miss for me. I’m also in an area where the pickings are slim. I’m heading to the Sugar world next to see if it’s any better.

Tryst link does not verify anyone.  If they pay for the ad they get the space.  So check for reviews.

AllTheTimeBaby5 hours ago1 reads1 likes
I always verify on TER or P411red_smile
As Ronald Reagan said: "Trust but verify."

You can see me on Tryst in the midwest.

Tryst is like the "Eros" of the early 2000's, albeit it is a better looking site.

I have found one or two ladies via Tryst, but they were verifiable somewhere else. One was reviewed here.   I have noticed several girls in the NY/Long Island Tryst pages that cannot be verified, have no reviews on TER but have been putting ads here. They also seem to change names, so it would be wise to avoid them.

How did you pay $300. When highest is $175.
But I get what you mean with no calls, alot areas are so filled with women and most of them are scammers or the cat sucks. I had a hard time getting great men to call as well

...and am booked for a third.

When Tryst came out it quickly became the preferred platform for providers and clients alike. However it has taken a swift turn downward for a few reasons. The biggest problem is that Tryst is the cheapest platform and even allows for free advertisers. Its low cost was at first good for providers but it has come back to bite the platform in the butt. First, there are a lot of OF girls on there, they're not looking to book clients just drive traffic to OF. It works because some clients, like myself, will use OF to check out and verify providers. I think its worth it to spend a few bucks to see what a provider really looks like. Unfortunately OF girls noticed this and started posting. The next is it attracts too many scammers and fake accounts. As others said they don't verify. It is cheap and easy to set up a scam profile. Finally, the low cost has lead to too many unprofessional, low quality (sometimes part time) providers. Since other sites are more money, they tend to filter out "less successful" providers. This isn't the case with Tryst due to its lower cost. Finally, it allows providers to list multiple cities. This is both good and bad. It is good to see which providers may be visiting in the future. It stinks when you are searching "available now" and it shows you a bunch of providers who will be here in a month from now.
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While it has its issues and I have complained about it before, it is the best option if you aren't in a major city. You just have to cross check with TER and filter out tons of ads. 90% of the ads I click on end up being a firm Do Not Book. This is usually due to a lack of reviews, ridiculous screening/deposit policies and high chance the ad is a scam.

Thanks for the PSA.

they have sooo many ads and, frankly, there just aren't that many trustworthy providers in my area.  On top of that, maybe 1 in 20 will have a p411/ter link in their ad, or even a link to a website other than OF..  Just not worth it for me, at least not yet.

This simply isn't true. All profiles are required to provide ID and a selfie. During my verification process I also had to submit a photo with the current date while wearing lingerie from my submitted photos. It takes weeks to be approved. Periodically, they'll require providers to re-verify.

It is lots of bs 💩 scammers & time wasters. P411 is polluted with entitlement with bs okays from providers who don’t recall caca. P411 does not verify. I see zero traffic from p411. I receive the majority of my bookings from TER. When I look at website analytics 📈 it’s TER and then tryst.

P411 outperforms Tryst for me in bringing in actual dates.  
I have tried both paid and free options on Tryst with little return, and the number of scammer emails I get trying to hack my account are insane.  

With Tryst it is best to cross reference TER to see if they have reviews. There are a lot of scammers on Tryst. I should know. I have been scammed for a deposit once even after doing a video verify call first.  

Like ever! Always do research and find where else we are listed. A Google of phone number, name with word escort, their email will lead you to the corners of the earth!

They even went through the trouble of doing the video call?!? Jesus Christ that is shitty. Sorry this happened to you. These are the "providers" that give our industry a bad name.

Tryst is good and so is TER but to be safe the Provider should have an add on P411.
I was recently scammed out of deposit money from two providers who were listed on Tryst and TER but not on P411.

Please make sure to file scam reports to both tryst and TER!! No one in this industry wants the scammers. Sorry this happened to you.

And P411 is king to help you how?

Tryst has changed many time wasters and scammers. It’s almost as bad as Eros has become. A few respectful connections. As far as communication with site, you can forget it! Response is incredibly slow. What’s up with that!? P411 I only use to show I am real. I always use my method of verification. They do have bazaar clients when they contact you and that’s if they do mostly time wasters. This site has declined also in my opinion. I joined velvet 22. I am going to take the plunge and become a TER paid member. I hope it’s worth it!

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Just a note -- really enjoyed your writing style on your Tryst profile. Evoked visions I could almost taste!

That is the route I take.  I may start on tryst, but will end on P411 or TER, or both.