It seems intuitive to me that it would be better to do a double with providers one has seen individually, so the threesome can be focused on the new territory.  I've only done three and all were with providers I'd seen individually (in fact one provider was the same in all three) prior to the double so I'm interested in how others have done it.

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one of us girls had already had a previous date with the gentleman and the other didn't. I honestly think it's better if the gentleman has met each girl separately so the doubles date can go as smoothly and comfortably as possible. It always helps when everyone knows everyone.

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This way....watch out. I busted my first nut in minutes ...  Seconds....
These women can be.... Overwhelming.  
Sometimes I wonder about them.  
Beautiful creatures..
It is like keeping a lit stick of dynamite strapped to your neck.
But you want it there.

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I think I just threw up in my mouth a little. Thanks for the save Curly!

I would do doubles with two folks who really were hot for each other.  Ideally a couple that were together in real life.  That probably means a girl and a guy.  Therein lies the problem - I'm not into naked dudes (nor are they into me) and true lesbians rarely find me attractive (to my dismay).  So perhaps that leaves a girl and a trans girl.  Sounds mildly interesting, but probably not enough to make me overcome the performance fear and sticker shock.

Truth be told, my concern with a double would be that I would be more attentive to one person and make the other feel alienated.

Doubles in Bangkok, when I need a break I kick back and watch them make love to each other, then I get back in bed and the middle and finish what they really want after all the role playing. And guys happens all the time on my trips to Bkk for about $400 us for 3 or 4 hrs. Beautiful ladies I must add! LOL

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You sit and talk to the providers while everyone is naked. A client of mine hired a provider in and I just enjoyed seeing her tits out of the corner of my eye the entire time. (ok, right in eyesight bc they were huge, lol).

 
Then spend a few minutes doing it, and a few more minutes kissing good bye, bam. You're good!

I've usually allowed one girl that I've seen and have some sort of rapport with, bring a friend along--by that point, she usually knows me well enough to know whom I might like amongst her friends.

I broke this rule for the first time this past week, when my friend asked me to "bring someone new home to play with".  Fortunately, I had another friend in mind whom I knew would be a perfect fit for us.  I was right, the three of us had a great time together; but in this case, I knew both girls extremely well, having seen them multiple times.

In general, I think letting one provider (assuming you have an ongoing thing with her already) choose who bachelorette #2 will be is the way to go.

the few times that I have done doubles, the girls new each other and I had seen them separately.  when I first discussed doing a double , a provider that I had seen several times  set me up with one of her friends to see if we hit it off first.

I have my first double scheduled... I have been with one of the girls 4 times, but only know the other to say hello or have light conversation with. Both are very hot..
My imagination has been going wild, frankly, with possibilities.. I see the posting here aboutgetting off in aboutthree seconds.. I'm kind of sure that will happen with me.. I scheduled a 90 minute session for exactly that reason.. Picture an 8 year old kid a week before Xmas.. That's me..

In a few cases I had never met both of them, but they were good friends and it was amazing.  In other cases I knew one and she invited a good friend.  The worst case was where I knew them both individually and they had never met.  I thought the whole would be greater than the sum of its parts, but I was wrong.

It wasn't bad, but it wasn't as organic as the only thing they had in common was me.

8o)

Sorry, couldn't resist that one.

But seriously:

I used to do doubles quite a bit (When body and bank account were more robust.), and each time one of the providers was someone I knew well and she brought along the other gal.

They all went very well.

My favorite was to lie on my back and have one straddle my face while the other gave me head or rode me in CG.  Then the two would switch off and we start anew.

I recall a funny scene where the gal riding CG was trying to chat with the gal I was DATY with and the latter (Who was trying to build up to an orgasm.) shouted out to her friend:  "A little bit busy over here."  I nearly choked with laughter.

God, could that gal cum and squirt buckets.  I still see that gal but her friend faded away years ago, sadly.  They were my favorite duo regulars.

The gal who faded out was also very kinky.  When I first wanted to have FS with her she said to me:  "If you want it, you're going to have to fight for it."  And essentially we ended up in a rather spirited wrestling match  (She was muscular and had about twenty pounds on me, so this was no cream-puff match-up.)  I had to fight to get her legs separated and the whole bout took about 15 minutes.  When I finally got inside her she acquiesced and I had a super ejaculation, as did she.  I had more than a few black and blue spots on me after that.  In fact I recall telling the spouse that I took a tumble at work to explain them away.

I've never found anyone to offer a service like that before.  This was about 20 years ago, and I doubt I could put out the physical effort needed these days, but boy, what memories.

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it works best when the girls know each other and are truly bi. I've done several and have found that having my ATF bring a friend, even one I don't know, usually works well. So well, in fact, that, if it weren't twice the price, I would  go that way every time. As for the 'cumming in 3 seconds' problem, I've found one of the best things about duos is that if you feel you are at the edge too soon, you can always tell your truly bi friends to have at it and then just sit back and enjoy the show for a while.

I think we all agree that chemistry between the 2 ladies is essential to a good 3some.  If they're not DFKing and DATYing each other then I might as well have two separate sessions.  But in my experience there isn't one formula.  I've had ladies I knew well nominate another lady, I've met two ladies who were new to me but who knew each other well. I think the only thing I haven't done is a session where none of the 3 of us had ever met.  I imagine that would be tricky.

I also had the benefit of having seen a number of ladies in sessions that focused 100% on girl-girl action while I just watched.  (Hey it's my money and my kink)  You certainly get to see how comfortable they are with each other in a session such as that.

However you do it I think the key is to take all the steps you reasonably can to get the ladies to get to know and be comfortable with each other.  IMHO there is nothing more sensually beautiful than two women making love.  And that's only going to happen when they're comfortable with each other.

Last one I did I only came once right at the end but it was mind blowing because I was able to keep backing off a bit while the girls did stuff...there really is nothing like it.

Really cool answers, it's interesting to hear other views on such a very important subject