seem to add 30 IQ points once they get off that board? lol

My way of saying I agree. I haven't had much different results loaning money to providers as anyone else in my life. Some (most) of them are flakes, but I have loaned as much as a few grand to a provider friend and was paid back faster than originally agreed. I was never turned into a ATM machine either.

Loaning money to providers by and large is just like loaning money to friends or family, don't loan anymore than you can cosider a gift.

and WW, who gave you a furlow to get off the leper colony?

Lend a ho money & you SHOULD lose it !

Sure! She still hasn't paid me back one red fricken cent.

than lending money to a hooker, is lending money to a stripper.

I have never done either, but have heard many tales of woe.

that's what the donation was for when you booked your fuck session with her. Why would you pay her again, when she was already gone?

How many of you have lent money to a provider? I did once a year and a half ago. I thought she was sincere but poof she was gone. It was only 500 bucks so no big deal. Have any of hooked up a girl and she paid you back?

She's just two towns ahead of the law.  Let it lie.

I did but not that much.  Did finally get it back with a visit.  So it all came out in the end.  But it isnt just providers,  ever loan money to a friend and never see it again?  I have.

Not to derail your thread, but how can girls who charge $3, $4, $5 an hour always seem to be short on cash and hitting guys up for "loans".  Or a fair share of them.  I mean I hear some of these girls say they are bringing $7k per week.  Crazy to me.  I mean I know Chanel bags run $3k per, but damn.  Curious to hear you alls 2 cents.

Any person who makes a minimum of $150 per hour should be lending me money.  But seriously, if I was gonna give a lady that kind of money why not make it a date instead of a loan?

Post your own thread and please do not derail mine!

Guys dont press/ask for a session because they want to be thought of as not your average John, but a friend as well...someone worthy of extra time and attention.

I knew that a year ago and would never of sent it if I was not considering it gone. I kind of hoped she would show something and pay it back but I new it was gone when I sent it. I was more just wondering how many guys have done this.

If you feel compelled to loan a lady money just book a session equivalent to the amount needed. She gets the money and you get serviced.  

If she was sincere about needing $500 she would have welcomed the additional booking to make up the shortfall.

Probably because they know my vig is huge.  And I am always accompanied by my cousin Guido and his baseball bat.  lol!  No, really, I just think it's because I've been smart enought/lucky enough to see only well reviewed girls who are smart and successful enough not to need a loan.

Check out my post on Ohio board. I was talked into prepaying for sessions,then provider got hurt and I floated rent,food,phone,etc. When she got back on her feet,I was told to go away and never come back.I was there,when she was at rock bottom and had no one to turn too. As the old saying goes,be kind and good natured,you always get f-cked,(well not actually,but you get my drift).

I too have done it...lent money to clients and to fellow associates.  The payback is pretty much the same as in every day life when I have lent money to family and friends.  Some repay, some don't.  You can't be upset if they don't repay, it just makes a definite statement about THEM...and I remember that.

Loan money to a Friend, relative, coworker, provider or Anyone else for that matter.. chances are you will never get it back and it will ruin whatever relationship you have ever had...

Sad, I hate to say it but it is so true...

As I type this, I remembered my best friend loaned me money 2 years ago, I paid him back sooner then he expected.. ( smile) I feel good about this one and I am glad he did not follow my advice.

It's really just semantics.  They use the word Lend as a euphemism.  What they really mean is, I'm short. Will you give me some money?

There is one young lady, mid 20s with 2 young kids and takes care of her autistic brother.  The father provides no support and neither do her parents.  She is trying to finish her GED to move towards better than min wage.  Yes, I "lend" her some money regularly and she promises me she wil pay it back.  I hope she is in a position to do so one day, but I assume assume each "loan" is what it actually is, a gift.

I have at times given money to other ladies who asked for a loan, but I always do so assuming it is a gift.  Some have repaid me, but most have not because they never escaped the situations that made them deperate enough to ask for the money in the first place.

Many of the providers that I see have become personal friends and I have either lent them or advanced them money towards future services. Only once have I been short changed on an advance and that person is no longer on my speed dial. But the rest of times I have always been paid back.

But just like with firends and family I don't do it for everyone....only a very select few.

I just had a guest gift me a decent sum, to help me out of a jam.  Well, the jam fixed itself so the $$ were no longer needed to fix it.  So I asked if he wanted it back or if he would like the $$ to go on account.  He picked on account, since he visits 1-2x a month, that will work.  I have the $$ held to the side so I can pay myself after our next visits.  

There are some providers who have integrity and do not want to take advantage, but you do have to be VERY careful who you do it for.

I GIVE money to mom. She always calls it a loan and I don't expect it to come back. She is the only person I'd send money to.

I recently wrecked a brand new truck (bought by a hobbyist) without car insurance. Yes. Yes. I know. Dumb move! But I thought it'd be better to buy $600 shoes and a $800 dress than have car insurance. It was my fifth year reunion from an Ivy League college, I HAD TO HAVE IT!

My regulars have been tipping me like crazy! LOL. I think its because they love my outcalls! But no, a provider should NEVER need a loan! As for me, I pay Enterprise well and I keep it moving!

KK

I have done so twice and been asked several times.  The last time it was a provider I had seen a number of times and she at least was honest enough to ask for a handout rather a loan.  I was tight on cash at the time and had to demur.  This caused her to be come incensed.  No surprise.  When you mix sex and money, the results will often lead to a contentious ending.

Getting money back is very difficult even from family & friends let alone providers. My rule of thumb is no lending.. there are plenty of banks and cash places out there they can go to.

Providers cannot process the idea of giving men money under any circumstances including money lent them. Money only travels in one direction in their world...from the man to the woman. Once it does, under ANY circumstances and regardless of the promises made about returning it after the "emergency" has passed, it's their's to keep.

Money "lent" to a provider is money "given." You will NEVER get it back, even if they promise you to pay you back in future services. It's the way they are wired and if you don't like it, they will move on to the next mark.