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buffalosoldierr 2454 reads
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has anyone ever considered marrying a provider or actually marry a provider?

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 1277 reads
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There are several guys on the boards who occasionally post, who are married to providers.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 1419 reads
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Pretty much every time I am cumming on her face.

Unflushable 1185 reads
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pleaseme 23 Reviews 1419 reads
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Not me, John Lennon's song Jealous Guy comes to mind

ROGM 1354 reads
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My Provider is considering Marrying her friend's boyfriend so she can get her Visa and Legal Status in good standing. If those plans fall through, I might consider doing it. I'd hate for her to get Deported.

Udo 1361 reads
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7 / 38

You must be a hell of a man to want to marry a woman that has hundreds or thousands of cocks in her pussy.

You would be "marrying damaged goods" to say it nicely You must have really low self esteem..
Posted By: ahuxley63
has anyone ever considered marrying a provider or actually marry a provider?

buffalosoldierr 1266 reads
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ROGM 1357 reads
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9 / 38

What makes you think Marrying a Non Provider would be safer than Marrying a Provider?

Crisis25 1275 reads
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10 / 38

If one falls in love with my eccentric charm or needed help to remain in the country I'd be willing.

buffalosoldierr 1354 reads
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11 / 38

low self esteem?  it would take a lot of confidence. i do not understand why hobbyists spend their money on providers and then speak so poorly of them.  are you damaged goods as well?

donbecker54 19 Reviews 1354 reads
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13 / 38

To phrase the question slightly differently, would I consider marrying a provider? Now, at my age (60), yes. When I was younger, no.

When I was younger, I would have been hounded by the typical male insecurities: other guys had bigger cocks, were better in bed, etc. Now, I wouldn't have those insecurities. I know that I'm not the man I was, and that there's bigger and better. Age just takes its toll, and there's nothing I can do to change that.  

I would require that we remain monogamous, though. Marriage isn't marriage without fidelity (for me anyway).

cashorcredit 1245 reads
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Chauncey Gardner 1209 reads
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if I had to listen to that voice every day I'd kill myself within a week.

MasterZen 34 Reviews 1243 reads
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17 / 38

Of course, I would marry the right woman - provider or not.

The real problem is one that the Providers have made quite clear in many threads/posts - any man who would see a Provider is not potential relationship material. (A generalization, admittedly, but I think largely accurate in this instance).

Perhaps this is a case of the women disqualifying all men they meet - and then lamenting the lack of good men. Self-sabotage?

Yeah, guys self-sabotage all the time as well. No exclusives by gender.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 1175 reads
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quadseasonal 27 Reviews 1202 reads
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The first time I met  her at her in call I knew we were born to be soul mates  .  :-D  
After the first time  I always booked her when  she came to town , normally  every three to four weeks .
 Twice I took the  bus to  her city for dinner and dessert .
   After I had seen her five or ten  times  I could feel it in my heart , she ached for  more than our quick  few hours .  
   
She kept telling me I looked  like an actor I never heard of ,  in a movie I haven't seen .  
  She even had a quirky nick name for me , Quade .  
  Most providers call me by my real name ,  Quad .  
  When she gave me a  nick name I knew she was  serious about me .
   
I booked  a romantic three day week end , beyond description we had the best time of our lives  .  
  I could tell she had at least twenty explosive orgasms the second night , no faking there .  

The second time we did a three day week end we had an even more  unbelievable  
 out of this world experince  .
   The juicy details  would sound untrue  in a review without video .  
   
 About a week  before  I booked  our third  week end , I knew it was  time to ask for her hand in marriage  .
 
 
   Before we arrived  I  had our room  adorned  with  petals from two thousand roses .
    I had rehearsed on my knees a thousand times ,  will you be my bride .  
  I was set for Midnight .  

   On the way up to our room in the elevator , she mentioned she was getting married  
  the following week end  .
    She still loved the rose petals .  
   
    My first thought , If  I had only asked before he did .
  We still had a great week end , I don't think she had as many real O's as before  .
 She was probably thinking of her wedding list.  

   Her husband is a Coast to Coast truck driver ,  she's  low volume under the radar now .
   She gives me the same special as before her marriage . When I book three day  week ends ,I only pay for 12 solo hours out of 24 .  
  She lets me wake her up however I please at 2 am , 4 in the afternoon , or anytime she's sleeping .    

 How many wives would allow  that ?  

  Next time I find a provider I want to marry I won't wait so long to ask .
 
 
  We were so tight I wondered why I didn't get a wedding invite .  
   I found out later  , the invite she sent me to her wedding was lost in the mail .  :-D
 
Posted By: ahuxley63
has anyone ever considered marrying a provider or actually marry a provider?
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donbecker54 19 Reviews 1209 reads
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Man, there's a lot going on in that tale. Given the timing of her wedding announcement, I'd wonder if you'd proposed earlier would have made a difference.  

Is she still taking clients while married?  

Are you sure she felt the same about you as you did about her?

Weren't you too hurt to see her after your hopes for marriage fell through?

ROGM 1220 reads
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This was back in the 90's. A Provider I was seeing for a few years Married one of her other Clients. She told me that once she got Married she would be unable to ever see me. Well a few months later to my surprise, she actually contacted me about getting together for a Session. It was Great. Husband worked nights. So I was able to go to her place for our Sessions. About 5 years later they Divorced and Husband is long gone. Fast forward to today; She currently lives in North Carolina and I'm driving over there for a visit and a Session in a few weeks. Even after 20 years I still remained Friends with her and looking forward to seeing her. Glad I didn't Marry her.

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 1079 reads
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You must be new around here. Just do a search of udo's posts going back a year.

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MagicMedic 5 Reviews 1259 reads
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Who wouldn't at least have one thought like that?

I would never marry a woman that is still providing though. I know there are those of you that would not give a shit but I do. I don't know if I could even keep it up thinking she had sucked off a few guys while I was at work, only to be greeted at the door with a hug and a kiss... Yea no thanks, blehk!

With that being said, if you find one that is smart and has dreams and goals other than getting a good review, one that you can connect with on another level and enjoys the same things, yes indeed. They are women just the same and if the lady is out of the business, and not scarred by it she would probably make the best wife you can imagine. They are most likely at the point of settling down, and tired of pretending to enjoy every experience she has had.

Would I marry a provider no? Would I marry a provider that has given up the biz? Absolutely

MM

Senator.Blutarsky 1137 reads
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once was enough...it does not matter if she is a provider or not...I like being single at this stage of my life.  Kids are grown and off the payroll....now it's my turn to enjoy all the things I put off when I had a family to provide for.  

Don't get me wrong...that stage of my life was great and I wouldn't change anything about it...but now I've moved to another phase and am enjoying the freedom I have now.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 1324 reads
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25 / 38

Are you proposing lol.  

Posted By: MagicMedic
Who wouldn't at least have one thought like that?  
   
 
 Would I marry a provider no? Would I marry a provider that has given up the biz? Absolutely  
   
 MM

GaGambler 1326 reads
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26 / 38

and as long as he didn't try to make you quit TER as well, I think it's a great idea. Can I getan invite to the wedding, or at least the reception?

sofiaOnline See my TER Reviews 1264 reads
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Wow...that is an amazing story. You write well.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 996 reads
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It serves a purpose, but one that is not a lifelong career goal.  Can you get a flight to Italy? LOL...

GaGambler 1020 reads
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and for me a "good enough reason" is just about any kind of party. Any one who knows me knows that I will hop a plane in a heartbeat to have a good time. I always have an Am Ex card and my passport with me no matter where I am, and those are the only things really necessary to have when traveling, everthing else I can buy/rent.

So, what's happening in Italy?

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 1124 reads
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Well that is where she is planning on proposing to me of course.

I told her I would have to think about it the last time she asked me, but I would probably say yes in Italy, lol

I'm thinking I might be able to put it all the way in on a honeymoon.

MM

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justanillusion 1065 reads
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scoed 8 Reviews 1122 reads
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But people that think they are just because someone are sex workers makes them anything is damaged upstares. If you think someone not comfortable in their skin could last in a relationship with a sex worker your even more damaged than I gave you credit for.

scoed 8 Reviews 1146 reads
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She is the love of my life and makes me want to be a better man. I would marry her again in a heartbeat.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 1155 reads
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That it can work for you. You are also correct that nothing comes to us easily, as I have always said complacency kills. Things have to be kept exciting and fresh.

I can respect that it works for you, I could not do it. No captain save a ho heroics on my part but I could not marry a woman that was still providing. I have to accept her past and she would have to accept mine.

MM

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 1319 reads
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Posted By: MagicMedic
I'm thinking I might be able to put it all the way in on a honeymoon.  
   
 MM
OMG that was too funny!!! Lol!!!

SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 1202 reads
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