Okay last week I saw the thread about reviewing your last session with the SO and it gave root to this question. How many here still have SEX with your EX? If so Why? Why did you split? Why do you still get together? Providers and Hobbiest are both welcome to comment.

1.) I do with my ex-boyfriend.

2.) He is 10 years younger than me and we are at different places in our lives.

3.) We are good friends and are still attracted to one another for the same reasons that got us together in the first place.

I try to surround myself with open minded, sex positive people, and as a result the above just doesn't even seem taboo to me.  My ex is no longer my primary partner and we have altered the boundaries of our relationship but we still have tender feelings for each other and we occasionally express them through touch and love making.

I still have sex with two of my ex's. Why.... its a pretty simple answer; i know what they like.. they know what i like.

its a simple, no hassel, no strings-attached type of relationship. the reasons we broke up is the same as all my relationships (all but 1 atleast), that im to focused on my own career (posting this from office .

we live in a age, where the feminist movement has happend, where work is considered to be a prized position, especially one where pay is good & benefits are stacked. Its only natural that all of us working/living we dont all have time to meet new people (though i'd like to). so i guess its like the old saying "we turn to what we know".

my 2cents

I didn't speak with my ex husband for three years after our divorce.  Once we did start speaking....we were between the sheets within a week!  After that, it became too emotional.  The sex was great, but all the old "baggage" started to come back up, so we ended it.  I think it's the "familiarity" that can be a turn on.

Why not! It took us a while before it happened, but every now & then we say WTH and go for it. Since I am still paying alimony, it's just like seeing a another provider & paying for it, except she is not my ATF!

Sex with my Ex, you've got to be kidding!



Joey

I've have had so much fun without him. I could never think about doing it with him ever again. He was the one that got pleased not me.

Sorry, but it's true  

-- Modified on 3/29/2004 5:40:00 PM

Not a chance.  Kind of disgusting to even think about.  Probably for her too!

A guy goes to his doctor and says,
"Doc, I have a problem."

"My girlfriend is sleeping over this Friday, my ex-wife is sleeping over this Saturday and my wife is coming home Sunday."

"I need 3 Viagra pills to satisfy them all."

The doctor says, "You know 3 Viagra pills 3 nights in a row is pretty dangerous for any man. I will give them to you on the condition that you return to my office on Monday so that I can check you out."

The man says, "You have a deal Doc."

Monday morning the man returns with his arm in a sling.

The doctor asks, "What happened"?

The man answered, "Nobody showed up!"

Tally-Ho!

 

Do I still have sex with my EX? (GF in my case)

My most recent ex, no, however I still have a sometimey hookup situation working with one of my other ex-gfs. Its kind of nice to get together once in a while when neither of us is seeing someone.

People-

Has no-one ever hear d the term "back-sliding"   that's what we called it where I come from... (SF/Berkeley Term Late 1980s-90s)

same as Mudslide slim...circa 1971...James Taylor,,,Baston, Mass
makes a pretty cool drink too...extra kaluha!

and then there was slipsliding...away...Paul "Rhymen" Simon,1981, Central park, NYC...

We work in our jobs
Collect our pay
See our ex-wifes for play
Believe we're riding down the highway when in fact we're slip-sliding away.
Slip-sliding away.
You know the nearer your destination the more you're slipsliding away."
- Paul Simon and one line from VR

Cheers!

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