My questions are for the ladies:  In your job as a provider how do you feel about a man over 40?  Is he an unavoidable hazard of the job? Does it matter at all to you?  Do you like an older clientel?  Does it depend on the guy? Do you screen them out?  Some providers advertise that they like "mature" (ouch, that word hurts) gentlemen.  I would guess because presumably "older gentlemen" (ouch that phrase hurts, too) are financially more generous than younger gentlemen.  Just how do you feel about a more "experience man" (that's better). Is he more work because he doesn't react as quickly as a younger client? The fragile male ego aside, I would like some honest answers from the youngest to the more experienced of you ladies.  If for some reason you don't want to post here, although I believe there are other guys who would like to read your response, please send me an e-mail.  Thanks!

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My personal preference if I were in a position to date ( if I were not a provider) personally I am attracted to men between the ages of 45 to 55.  Not for any particular reason except that I find myself to be very immature at times and a man of this age has a claming as well as an elevating effect on me.  In terms of the business and providing services I personally try to avoid anyone under 30 they just have too much testosterone and are always trying to show you how good they are by pounding away at you as if that was erotic!  Yuk.  Just my humble preferences.

Ladies, this inquiring mind would also like to know. I'm approaching the big 50 and have been told by some ladies that they don't want the young guns. My guess is that the youngs ones may tend to have too much energy. Thanx for your thoughts.

In my opinion, it definately depends on the guy! I am a 46 year old massage therapist and I have clients of all ages. I have many who are wonderful to be with and their ages range from early 20's to late 60's. Some are shy, some are very outgoing, some are always 'up', some are more somber, some would be considered much more physically appealing and others are less but every single one of them has always made me feel appreciated. The number one thing that I love about them is that they show their respect for and desire of our intimacy by taking great care to always be well bathed and groomed when they come to see me. (And most wear my favorite men's colognes ;o) This may sound like a minor thing to some people but it isn't to those of us who take great care to be clean for our clients because we want them to enjoy being close to us. When a man smells good and shows me how much he enjoys my touch I can't help wanting to make him feel special too.

I think that most of the ladies that have doing this for awhile are very excepting of older gentelmen. I don't think that us older gentelmen really much worry about.  One provider told me one of her regulars was 77. I am 66, been in this hobby a little over 15 months, have had wonderfull experiences with what I would call the upper tier of providers in LA (HB, Celeste, Cheridan, LL, Grace, Selena + others)  Age is a state of mind. If you are in good physial condition, have a positive and pleasing attitude and are discreet there is no problem. The only negative thing is that I wish that I had started this hobby much earlier.   my .02

I tend to be drawn to more experienced and succesful gentlemen.  If that means they are 38 or 57, I do not mind.  One of the things I have learned in life is that to be succesful you must surround yourself with success.

I find that (well at least in this venue) the older, wiser, more experienced stud is able to give me more of a stimulating exchange of time.  Money aside, more experienced men know more and will tell more.  Knowledge is much more valuable to me than money.  

On the sensual side of things, more experienced men again just KNOW more.  They are better able to detect slight signals from a female.  This allows smooth communication sans verbal interruption.  I respect a man who knows what he wants and then gets it.  

Well, that is my opinion.  

Smooches,
Desiree of Portland

I love older gentleman!  

XXXOOO Ashley

Me too!!!  Me too.....

How about younger gentleman?  I am 23, and although I am young, I see myself as a successful person, if not as successful as others much older than me.  Success in measured in so many different ways.  Any input on this would be greatly appreciated.  I have heard stories that you ladies would prefer older men, because you are afraid younger people, like my age, or even younger than me, may rip you off.

I am 37 and I admire older men for there ability to treat us for who we are. I think your more giving, more relaxed, and definetly more gentle. Just because your fifty doesn't mean it doesn't work anymore.......right. If your ever in NC please look me up,I'ld be glad to take you on a ride.