I onced asked an ATF and she told me how she got started and I found it very interesting and unexpected. I think everyone has a unique story. I know this by nature is a very personal question and Itheir own lives - but I'm sure there may be some anecdotal stories or generalities that could be shared by ladies/gents?



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And I mean that in the nicest way....

Why do you care? Let there be a Berlin wall of some sorts between the ladies and us....

You answered your own question... Its too personal.. So take a break..

Go get ready for Super Bowl....

Sister Mary asked her students, "What do you want to be when you grow up?"
Johnny said, "A pilot." Billy said, "A fireman." Nicole said, "A doctor." Suzy said, "A prostitute!"
Sister Mary gasped! "What did you say, Suzy?"  Suzy replied, "when I grow up, I want to be a prostitute!"
Then Sister Mary smiled, "Oh thank goodness. For a second there I thought you said 'a Protestant!'"

or "Provider University." London, dddbabe, JuliasLilSecret, Heather, and Rrasha are professors. I think Saturnsky is a guest lecturer occasionally. BadCollegeGirl is one of the most recent successful graduates. Professor CPA teaches classes on hobbyist relations, but he calls it "johnnie boy 101" (against the politically correct school dean's wishes) and Professor Hotplants teaches a class on female hobbyists, every other semester. (her colleague calls that class "johnnie girl 101".)
MagicMedic puts on a "First Aid and CPR for Hookers" class. HoneyDooDoo does the Greek language class.


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But I think you asked it out of honest curiosity. You left one obvious reason out of your first sentence: necessity. Sadly, many of us men have shirked our responsibilty as fathers and have left many of the women with a child with little income and even less hope. Of course they then compound the problem by not paying child support. Over the years, I have really come to respect the single mom in this business. I dont know what percentage she makes up of it, but I do know its a large percentage.

Rather than focus on why any women has decided to provide, I'd say we should focus our attention onto appreciating them and treating them with the utmost respect. They offer a service that is so desperately needed in an often chaotic and hectic society, stress relief and companionship, and for that, I am very grateful to them.

After I heard some school chum use the word whore in fourth grade, I looked it up in my folk's unabridged dictionary - and from then on wanted in on it.

After that, all I needed was a paycheck.

It's a touchy subject to some and not so much for others. Some find humor in it. There is nothing wrong with the thread, and no need to remove it or close it. This topic has come up before, (as have all topics) and basically the honest answers are all over the place. There are many varied reasons for ladies getting into this.

Dont sweat it. Sometimes we play rough here so you may not be used to that. But dont take it personal. You're fine here!

Could someone tell me why it matters? Could someone Share with me gwhen somebody doesn't feel comfortable discussing something why they would pursue it regardless? It's called respect you should all respect the women completely as they bring you happiness and satisfaction.

Tuition.

There is evidence it's early on

I know some posters took offense and I appreciate your candor. My ATF was in law school at the time and she met a woman who was a "courtesan" who groomed her into this industry; her motivation was also school debt. She was succesfull enough to payoff all her loans - Graduate as an attorney and retire.
I still have fond memories and tremendous respect for her intellect and warm and caring personality.
Everyone is different, thank you again for your openess.
Take care sweetness.

I cant speak for everyone who respnded, but I dont think many, if any of them were "offended." If you asked some people here what time it is, they might tell you to go f*ck yourself. lol. But seriously, if you take the time to get know some of the online personalities, you will see that some topics will illicit a "who the f*ck are you to ask that question and why do you want to know?" I think it goes with this profession. Paranoia just goes hand in hand with it. The illegality of it all makes the paranoia understandable. Again, dont take it personally.

This topic is an interesting one, it is one that virtually all of us have pondered at one point or another, but after time you no longer think about it. They have their reasons for "providing" and they are varied and many. We have our reasons for "hobbying" and they are varied and many. As long as we dont get into the "there are good reasons to be an esort and bad reasons" nonsense, I am fine discussing this topic.

I was A CHILD IN NEED OF SERVICES, OR TRUANT. I WAS BOUNCED IN FPSTER HOMES. i WAS IN TROUBLE ALL TIME,  I had a bf that was 38 when i was 15 whom ended up getn charged with bein a pediphile. I began learnin to manipulate a man to get food n shelter mainly , when i wa sa runaway this how i survived. 16 years later, i havent been able to hold a job any where for more than 6 months, so far, i had 16 jobs in one year once, So not to say i havent tried to do other things, and still am trying,
but here i am some how wild child turned into nerd who enjoys staying in the house and being well normal now . I have a expensive condo most my friends my age couldnt even aford. and well i am grateful to have this tp support myself depsite my abviuos mental n physical problems where i wouldnt otherwise be employable. ----------------------------------------------------------
in answer to question- why r u a hookah bitches.? why?
well thats why for me,
i probly got arrested on a c.h.i.n.s. warrant 7 or 8 times before turnin 18. which basically means my own parents would have me arrested. when i d try n knock on the door to get in. pretty much , and lock the door in my face. so.

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In the back were a bunch of ads about bodyrubs and escorts.  My curiosity got the better of me.

I will keep my response simple... 1) I enjoy it 2) I enjoy the money 3) Makes it easier to go to college. I have had some excellent jobs and I do not have children, but I still prefer doing what I want, when I want without worries etc.

The real question is why do you want or need to know. To tell stories, write a book, or to be popular at a party sharing other people’s personal and private information?

Don’t get it .

n obvi i cant be a hairdresser with a bum neck. um yeah thats out the question now, and well where i still am workin on jan rent, i def am not payin these back now where rent n food r obvi goin to come first. i did get grants n loans, though if thats what u mean by tuition????

Yeah, even with grants and loans, there are a ton of supplemental expenses. Plus it's tough to get a loan for a post-secondary curriculum.