I saw a guy for the second time today, who wanted me to share stories of my sex life, both my "work" and professional. He'd say in response to a story I shared that I'm "such a naughty girl", and that I "really know how to have fun" and that I ""must drive those guys wild".
Apparently it turns him on, gets him off... I don't know, but it completely turns me off. I've already blocked him at this point so that's the end of that but it made me curious. What could be the appeal of that for a guy? And why would he think it would be appealing for me?
I'm there in the flesh, with you, and you want to talk about other guys that I'm with? Seems odd...

The guy clearly gets off imagining you as very slutty.  Not my kink but we all have them.   It's not as if he's into brown showers or cutting. I'm sure you have your kinks, too.  And I'm sure someone out there finds your kinks weird, disgusting or just not sexy.
It just amazes me how people in this game judge others about their sexual preferences.
Finally, it's your job to get him off, so whether it's appealing for you or not is irrelevant

I never want to know what the other guy did, what position, for how long, etc. Unless it is something that you like and it would enhance our session (even then you have to be careful how you phrase it to me). If he truly gets off on hearing other people's sessions, he should just go buy erotic novels.  It would definitely save him a lot of money. LOL...

I think I get to judge others sexuality when I'm expected to deal with it, and I cut him off so I guess that makes me both jury and judge

The point is being judgmental in this game is just silly.  And considering what some girls get asked to do, being asked to make stuff up about sexual encounters ain't so bad.

Isn't that what the reviews are for?  

It may have been a way for him to figure out your menu or limits without asking you directly.

Silliness is subjective isn't it, as is determining what is and "ain't so bad". It was bad enough to turn me off, and make me not want to see him again. And I'd say that's all that really matters in that case, agreed?

I have no interest in paying to hear those stories...but I guess you found a guy who does want to pay someone to tell the stories.

Posted By: someCuteChic

Silliness is subjective isn't it, as is determine what is and "ain't so bad". It was bad enough to turn me off, and make me not want to see him again. And I'd say that's all that really matters in that case, agreed?  
   
 I totally get that he wants to imagine me as a slut, that's fine. I'm an escort.. I'd say I fit that mold pretty well without needing to share stories lol

It doesn't seem hugely different from a cuckold fantasy, something that is kind of popular once you leave the realm of vanilla. If you aren't comfortable with it, obviously catering to it isn't a good thing for you, but in the scheme of things, it seems far from weird.

A girl I see often, that I have known for a long time in this biz, either calls me or emails me with her most recent date and gives me the sexual and other details. I actually love it. It's fkin hot, she gets off knowing it gets me off and it provides quite a different view of p4p.

I think that the gal that tells you that shit then turns around and calls me to tell me that she told you and YOU got off on it  LOL

Sometimes, when the session fun is over, there's a few minutes left. Of course, some of the ladies kick your ass outta there right then. But the good ones let you take your full time. It goes without saying that the great ones, your atfs, tend to go over the session time. With that extra time, whichever it is, there comes a moment, or several moments for pillow talk. The pillow talk can go in all kinds of different directions. I always let it go where it goes. Occasionally, if the connection is good, the pillow talk goes in the direction of sex life, be they hobby stories, real life stories, or fantasies someone wants fulfilled. I could create a best selling book with some of the wild and crazy stories I've heard, and told. Of course I don't because I want to treat those stories as confidential. But they're fun. They're interesting. They're crazy. They're unbelievable. Besides, isn't that why these forums are so popular? We're here to share stories. When someone is asking my opinion in a forum, I get an average number of hits. When I'm relating a sex story, my hits double, and even triple if it's a mini review. People love sex stories. It creates for a great session ending. To be honest, those are the ladies I return to see over and over again. Sex yes, but that trust is an important aspect of a great hobby relationship.  

And in his lengthy OP he brought up a few things that the "girls" were telling him about shit guys did to them  LOL

One time I meet with a provider that confused with with a client who she had seen wth his weft as a couple. Once we cleared the confusion up I did find my mind wondering and getting a little turned on about hearing, by mistake, about another experience she had.

Is it possible this hooker has been lying to me all these years?

Why he wants to hear that shit? Who knows. When I see a lady I show up. We talk and say hi. Have a few laughs. Then we fuck and I thank her for a great time. And off I go. If I like her I see her again and we repeat everything I said initially again.  

I trust you aren't asking which gal that I hogtied?  Let alone which ones I left dangling from the ceiling beams?

I'm sure you've got some shit that you like done...and maybe some other guy would think that's weird.

Some of these guys are so bizarre.

U could make stories for him. And not share ur actual life. Or modify them a bit for ur personal safety. But in my opinion that's nothing different than reading erotica, except he is paying u.  

Posted By: someCuteChic

I think I get to judge others sexuality when I'm expected to deal with it, and I cut him off so I guess that makes me both jury and judge

I agree with you about the fact that here in Fantasy Fuck Land we all have our "kinks" and things we like. I guess its all how you present it and pursue it. If you come off as creepy as shit, the lady probably won't have too much fun entertaining your fantasy.  

Why don't you let us be the judge of whether or not you fit the mold?  Tell us some stories from your sex life and we can all vote on it.  I'm kidding of course but don't ever be surprised at what may or may not turn guys on.  We're fucking weird.  

About a friend from work coming to see me. He never did make the appointment - but during OUR appointments the guy just loved making stories up about him and his friend with a big dick DPing me.

Enough for her to quit seeing him. His request in and of itself is pretty tame, at least for most, however it got on her last nerve and she is asking the board what we think.

Even though you personally feel it is nothing on the grand scale of sexual stuff. She does not see him as an income stream, she sees him as a problem and does not want to deal with it. You see hookers really don't have to do everything for everyone, we can pick and choose our sex acts, and  our johns.

You, I, and anyone else can see whomever they want to see. There are people I rejected long ago that I would see in a heart beat today because other ladies took the time to tell their stories to me, and were comfortable with those situations.

it makes her feel weird.

My advice to her is to do just what she did. Talk about it, question it, understand it.

It sounds like he may just be a bit voyeristic (in the general sense, not necessarily the clinical sense, but who knows) and this may be one way for him to get a vicarious thrill to rev him up for the real thing. The appeal is most likely imagining / fantasizing about you having sex with these guys. Most guys would be turned on by a beautiful women talking about sexual acts they engage in (unless the man feels the woman is "his", at which point the reaction tends to be significantly different.) If your guy is very voyeristic he may even imagine himself watching or he may just enjoy hearing the "blow by blow" (excuse the bad pun). The important thing is that it made you uncomfortable and if you communicated that to him and he continued to ask for details then he is no longer respecting your boundaries. If you didn't communicate that to him you may want to let him know ( if he is an otherwise good client). If it is just general curiosity /voyerism, then he should be able to stop asking you pretty easily. If it is closer to a paraphilia then he wont be able to drop it and he will either self-select out or you can block him. But you need to do what makes you feel comfortable and safe.

A new boundary so to speak. I do agree that marketing helps attract the type you want to be with not withstanding the trickle of outliers which are easy enough to get rid of without much hurting the bottom line.

enjoys sex so much that she craves it with him too.  He wants to make you a play thing, not a person who might judge him the way he judges himself. So don't take it personally or be offended, just take the money.  

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My wife loves to hear about me bedding my paid dates, it turns her on she goes as far as to reenact them. She also likes to watch me with others. But that doesn't usually last as she gets too turned on and jumps in.  

Way long ago I saw a young gal with a very prepubescent body.

They live vicariously through our 'appetites' in addition to creating their own scenarios with us.  
It's like narrating porn to them. Just this time he 'knows' the porn star personally.  

i don't mind sharing naughty stories...i've had a few friends that like to hear...

Talking to guys about sex just isn't an issue to me, but I've been doing that naturally for a long time. Pulling out a strap on and wailing away on a guy's ass - well, I refer elsewhere.

I don't talk about my personal sex life with any client, because it's none of their concern. Ive actually had to tell some guys to stop asking me about my persona life because there are boundaries I'm not crossing and inviting a stranger into my personal life is one of them. My exes and lovers would not appreciate me telling a client about our sex lives together.