How do some of you keep this stuff superficial and not get attached?

a wallet with legs.

I just fuck a bunch of different women, It's much easier to keep from getting attached when you are always looking forward to the next woman you are going to fuck instead of backwards at the last woman that you fucked. I will sometimes be thinking about the next woman WHILE fucking the current one. lol

LOLOLOL... I guess that makes it easy!

the fastest way to get over a woman is ............... get over another     keep it superficial?? ... ask the girl out for an expensive dinner with no donation for the time outside the bedroom.. .. she her response.  

It's getting unattached that can be tough.

I'm good at finding the ladies who like to be real life friends with their exceptional clients. As for not getting too attached, I always have 3 or 4 girlfriends in rotation, so I'm not getting overly attached to 1 woman. The boundaries get blurred with me, but never crossed.

Nature was pushing me to get attached when I was young.  
But they kept rejecting me.  
I found providers. It was/it is understood that it's "superficial" and no attachments required.  
It made sense, I liked it and accepted it. Now I don't even know what getting attached means and I'm not interested in that.  
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A wallet with fish-breath.  

shit's gettin' a little blurry for me too... not liking it too much either...

it’s a service.

Just tell yourself that was the divorce papers being submitted.

Just keep it real. Know it's a business transaction first, but like mainstream businesses you can have real relationships/friendships between clients and customers.

for a few weeks and she will take you for $15,000.  The guys I know that did this were PERMANENTLY cured of any future infatuations.

But even with the providers who I really like and see regularly over a period of years, and who I would probably enjoy hanging out with apart from paying them to fuck, whatever emotional attachment I develop doesn't seem to evolve into a desire to date or have some sort of SO or girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. Somehow I'm able to keep favorite providers in the same mental/emotional category as favorite restaurants, the woman whose cut my hair for many years, etc.

Even in civie life, having multiple options tends to prevent obsession. We are creatures of habit.  The more you hang out with just one person, the more you will want to hang out with that one person.   Spin more plates.  As you flit around trying to keep them all spinning, a few crashing to the floor is not going to upset you too much.

Then the inevitable will happen, you will be miserable and will have learned a valuable lesson...the hard way, which is the way that we seem to learn the most valuable lessons.

However, I have found it IS possible to have a real relationship with a provider, but it really needs to be initiated by her, and the progression has to look the same to you as a civvie-girl relationship.  Many will just fake it to get something out of you.  I may have a good connection with a girl I'm seeing professionally, but its not going anywhere unless she falls for me first, then if I'm interested, I will let my guard down and we will see what develops in the way of real feelings.  IF I'm NOT interested, then I might be the one to fake it for awhile for the free sex that goes with an outside relationship. If I know they are genuinely pursuing me for affection and not money, I try to give them enough time to close the deal before I say no.  I know that sounds shallow, but we can't all be perfect when it comes to women.  Dating providers in real life is always a slippery slope.  There are many more variables that can torpedo the relationship than there are with civvie girls.  In my experience, the saving grace is that there tends to be far less drama dating a working girl than with civvie girls.  I think its because they understand men better.

People would think we would want a client to get attached because the money would go to us, but I have learned it backfires. They need a lot of attention and can drain you of a lot of energy.

Yes, allowing a client to get "too attached" is NOT in a providers best interest because at some point you are going to have to cut him completely out of your life and instead of getting ALL his "cookie money" you end up having to refuse it all, for your own sanity if for no other reason.

I agree that at least some of them understand men better. They certainly understand men’s sex drive better.

There are a lot more retiring providers looking for the perfect guy to exit the biz with than there are single guys who are financially stable, understand the difference between the customer dynamic and that of a real boyfriend, and who are not bothered by her past.  I have met many providers who are looking for a guy who doesn't know about their sex-worker past, but these just become a ticking time bomb for the relationship.  Its better to get it on the table and make sure he can handle it than to have him find out down the road and assume she didn't tell him because she was ashamed of her past, or worse, didn't trust him enough that he could deal with it if he really cared for her.  Its a lose-lose by not telling him.