There are a small number of men that reach the orgasm very quickly and then disappear in a flash.  

Why not stick around for #2?  
Is it post O guilt?
Are you embarrassed that #1 was a lightening round (very normal btw)?

This inquiring mind wants to know.  

Help me,  help you.  
- Jerry McGuire

I'm incredibly socially awkward.  I hate going to gatherings where I have to make small talk because I suck so bad at it.  I've learned how to deal with it over the years, but I absolutely hate it so much.  When I mentioned it to SO, she said "oh, you seem so comfortable" and I said I hate it sooo much I'd rather have a root canal without Novocain.  

Everyone is different.

It’s commonly known as “post nut clarity” lol. The reasons vary.. every man is different. Maybe he’s feeling guilty, or something came up last min so he’s on a time crunch but didn’t want to cancel. I try not to read into it or assume. When it’s obvious a client is feeling a certain way afterwards, I thank them for choosing to see me, and ask what they prefer happen next (ie. cuddle, or shower and leave, or get dressed and chat for the remainder of the time). I tell them there’s no pressure either way and never press for MSOG.  

If you’re still curious, I googled it and here’s a short but informative article:

https://austinurologyinstitute.com/blog/what-is-post-nut-clarity-and-post-nut-syndrome/

Some guys only got one pop in them. I’m that guy. And my stamina is all over the map. I’ve had sessions where I spent two hours fucking and being sucked, no pop. And, I have had sessions where I popped in 15 minutes. Mind you, if I pop early I only leave if I don’t like you. I’m fine cuddling and chatting for the rest. I have even done some fucking and getting sucked a second time even though I won’t pop a second time. It still feels great.

Forgot this is a thing! Very true, and some clients are neurodivergent so small talk after can be awkward (especially if he wanted a certain kink/taboo).  

It doesn’t happen often but it’s another fair explanation.

But I also have to be ready for it within 60-90 minutes.  I rarely have time for longer dates.

When I say prepare, make sure I'm eating fairly clean and not have sex/masturbate for a day before.  When my schedule was a lot more clear that was more of a problem.  I usually know a week or two in advance now if I'll have time for a date.

There was an episode of criminal minds where a high end escort said “They say you don’t pay a hooker for sex, you pay her to leave; but it’s not true. The guys always leave first.”

 
I’ve actually been asked this in person by a couple providers who have seen guys do this and were also curious. One of them said she had a couple guys who’ve repeated more than once do it every time. She didn’t think it meant they didn’t like her because they came back lol.  

 
I’m saying it ain’t just you! Try not to take it personally. Honestly I think there are almost as many reasons for this as there are guys who do it.  

 
For one thing, you’d be surprised how many providers operate that way. Once you bust your nut, it’s time for you to be going I don’t care what the clock says. I know that’s not you, but maybe the guy has been seeing providers like that.  

 
Maybe he got some bad advice that it’s always the client’s job to make sure they don’t go over their time. His phone is in his pants over there, how long has it been?

 
Maybe it’s his way of keeping it truly NSA. Like if he accidentally caught feelings for a provider once and realized pillow talk is when that happened.  

 
Maybe he has a meeting to get to.  

 
I haven’t read Brielle’s article yet but post nut clarity is a thing. Lots of possibilities under that umbrella.  

 
He could have an inrush of guilt if he’s married. If he’s kinda new he might suddenly start thinking what the hell am I doing I bet the cops bust in here any minute now!

 
Maybe he realizes he can’t keep up with you.  

 
Maybe he thinks he’s getting a vibe from you that you don’t like him. You don’t have to be putting that out there for him to THINK he’s seeing it.  

 
I remember some celebrity, MAYBE Joe Rogan but I’m not sure so don’t quote me on that, saying something like I have to cum in order to know if I actually like you, because if I cum and I still wanna hang out with you then I like you.  

There’s some truth to that. I very highly doubt this is the case with you, you’re awesome and a wonderful flirt. But sometimes two good people just don’t click together.  

 
100 other things he could be thinking. When you realize a guy is about to boogie on down the road with a bunch of time on the clock, you might say something like “You don’t HAVE to go just yet” but maybe don’t press it any more than that. The more skin you’ve got showing when you say that, the better.

I'm a fan of post O cuddling and laughter.  All good stuff. I've had people leave. So, I understand leaving if you're not a match.  

Awkward is my least favorite feeling.  I'd rather have a full blown panic attack.  
I can totally relate to this. 🫂

Lol I appreciate this so much. It makes so much sense. Thank you for helping me understand.  

Yeah, I tell people to lay off the grip for a bit. Even if you can only cum once; chronic jerking makes it feel mediocre. Don't even bother trying for 2 if you've had a bear grip on your dick for a month.  
I understand that everything matters.  Nerves, sleep,  alcohol, food and overall well-being.  

Oddly enough they do return. They still book 90-120. They still fly out the door in 15 and I'm still perplexed.  
I don't know if someone can not like me. I'm very disarming in the best possible way.  I get your vibe almost immediately.  
The post nut clarity makes perfect sense in the beginning.  20 dates in, not so much.  

Had 1 fella erupting like a volcano and I didn't even touch him. He did this every time.  I saw him every Friday at 10am for a decade. He stuck around.  We'd have lunch et cetera.  This is the guy you'd expect to dash.  We're still good friends but because of prostate cancer..... I don't need to explain the rest.  

Thanks for your input. I appreciate it and you.

If they're a one & done I give it a valiant effort to make a second attempt happen.  I love to incorporate many different things to get them aroused. For those who run off before the real fun begins you're truly missing out. When you book a seasoned Vet our goal is make you happy the entire time we're together.

Great post sexy! 💋