: TER General Board Discussion : Or I could have my footman

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1659 reads

posted 13 years ago

1 / 21

Thank you for an amazing date "PM" "Text" "Email"

Do you "Thank" them after the date?
Do you appreciate the "Thank You" after?

Your thoughts if any?

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SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 474 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 21

I do appreciate a thank-you note..

If I want to thank them, I will schedule another meeting for another fuck meet... I believe that a repeat visit is a better thank you than a hollow note.

Nothing wrong with thanking them.. But the world view that I believe in, the one who renders service is to thank the one who is paying..

But I am sure in the Mangina world where the "ball-less" rule, you guys believe in the contrary.

STPhomer 176 Reviews 525 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 21

Yes , matter of fact I do

You may demean or discredit as much as you like. But in my opinion simple coutesy is an indicator of maturity, professionalism and class.

I am very selective as to whom I see. As a result I rarely have a negative experience. A quick email expressing appreciation for a delight afternoon or evening seems like a rather easy and decent thing. A repeat visit might not always be in the card for a variety of reasons. But that in no way means I did not have an enjoyable session. Taking a minute for a followup communique seems like an effortless way to acknowledge gratitude.

And yes, I think it's pretty cool when the lady iniates a "thank you". Matter of fact I had a 2 hr session last night with one of the hottest...brightest...wittiest babes I have ever seen. Really one of the nations top babes IMHO. I received a thank you email from her an hour after she left my room. Classy move on her part if you ask me.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 371 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 21

My response was targetted towards MaginaLade not you STP..

Same thing coming from two different people delivers a different message..

ismellturkey 511 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 21

I like receiving them!

Thank you email's makes me feel like you actually had a good time with me. I always worry the guy didn't have fun with me if he doesn't send a reply thank you lol.

keystonekid 114 Reviews 466 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 21

Re: +1 STP. Nothing wrong with being a gentleman and thanking the . . .

lady for a great time.

A repeat visit is the best tip.

AlfredReader 17 Reviews 437 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 21

Do you work at being obnoxious?

Courtesy isn't a matter of who pays and who doesn't. It is a matter of treating others decently.

It's great for you to think a repeat visit is better than a hollow note. Glad to know your correspondences are typically hollow.

If I see a provider who was traveling, or if I was traveling, the odds of a return visit can be very small. I generally feel that if she brightened my evening it isn't too big an impingement on my time to send a quick note telling her so. As with most of your posts you feel the need, almost the obligation, to inform everyone that YOUR approach to this business is the superior one.

As I said, obnoxious, and for no good reason.

89Springer 363 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 21

I thank her, and she usually thanks me

If possible, I send a thank-you text, and I usually get one back. I thank her on the way out the door, too. Yeah, I'm paying her, but that doesn't mean she had to see me.

xray84 28 Reviews 399 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 21

Almost always

Because I think being polite is the hallmark of a gentleman. It's not only good manners, it's -smart-, because you'll get:

Traveling ladies more likely to return to your area.
OTC time, like lunch after a date.
Grandfathered rates, which is a courtesy, they don't have to do that.
References and UTR referrals, etc.

This isn't even specific to TER, or provider/client relationships. A little common courtesy would really help our society function a littler better. Why not? Get over the "I pay them, so fuck what they think" and try a little humanity

hotplants 461 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 21

I've been fiddlin' around for a while and I can't find any balls...

Is that why I offer a thank you note sometimes? OMG?! Am I a mangina?

"the one who renders the service is to thank the one who is paying..." Should we all kneel now?..what's the protocol here?

You don't actually have to say everything you're thinking out loud, ya know

Crisis25 436 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 21

Hell yes

I got an "I couldn't walk straight for the rest of the day" email once. It was pretty hilarious.

Jamie.Solo See my TER Reviews 489 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 21

I always send a quick note

Especially if it was a memorable time. But then again I use the manners I was taught when growing up. I think I may be alone in that department.

I have only received a couple thank you notes, and I don't think it makes u a "mangina". It is a simple courtesy that takes what- 30 seconds to a minute. If you had a good time, telling me so afterwards is very thoughtful and lets me know I am doing something right, especially for those who don't write reviews. It is a sweet and genuine gesture that can make the session even more memorable.

RobinArdeur See my TER Reviews 387 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 21

I always send a thank you note.

It's the little things that count in this biz- and I am genuinely appreciative of the time I share with the guys I see! (With a few exceptions over the years, of course- but in those cases, I have been known to send more 'firm' notes.)

Posted By: escalade1964

Do you "Thank" them after the date?
Do you appreciate the "Thank You" after?

Your thoughts if any?

-- Modified on 10/14/2013 4:17:52 PM