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NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 4339 reads
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1 / 53

I am stocking up for my new incall and wondering what are some of your favorite extras at a providers incall. I was thinking,mints, mouthwash non scented soap, water, variety of condoms of course....what else? I like to do a little extra and make it a nice experience for everyone. This is my first residential incall.

252002 178 Reviews 108 reads
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2 / 53

Classy thoughts, very classy. Although I probably will never make it to visit you although you’re welcome to come to Boston. I like a provider to have a lotions scented or unscented. After I take a shower I personally have dry skin. Just my thought.

CuriousGeorge1152 111 reads
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3 / 53

Massage oil (unscented), a few of your favorite toys, and some sensual music playing in the background.

STOLGUY 24 Reviews 94 reads
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4 / 53

Since I look so much better in low light environments, I would have to say candles.  It's also nice when a half-naked woman shoves a glass of wine in my hand upon entry.  The room, that is.

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 102 reads
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5 / 53

I mostly visit high volume agencies so that's my frame of reference

 
Unscented soap/body wash/oil.

Even without a so, I absolutely hate that if/when I exit the incall smellin like a tulip bath that goes over and through my cologne. 'm in my 30s and  prefer more masculine scents. Having something very neutral like a dove bar soap is preferable.

 
Large bath towels. Nothing worse than tiny towels after a shower.

 
Proper airflow and humidity. Sex can get you sweaty and hot and the air needs to be humidified if it's too dry, and proper temp control is a must. I've had a few sessions where I couldn't get enough of the provider but both of us were a sweaty mess because of lack of proper ac or whatnot.

Mirrors in the bedroom. . Not quite an extra but mirrors are super fucking sexy.

Bluetooth speaker/laptop with good sound/TV that has Bluetooth connection. some clients like to listen to their own music playlists on phone. I know I do.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 93 reads
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6 / 53

Shower stuff, and bottled water.  I've had escorts lay out snacks and beverages, but really, I find it more of a distraction.

paigesavage See my TER Reviews 124 reads
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7 / 53

first congratulations on the new (and first) residential incall! besides everything people have said above, as a provider, some things I have added that have been beneficial:

 
(lean against the) wall mirror is beneficial in the bedroom
sound system or something similar to a JBL for mood music
water in the fridge in addition to having a few other beverage choices
a bar cart - doesn't have to be fully stocked but whiskey & whisky, gin, etc
greenery and/or art - having plants (even faux ones) warms up the space
stock up on sheets, towels, and washcloths
valet/butler stand is helpful especially if you have suit wearing clients
a tower fan in the bedroom

trex44 9 Reviews 106 reads
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8 / 53

...is my ATF's towel warmer. It's also a steamer, so clean up after play time is quite nice and relaxing.

I'd also recommend some of the internal condoms (aka FC2s). If you're familiar with them, they can be quite an enhancement for clients.

Buena suerte!

BigPapasan 3 Reviews 100 reads
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9 / 53
mrfisher 115 Reviews 94 reads
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10 / 53

an assortment of healthy snacks such as nuts, fruit, cheese, crackers, chocolates, and of course bottled water.

 
It really is something I look forward to just before it's time to go.

liqq63 19 Reviews 101 reads
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11 / 53

...I've noted over many years is the frequent absence of someplace to put ones' clothing.  Probably 50% of incall dates had no such obvious convenience.  So, a chair/hooks on the wall, something/anything convenient.  Heck, even one of those temporary over the door style hooks that could be stored when not needed would've been nice.  And a bath or hand towel or wash cloth laid out on the bathroom sink for my use is always appreciated.

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 103 reads
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12 / 53

Never been to Boston..thanks for the tip.

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 99 reads
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13 / 53

I LOVE nice lighting and candles...I like setting a mood.

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 105 reads
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14 / 53

Thanks, great advice. I just bought a new led bluetooth speaker for the bedroom.

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 96 reads
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15 / 53

Thank you! And thanks for several ideas I hadn't thought of. Can't wait to entertain.

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 104 reads
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16 / 53

Sorry my replies are short, I just got new long nails lol and cant type! Haha.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 93 reads
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17 / 53

for fingering that's all that counts...

fjchpr 36 Reviews 107 reads
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18 / 53

I SECOND THE MIRRORS!

DeClemente 48 Reviews 112 reads
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19 / 53

A place for me to hang my clothes. More importantly, a CLEAN and DRY place to hang my clothes.  One woman was in a bare bones apartment, the only place for my clothes was in the bathroom at the shower curtain rod. I didn't realize that the way the water sprayed from the shower head, some of it wet my clothes both of the times that I showered, once when I arrived and again just after we had had sex. Another woman had a chair at the foot of her bed for me to drape my clothes over. With all of our vigorous fucking, we didn't realize until afterwards that we had knocked the chair over.

Clean (preferably NEW) towels. I've given up on this one completely and started taking my own towel to all sessions. Too many times I've been handed a "questionable" towel, or no towels were available at all. Old towels, holey towels, threadbare towels, musty-smelling towels, damp towels, blatantly dirty towels, towels that were too small, scratchy towels, etc. The one I carry is a type of beach towel that I throw in my backpack.

Room temperature bottled water. Not everyone likes or can drink refrigerated, chilled, or ice-cold water. Please leave a few bottles aside at room temperature just in case your guest has a preference.

Pets. No everyone is a pet person or an animal person. I had a civvie girlfriend whose dog was jealous of the time I spent with her, but even worse, would always watch us very intently and growl when we fucked.  My girlfriend thought it was cute, I didn't. Pet hair, hairballs, pets doing number 1 or number 2, vomiting, etc., it can ruin a session for some people. If you have a pet on site at your incall, please consider these factors.

Too cold or too hot. This one is tricky. Personally, I can't stand air conditioning, no matter how hot a room is or how hot the weather is. I prefer opening windows over turning on the air. Besides, some of those machines are too loud. Conversely, during cold weather or in a room that's naturally too cold, an extra sheet or extra blanket can come in handy. Just two weeks ago, middle of December, sexually, I had a great session with a woman, but I was freezing the whole time, especially my legs and feet, but she didn't have any other bed linens besides the sheet that covered the mattress. It's true that you get heated up during sex, but when a room is too cold it can sometimes break the mood. I hate wearing socks during sex, I think it's a dork move, so I muddled through, but I half jokingly and half seriously told her that instead of lingerie, the next time I see her I'll give her a gift of another sheet or a blanket for her incall bed.  

The mirrors, candles, snacks, toiletries that others mentioned are all good suggestions.

DaysonB 98 reads
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20 / 53
DaysonB 96 reads
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21 / 53

Scent free lotion and shower gel  
- like something hypoallergenic  

Single use disposable cups for dispensing mouthwash

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 108 reads
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22 / 53

want to have water to go with the soap.  They work well together.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 106 reads
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23 / 53

Modelo or Yuengling Lager are my favorite bottled beers..

TheGovernor 142 Reviews 94 reads
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24 / 53

Neutrogena  Men Invigorating Face Wash for afterwards.  Blue Gel about $6.00 per tube.  BTW, you are thoughtful and considerate!

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 195 reads
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26 / 53

That's a pretty detailed list DeClemente. But when I looked at your recent reviews the last four Tijuana escorts you saw charge $60, $45, $90 and $50 per hour. For those donations I'm surprised you wouldn't want a chilled bottle of Moet too.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 94 reads
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27 / 53

Posted By: RegencyHobbyist
Re: Incall Comfort. I'm glad you posed this question.
That's a pretty detailed list DeClemente. But when I looked at your recent reviews the last four Tijuana escorts you saw charge $60, $45, $90 and $50 per hour. For those donations I'm surprised you wouldn't want a chilled bottle of Moet too.
Lol.

eastside70 47 Reviews 108 reads
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28 / 53

safe, discreet, clean, and a shower is available, I don’t really require any other extras. I even bring my own shower supplies, so I don't require those things either.  

Now if a provider wants me to specifically use her shower supplies, which has happened once, I don't have a problem doing so.

J0e_Fella 35 Reviews 115 reads
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29 / 53

...white sheets and towels so they can be easily washed with bleach. 1 part of bleach + 10 parts of water to spray on the tub and the surrounding calking regularly, which undoubtedly will be moldy over time. Use distilled vinegar for the colors load and it will refresh and brighten up the colors.  

 
A nice kept tidy incall is an instant hard-on. Shower gel bottle pump and no bar soaps. Scented lotion and candles are my favorites, along with a light touch of perfume as I am single and have no SO. :)

 
Champagne, wines, vodka, and whiskeys are always a nice touch. Leave the glasses in the freeze.

 
All of the above is naturally standard at my place, by the way.

Freya Fantasia See my TER Reviews 103 reads
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30 / 53

In the bathroom, I always have a clean set of towels for the guy. I have a bench for him to sit down on in case he needs to sit while he’s undressing and I have hooks on the back of my bathroom door for clothes along with hangers.

I have three different kinds of body wash options. I have extra toothbrushes individually wrapped (I like the bamboo ones from Amazon), two different kinds of mouthwash and Dixie cups.

I have plenty of candles and an essential oil burner that makes a pretty light and it smells good.

I think nice lighting is very important along with a comfortable bed and a nice clean bedspread.  

Of course I always have some basic BDSM toys available in case we need something new and I have a fun penthouse truth or dare game!  

Maybe I shouldn’t give away all my secrets!

helixir 54 Reviews 91 reads
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31 / 53

Clean, Clean!, CLEAN.
Amenities are nice but the fundamentals are . . . Fundamental. Too many incalls I've seen look like the Greyhound bus station after a bus load of teenage boys passed through. I'm not gonna touch the mouthwash if it looks like the sink is covered in last week's dirt and the wastebasket is stuffed with condom wrappers. Basic tidiness goes a long way. I want to feel like I'm in at least a grown-up space.

If you offer a shower, clean, fresh towels are a must. Better a cheap and clean dollar store towel than trying to dry with paper towels.  (I speak from experience)

And most drug stores or the BB&B sell those paper single-use hand towels in packs of 50. I'd much rather dry my hands with one of those than a hand towel that's damp with . . . ?  And less laundry for you.  

Maybe ask yourself how you'd like the guest bathroom to look if I invited you over to spend the weekend. I'm pretty sure you'll start with the basics.

Buen suerte!

CamilleUK See my TER Reviews 92 reads
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32 / 53

The 3 main things are clean and tidy and a manageable temperature  
People can get past a lot of other stuff if those 3 are spot on and by clean I mean really clean

I used to have fresh coffee on the go too - that was always pretty popular

C

DeeperFeather34 2 Reviews 189 reads
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33 / 53

The most memorable I've had were when I left, they gave me something unexpected for after the session and for the road

Ice cold water bottles
A choice of mint gum,  
Single serve Gatorade bottles chilled in the fridge
Hot towel rub down
Hot towels out of the shower

1angelinajones See my TER Reviews 104 reads
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34 / 53

Posted By: NaughtyMaddy

I am stocking up for my new incall and wondering what are some of your favorite extras at a providers incall. I was thinking,mints, mouthwash non scented soap, water, variety of condoms of course....what else? I like to do a little extra and make it a nice experience for everyone. This is my first residential incall.
The first priority I take great pride in is procuring a  
welcoming, extremely clean, and sexy Incall with all  
amenities one may desire.

I won’t divulge all of my secrets however I enjoy  
creating an indelible overall rendezvous.  

This is why I stopped offering “outcalls” because  
I discovered that some locations, be it ones’
home or hotel is seriously lacking in cleanliness,  
effort or thought into making it a comfortable  
encounter;    
No clean sheets, hand or bath towels, or paper  
towels, bottled water or even a bit of soft music  
to create ambience.

A little effort goes a long way.
Xo Angelina Jones

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 118 reads
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35 / 53

This guy has no sense of style.   There's no way you should keep a 5-gallon bottle of water on the counter that close to the edge.  

team_rocket_qwerty 35 Reviews 92 reads
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36 / 53
RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 98 reads
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37 / 53

Just think, Felcher Boy probably aspires to someday have an apartment as nice as that one. Not that he'll ever get there.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 98 reads
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38 / 53

we are being serious and when we are just having fun.

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 86 reads
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39 / 53

Can you help me out and explain to me what he does know?

TheUsualSuspect 27 Reviews 107 reads
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40 / 53

Astroglide SiliconX. Lighter than Eros, lasts longer than water-based Astroglide or KY. Super for handjobs.  

Oh, and female condoms…closest thing to bareback. Especially with a liberal amount of Astroglide SiliconX.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 107 reads
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41 / 53

somewhat of a fluid situation.  While I think he is articulate in his writing, what he writes does not make much sense most of the time.  In other words . . . . He says stupid shit very well.  Lol

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 83 reads
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42 / 53

You're correct. There are some of his posts that make me think he might have gone to college (probably a JuCo), but most of the rest of his posts confirm that there's no way that he ever graduated. I couldn't stop laughing last week when he proclaimed himself a "young professional" as if anyone would ever believe that.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 85 reads
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43 / 53

there are some over-the-hill young professionals.  Peaking by age 35 sucks.  Lol

Once-Is-Not-Enough 94 reads
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birthday suit is really all any red-blooded male would truly want!

impposter 49 Reviews 133 reads
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Posted By: helixir
Clean, Clean!, CLEAN.  
 Amenities are nice but the fundamentals are . . . Fundamental. Too many incalls I've seen look like the Greyhound bus station after a bus load of teenage boys passed through. I'm not gonna touch the mouthwash if it looks like the sink is covered in last week's dirt and the wastebasket is stuffed with condom wrappers. Basic tidiness goes a long way. I want to feel like I'm in at least a grown-up space.  
   
 If you offer a shower, clean, fresh towels are a must. Better a cheap and clean dollar store towel than trying to dry with paper towels.  (I speak from experience)
Carlee Jag's Profile has been removed, so my review is no longer available for all to see. A snippet:
"... Because it was hot and I was sweaty I thought a shower was appropriate so I undressed, left the envelope on the bureau and went to the bathroom. There was a big pile of wet towels on the floor (I guess I wasn't the first that day!) and no dry towels, wash clothes or anything. Carlee was very apologetic but in a very high-stressed way. ... "
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"... I had to settle for COB. I must admit, I did a pretty good job for myself but I didn't give myself a tip. I went to look for tissues for Carlee but there were none. No tissues, not even any freaking toilet paper! No fresh sheets, either. I grabbed another wet towel from the bathroom and she wiped down. ..."
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"... We chatted briefly and I went for another quick cleanup shower ... and back to the wet towel I used earlier. Yuck. Which, of course, stressed Carlee again and had her apologizing more and more and more. ..."
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Yes, clean, fresh towels are a must and would seem to be obvious but it doesn't always work out that way. ;-(

phlatsy 6 Reviews 122 reads
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46 / 53

to help start the session.  I once entered an apartment and we sat to chat as this was our first encounter.  The TV was on, low volume, and next to it in the corner was a fountain with running water and what looked like footprints in sand leading up to it.  Of course, I had to ask.  She explained that the footprints we're her son's which she had professionally preserved from a beach they visited in Florida.  The fountain was a gift to her from her son.  At the time, her son was a marine on deployment in Iraq.  This was a great icebreaker for both of us and the convo progressed fluidly which both relaxed me and induced a respect for her.  It was one of the best encounters I ever had, and I'm a retired merchant seaman.

I would not expect such an elaborate conversation piece, but something to help get the ball rolling for first time clients is a very classy touch.

mrposition 10 Reviews 107 reads
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47 / 53

...open wet pussy..knee pads..water...

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 93 reads
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48 / 53

I appreciate  the feedback it sounds like you might have better luck getting a room and having someone come to you.

DeClemente 48 Reviews 125 reads
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Posted By: NaughtyMaddy
Re: Incall Comfort. I'm glad you posed this question.
I appreciate  the feedback, it sounds like you might have better luck getting a room and having someone come to you.
Thank you, Maddy.

NaughtyMaddy See my TER Reviews 106 reads
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