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blunt4299 17 Reviews 74 reads
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Having or not having OnlyFans has zero impact on my decision to see someone.

Or has this become a bad thing since there so many onlyfans ladies now.

Having or not having OnlyFans has zero impact on my decision to see someone.

....between real providers that have OF and OF models that swarm the ad sites.  It's pretty cool to see women that I've played with generating new work to enjoy.  

I wouldn't subscribe to one. But I don’t necessarily see it as a bad thing.
I view it like sending a deposit,I wouldn’t do that so…🤷🏻‍♂️
But some OF accounts do well so… it is what it is

Granted, I've taken a dozen years off so ANY request for digital content is an "uptick" from zero, but in the last 4 months or so I've had at least a dozen requests for such from both gents who have scheduled with me (phrasing it as something to 'tide them over' before meeting) and from those who haven't (phrased as "at least I can enjoy you that way"). That, along with a handful of inquiries regarding filming our dates and my increasing desire NOT to be in the US because of .... *gestures widely*....  has me seriously considering starting an OF or something similar.

hehitshewins54 reads

It's not a deal breaker, per say. But it's one step closer to a porn star, and further away from being a girl next door type. It's harder for me to feel a GFE vibe if I know she is doing porn or has an OnlyFans.

RespectfulRobert63 reads

It has cut down on the number of ladies willing to meet face to face, instantly gives me the impression (albeit sometimes wrongly) that I shouldn't research her any longer bc it will end up wasting my time and it has, in part imo, added to the staggering price increase we have seen in the last 4-5 years.  
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Many women use it in lieu of having a professional website so it also is problematic that way as I get so much info from a standard website.  
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I understand why women are on the platform, but I am just speaking from a purely selfish POV.

(I just got into the Discussion Boards)-
Many of the OnlyFans models will Scam you.
I offered Desiree Desire (the white/latina one) $8000 for a date.
She said Yes, we emailed for 3 months and had a date set and then she Ghosted me.
She took $6500 from me and won’t pay any of it back.
So guys,
If you need to use OnlyFans- do Not support Desiree Desire.
She only wants to Scam you

I'm sorry this happened to you. By your review history you look fairly new to this little corner of the world. Having to send that amount of $$$$ to secure a date is a HUGE, glaring red flag.  

I see her account on X and insta. I'm not on OF but I do know there are rules. Did any of the set up for this fantasy date get discussed on OF? You do have some recourse depending on how far you wan to take it.

Again, I'm sorry you got taken advantage of.

 
Steph XO

You say you offered her $8000 for a date, but you say you sent her $6500.  Is it possible that she was merely waiting for the other $1500 before seeing you?  Inasmuch as there are ladies here on TER that have said are usually paid in full BEFORE the date, did she ask you at all to fulfill the balance of your offer before agreeing on a day to meet?    

 
You said you emailed for three months.   I can envision a scenario where she is waiting for the last $1500 before meeting you, and you are reluctant to send more money in advance.  It seems like it might be a standoff where neither party wants to give in. and the situation becomes static.  More info about what transpired during the 3 months of emailing might shed some light.

I decided to get into the hobby fully. It did pretty well and now with all that I have going on there are not enough hours in the day for me to focus on all of it. I did get a new one a few months ago but nothing transpired from it plus I prefer to spend time with you in person I just don't feel comfortable sharing pics when you can see me in person and vice versa. I prefer the human touch not a touch screen...

I’ve had my onlyfans, since covid. I utilize it as an opportunity to look at all of my unedited raw nude adult content no PPV.  Professional photos can only sell an image not your personality.  My OF is my fun zone.

I do not think I utilize it, like the majority do.  My target is not lots of fans. I prefer to entertain a lucky few.  I know many who focus on making money have marketing, advertising, and lots of other stuff I am 100% independent. Subscribe and support a small business.

Whether or not a provider has an Only Fans site does not enter into my decision on scheduling to meet her.

Back the dark times of the “Big C” a provider that I saw regularly started an Only Fans account in order to earn extra income while limiting in-person visits. I subscribed out of curiosity, but I canceled the subscription after only a few months. That’s the extent of my experience with Only Fans. Interesting fact: That provider later admitted to me that her Only Fans was never very lucrative as it would only bring in a few hundred dollars per month (less than she would get for one 1-hour in person appointment), so she discontinued it.

On one hand, what provider does outside my session doesn't impact me or others much (as long as it doesn't degrade service quality and effort).

On the other hand, there seems to be some correlation between OF side hustle (even worse if main hustle) and quality of escort service.

Let me put it this way - if they have a very small of community with few followers and few vids it's very unlikely to be an issue.

 
If they have a big OF account then the escort side of things is probably the side hustle... e and less effort usually goes into those.
If it's a big of account they typically have a dedicated manager or team who manages her entire account and communication part.

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