Doesn't text or email you after a date, thanking you? Apparently some clients will not see a provider again if they don't get that electronic thank you.  

I saw this topic on X and, after working in this field for four years, I had no idea that it was expected.  

I always figured that the wonderful experience he had with me would keep him coming back, not a thank you afterwards.  

What say you?

I don't care that much and will see her again if I had a good time.
But short note saying, "I had a great time and hope to see you again the next time I'm in town," couldn't hurt.

Otherwise I’d be mad a lot. Only a small percentage of providers have sent me a “thank you” email or PM (TER or P411) after a session. And while I appreciate their thoughtfulness and expression of gratitude, I don’t expect it.  

 
Anyway, almost every provider I’ve seen thanked me in person at the end of a session (and sometimes during the session 😁).

 
I wonder if some providers are careful about sending unsolicited emails/PMs to clients, out of discretion?  If so, I understand that and appreciate it.

But it's nice when it arrives.

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It would definitely be nice to hear. Just my opinion but seems more personal and would definitely make me want to come back. I believe it’s what you are looking for from a provider.

I would always reach out to show gratitude & being thankful because it’s a professional courtesy. The majority of men who play in this field create dummy emails & have burner phones. The worst that could happen is they delete anything you send that they do not want. I find that an attitude of gratitude is always the best. For me personally, I have always been blessed to know lovely ladies in this wonderful industry, so if for whatever reason a fella does not click with me…maybe I can introduce him to a female girlfriend of mine? Sharing is caring. I love for my friends to be friends & help others! A reference from me goes a very long way. Lol Smile for me!

I would liken a post session thank you to a written thank you received in the mail from a job candidate. I don’t make my hiring decisions based on it, but it definitely sets that person apart from others who didn’t, in a good way.

I would think it would be an easy way to make a positive impression and provide the kind of elevated service that so many providers often say that they provide.

Very nice attitude to have!

a Christmas card from the salesman who sold me my last car but a year later couldn't pick me out of a police line-up.  It's totally unnecessary.  One of the advantages of P4P is not having to communicate AFTER the session with the ladies I see unless I WANT TO.  If I want to repeat, I will contact her.  NO need to grease the path with a standardized "thank you" that goes out to every customer and is not really personal.

You've got it upside down: if your "hairstylist, yoga instructor, masseuse, doctors, lawyer, or nail technician" sent you a note saying, "thanks for the business, enjoyed meeting you," you would probably appreciate it. You definitely wouldn't think it's unprofessional (and this reveals the mistake of mixing servicers of cocks with other service professions.

I thought you were unknowingly reversing the roles in the OP's question: "Clients, do you get mad if a provider doesn't text or email you after a date, thanking you?" That, or I was having a poor reading comprehension moment.
 
WRT your first sentence, I understand that. We've got a really fine-breasted woman who only cuddles.💤💤🥱 She's been at it for years and I doubt she's paying for ad space if she isn't making a go of it. God love her, she's providing a service with at least some demand, like your intimacy clients. And the way she has revealed over time more and more of her wonderful orbs in her ads, I'm guessing a lot of that cuddling is with head buried in cleavage. (Hmm, I wonder if after 45 minutes of that she lets a guy pull his own pud so he walk standing upright?)

The business transaction is completed. Of course not.

...they hand me back my donation at the end of the session, saying: "I can't take your money; you fucked me too good.  

"I wonder if some providers are careful about sending unsolicited emails/PMs to clients, out of discretion?"

 
What he said.

The only thing I expect after meeting is an Okay to my P411 request. If she's too lazy or self-centered to comply, I drop her from future consideration. It's happened a couple of times.

I've never gotten an unsolicited text from a provider after a date before so I'm surprised to hear that not only do others but some expect it. Must be something wrong with me.

Usually I'm the one who sends the email and I only remember one time when they replied to it.

Lol! Made my day.

If you text her first after the session, you're a timewaster and she doesn't reply.  If she texts you first, she's just being "courteous and respectful."  Lol

Any time I have texted a lady shortly after a session thanking them for everything I've always gotten very courteous, sweet replies.

It doesn't bother me one way or the other. We're not pals. If she does text however, so long as it's within an hour of the meet it's fine and not the next day, etc as i don't like texts from providers.

Guess I'm in the minority, but I like to be reminded I was flopping around inside a real life human. I enjoy the thank you texts very much, and it gives me a window to speak my mind as well, since sometimes I'll message a provider in-between bookings and be accused of not booking or time wasting. It's led me to stop messaging providers quite as much outside of business.

For me I always text or email the provider if she was good and I had a wonderful time, and I have yet to not get a response back, provider s are usually very appreciative and let me know!

I used to sell big ticket items, and would always make sure to follow-up with customers to see how they liked their purchase by calling them, then sending them a hand-written thank you note in the mail. In fact, a thank you call and note was recommended by my company to inspire repeat business.  

As far as myself, I really like a thank you text, or email from a provider (understandable that electronic is the method for the escort business). If I don't get one, then I may send one to her, particularly if I really liked her, and/or appreciate her service. Sometimes, she'll kindly reply, but if she doesn't reply (most do reply), or initiate a thank you in the first place, I'm okay with it. But going forward, regardless of repeating, I'll more likely gravitate toward those that have this follow-up social skill in their repertoire. Why? Because makes me feel appreciated. And, I do think most people want to feel appreciated, or at least recognized.  

So, to answer your question to the  "wonderful experience he had with me would keep him coming back, not a thank you afterwards," may happen if wonderful (nothing less) is the strongest draw. However, how much more potent it is; especially, when it comes to sending an electronic thank you. The potential is stronger for more repeats with a thank you than without one.

To add to it, regarding  the other posts here (as I've read the replies): Some like and encourage a thank you and show gratitude, while others don't care and see them as invasive and a waste of time. Others are middle-of-the-road, so to speak, as a thank you "doesn't hurt." Hence, it also brings up privacy, as there will be those who don't want any attention called to this activity. Yet, despite all that has been said about it, and you may as well forget about the client not wanting to see you if they didn't get a thank you follow-up, or even getting annoyed when they do get a thank you follow-up. Do it (especially when you have a good client that you like), because it's a good business practice and a great social skill, and makes you look all the more people oriented in a world where so many are easily forgotten.

have I ever been thanked. To me it was good to hear back. Someone else got back to me about the same review on how they liked it, too. Another first and only.

I don’t expect a thank you note or email from a provider, but I’ve received a few and it’s a thoughtful gesture. Certainly makes me more likely to repeat if I enjoyed the session.  
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Over the years I’ve had a few KGirls give me their direct number either because we hit it off or because they were hoping I’d see them when they came back my way. Those ladies always sent cute little gifs after our sessions or even before a subsequent session. It was a very nice touch, and all of them became regulars for me.

I've seen a few Latinas who used bookers/assistants and gave me their direct phone numbers probably just so they avoid paying a fee to the assistant for subsequent dates I'd assume. But I'm sure they wouldn't have done that unless they felt that I was a good client.

I always send a “it was nice meeting you, I had fun” message afterwards.. except if they’re married then I don’t bother, discretion is key. I also love sharing selfies and the random “how’s your day going” but that’s for my regulars only haha.

If a provider sends a note after a session went well thanking me for the time together it puts her in a category "I will want to see her again".