Lets be honest here....Why do most of these guys see Providers?  Ladies do these guys ever share with you why they are seeking to pay for sex/love, and/or company, a women to talk to ?

I feel for some of these women that are getting paid good money to FUCK old, fat, hairy guys....YUCK.  They must bring themselves to happy place while they are fucking.  On the flip-side....Provides must love when a young, wealthy, good looking guys shows up and fucks them.   They must think...I just got paid to fuck someone thats better looking than my boyfriend and there is NO drama afterwards..  Ladies...I want to hear your thoughts on it....Be open and honest about it

Not withstanding the fact that you write fake reviews, use fake credentials and references to see ladies who avoid you like the plague and generally bullshit everyone about who you are and your activities, and now you want honesty?  Oy vey!  OK, I can be flexible.  

Since, your not all that familiar with simplicity and truth:

"I'm amazingly good at it"   wow.....not to mention you are fat, old, and ugly....LMAO  

1. Companionship
2. Emotionally unavailable for a traditional relationship
3. Sex addiction, single or married
4. Higher sex drive than significant other
5. Modelizer
6. Disabled
7. PE issues
8. Insecurities
9. Due to personal issues, it's simply been a long time
10. Fetish exploration
11. Sexuality exploration
12. Shyness  

Is a "sure thing " and as easy as ordering a pizza , so when we're board we just order both ! Oh FIDIOT , im far from old and yeah I'm handsome ! U got no clue !  

I'm very shy around women and this hobby solved this problem.  

I got tired of begging my wife for sex. I got sick of me having to initiate it all the time and get humiliating turn-downs. Then I decided to "outsource" sex and while at it, live out my porn fantasy.

1) I have no other way of meeting Women. I've tried all the Traditional Routes like, through Friends, Social Gatherings, even Women in Class when I was going to College. Nothing Worked.

Women are "drama" and you believe your living a fulfilled life by buying an "act" ? 5 letters spell a word the describes u and the 1s letter is L the last one is R , fill in the others and paste the 1st one on your forehead !  

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ROGM-  Those are the BEST answers I have seen yet.  WE have a lot in common.  For me #3 is the most important.  I can find a booty call at the last min, however, even booty calls get emotionally attached and start calling you, texting you, I want No strings attached.  I always tell my booty calls....I'll call you !!!

I have had a GF Back_in_black....it's DRAMA....women are drama...people are drama.  LOOK at you and the rest of these losers on this site.  Some are nice and respectable people, the others are losers that have to pay to see a hot women.  "L" for Losers.  Yes, I hate the drama that is attached to sex.  Women tend to like the emotional attachment and guys like me LIKE SEX, not the emotions....it's just a sex, a release of cum and enjoyment :     You can save all the drama that you create for you MAMA homie....You can take the dog away from the ghetto, BUT, you can't take the Ghetto out of the Dog.  LMAO

LOVER boy !   :  

Where do you get your drama theories? Maxim magazine, Cosmopolitan, the back of a cereal box?

Supposed to stand out ? Then the reviews , over and over "a friend told me" = Fakes! Like you , now the good part your obsession with me , gagambler , and the others guys ? Why would you fit with us , we at who we are your not us and will never be !  

Posted By: FIDCUOF

I have had a GF Back_in_black....it's DRAMA....women are drama...people are drama.  LOOK at you and the rest of these losers on this site.  Some are nice and respectable people, the others are losers that have to pay to see a hot women.  "L" for Losers.  Yes, I hate the drama that is attached to sex.  Women tend to like the emotional attachment and guys like me LIKE SEX, not the emotions....it's just a sex, a release of cum and enjoyment :     You can save all the drama that you create for you MAMA homie....You can take the dog away from the ghetto, BUT, you can't take the Ghetto out of the Dog.  LMAO  
   
 Back_in_black, you work for NASA right?  HA HA HA  LMAO   :  

Lucky u ! Or not

I was married before, it was an amicable split but ever since the divorce I have not dated. I'm just simply not willing to play the stupid game anymore. I don't find the thrill of the chase remotely enticing and to be perfectly honest I'm not at all interested in the kind of women that I could attract. So, from your post you say you're not interested in the drama, thus you hobby, well me too. Money I have, youth, good looks, patience and desire to listen to the bullshit, not so much. I get what I want, when I want and with really hot women, most of whom make me feel like a friend if only for a few hours at a time and I'm perfectly fine with that arrangement. One of the fortunate .aspects is, that I know exactly what a provider's motives are. Most every provider I've been with are interesting in their own way and so that quenches the only other thirst I'd have with a mate. It's perfect for me, and I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the normal, but I am me.

OK, I work for NASA, too.  The village FIDIOT is just that....village FIDIOT.  His role is to entertain, make us laugh, and as his title implies, craves the attention and can only be happy when he entertains, and makes us laugh.  Don't take him seriously, just enjoy the entertainment.

I'm trying I'm trying, but you know my panties can't help but get in a twist when it's just the same thing over and over. I'm all for humor, I'm funny (not just funny looking).  

I don't see anything in your actual post to argue however. If it works for you, that's all that's important.

RussBBJ for President....you just summed it up to a TEE.    Have a great weekend mate

You're an adolescent who is afraid of girls, so you live out your fantasies here.  Yep, that's my theory.

He has finally stopped capitalizing the "M" in "my provider."
Huzzah!

know what board winking is, certainly not interested in picking sides between you two, and was simply intrigued by the unintended play in your taunting riddle.  You both seem to make a lot of puerile and/or angry posts.  Why do you post with an alias?

I didn't say he was humorous, just entertaining.  I take it back...sometimes he is very funny.  Just don't take it seriously.  There are plenty of good posts for what you seek, and may answer some of your questions.  Choose the ones you want to read and participate, ignore the rest.  For me, I like the entertainment.

I just couldn't resist sharing this excerpt from Fidster's review of Marla and Tony.  Complete with several mis-spellings.

Pushing a broom.  Here's a picture of him from years ago before he got old and fat.  Recognize him?

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We're rather similar, except I'm young, wealthy, dashing and fit.  Just ask GaGa, LOL!  But, yes, I'm twice divorced and have no patience for dating.  Seeing providers is much easier.  The other nice thing about it is I've become friends with quite a few of them and have a nice OTC social life with several.  It's like dating in reverse.  We just get the sex out of the way first.

As I've mentioned before, I divorced at the beginning of this year after 36 years of marriage and 45 years of being together. I don't want any emotions, and I don't want pain.

But he got too old for the McD ads and now is simply fat, old and ugly.

You comee across as one of those egomaniacs who views himself as the guy any woman should be willing to pay for the priviledge of basking in his glory.  Wow, I can only imagine the kind of harem you attract with that approach.

Go look at fidiots reply to you he added a wink smiley to u . No I'm not like him ! I like nice girls friends with many and the alias just like it always did ! C , I do it with no motive I only use my alias so I'm not hiding who I am , I have reviews and those white thingies ? I see hottt n pricey girls and just like to have fun woohoo !!!!!! Now fidiot fibs , go read his stories , a friend told him ?????? No , fake ! I like the woohoo kinda cool so have fun , hope I answered your questions , have a nice day !!!!

Did you sniff his ass ? Oh , I'm rotfflmao ! A ha ha ha ha . Bet you were there too get some of that SAP !  

I have great sex at home, and rarely come into a date 'horny as hell' or whatever other qualifier one in this hobby might use.  Sex is a nice part of the evening, but to be honest, spending time with an attractive, intelligent, funny and fun companion is way better than watching reruns of Modern Family followed by SportsCenter or the Daily Show or even worse hanging out at the hotel bar watching a local college football game.  

Why do you need the counselor in the first place? Especially if you aren't going to take his advice.

I can only speak for myself, but the last thing I am interested in is a woman "my own age" and it sounds like you are of the same mind. I assume you are paying this counselor, why not fire him and spend the money on the young pussy that makes you happy?

Yeah GA, I was careful to say "in this case". Believe me it was painful for me to say I was like him in any way, and look he's made an ass of himself again in this tree alone. But I do agree (ouch that hurts) with his comment that he hobbys to avoid the drama. Oh well I have agreed with one thing that Obama has said in the past too, funny I can't remember what that was, but don't let me mix politics and sex.

I had to take a big rip at it.  Amazing how guys who play bad-ass leave themselves so open.  And FID, if you're thinking of looking for dirt in my reviews, don't bother cuz it ain't there, you clown.  There's another guy who got into it with me and I found in his reviews that he always cuddled with girls.  So I found a YouTube video by a comic named Mike Epps of a character called "The Cuddler," which I posted just for him.  He didn't like it.  Go ahead and google "The Cuddler Mike Epps" and you'll find it.  Fucking Hilarious.  "He who cuddles sleeps in a puddle."

Too funny, your Counselor told you that you shouldn't spend the money. How ironic, coming from a Counselor. I had a discussion once with a friend who is in an unhappy marriage with a woman that won't give him sex in any way but still expects him to work to provide for her and their 5 kids. The conversation made it's way around to me suggesting that he get a hooker and he said "I would never pay for sex", I had to laugh, he's paying for sex, doesn't know it and ain't getting it

"I'm amazingly good at it.".........LMAO
What a lying "Cunt"

"Fat, ugly, old, stinky ass"........he described the IDICKY perfectly.

Guess your lame ass missed it.  Russ for President.  LMAO!
From russ's post above.
"look he's made an ass of himself again in this tree alone."

Your counselor is an ass.  Tell him to go fuck himself and spend the money you're giving him on providers.  You'll be saner and happier.

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I have a counselor because I needed help quitting a five pack a day cigarette habit and quitting drinking. Once those were over, I just checked in once in awhile. When the marriage ended, I needed someone to talk to on a more frequent basis.

The biggest failure that guys seem to have is they think if they are in great shape and handsome.... we just love them. Really it is all about personality. If a guy is handsome/fit but a dick.... you can't make up for it. The regular guys who have a nice personality makes it much farther. If we were looking for a boyfriend, we would. Nothing worse than an asshole, no matter who you are or how much money you have. Money doesn't get you everything you want

Reminds me of a well-known exchange in a movie:

1) Most likely it's FAG-CUOF again demonstrating how huge an ignoramus he is.
or
2) He's trying to tell us his butt-buddy, The Dungbeetle, is in a pause from taking his meds.
I'd say both are right.

Guys don't like to be rejected  

Posted By: AlexandraMilw

The biggest failure that guys seem to have is they think if they are in great shape and handsome.... we just love them. Really it is all about personality. If a guy is handsome/fit but a dick.... you can't make up for it. The regular guys who have a nice personality makes it much farther. If we were looking for a boyfriend, we would. Nothing worse than an asshole, no matter who you are or how much money you have. Money doesn't get you everything you want  
   
 Why guys do this?  
   
 Most common answers: wife won't give it up and he just wants sex. A guy is too shy or too busy to get it. Just wants sex and not have to work for it in hopes she may put out. Some are just too big of jerks to get laid or too yuck to get laid. Guys just don't want drama.