Care to share?  Providers and hobbyists?  Venting can be good for the soul lol.

I cannot really say that I have had a 'bad' hobbying experience....knock on wood. But I can tell you a story about a weird experience that I had.  
I was actually in the middle of my date with a friend....literally, in the middle of the date. We were all hot and heavy. One BJ had already happened. He had already been DATY for quite some time. I was ready for the next step in the action. He gets a phone call, which he stops to answer. I didn't mind that. But what happened next, I was stunned.  
He told me that he had to leave, right away, as he is pulling his clothes on. He said nothing else. I got concerned, thinking that he had a family emergency, and asked that he let me know that everything is ok, which he said he would.
Well, the next day I sent him a text asking if everything is ok. He responded. He told me that there was no emergency. He said that he had gotten freaked out at the idea of actually penetrating another woman. I was like really....you didn't think of that before you were in my mouth, and your face was buried in my jay-jay?!!? I was so upset because I was genuinely concerned about him. It sucked! I never heard from him again. But I would guess that he eventually got over that fear.
Nothing like getting left hangin!

With a gal I knew well. Around midnight she said she was heading out to visit a friend she knew in town, and would be back in a couple of hours.  
At dawn she was still gone and there was no answer to her phone.  
I started to panic that she got murdered and I'd end up getting in big trouble.  
Long about 9 she showed up with nothing to say for herself.  
I was pissed, but we still are tight.  

Wow, you really paid for the overnight and someone else got the fun? That really sucks (or not as the case may be)!

But I no longer offer overnight dates, because the only one I had...the guy snored and farted all night.

It sounds like maybe she was double dipping. She runs her business like our great politicians.

LOL.....were you sleeping with my ex husband?!!?

So far we are seeing a common theme here and you guessed it my worst experience was on an overnight stay. In my very short experience I was south of the border and went with an overnighter stay. The girl was drop dead beautiful had a good time for 30 minutes and she proceeded to sleep for the rest of the overnighter. Major bummer to have a beautiful girl next to you who is asleep. I did wake her up once for some more play, but felt like a total jerk for doing it.

how do you even get back to a regular session after that. everyone says that provider's have their own lives, but when your dealing with a business transaction and a provider does that to you...
and i hate when providers have no explanation, a little bit of respect goes a long way, at least for me it does

I was doing an incall, the client showed up and we sat on the couch and started to chat.  He then proceeded to tell me he only had half my donation.  I told him I was sorry but he would have to leave.  He begged me to allow him to stay but I insisted he had to go.  He actually dropped to his knees on the floor and begged, I was very uncomfortable.  He then grabbed me and started to kiss me, at which point I opened the door and pushed him out.  He said he was going to wait outside until I changed my mind.  He texted me every 15 minutes for the next hour saying he was waiting outside.  I called a friend and he came to pick me up, to make sure I was safe.  Thankfully I didn't hear from the creeper again.

downstairs.  A person would think that would cure you of hookers for life but it only lite the fire.  There is something about the thrill of a BP girl or teasing LE.  Don't get me wrong, I'm in no way suggesting you disregard what most people on TER suggest....be safe.  However, some people like to hunt bears knowing full well their gun might jamb at the last moment.  

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I had no qualms about that.  
It was the acute anxiety her lack of consideration caused me that makes me seem that the worst time I ever had.  

I've had my share of no shows, doubles where one lady just sat there, string alongs, and an assortment of distractions. But there were two that take the cake. The worst is where the ex boyfriend of the provider started pounding on her door during the session saying he was going to kill her. She finally talked him down, and got him to leave, but I'd lost the mood. The second worst was where LE raided an AMP while I was there. Luckily, they had to take an emergency call, and they let everybody go. Better to be LE lucky than lucky in cards

...Years ago I contacted a provider that advertised in one of the entertainment mags. for an outcall session, when I opened the door to let her in she pulled a gun & robbed me, scared the hell out of me.

Luckily I haven't had any bad experiences but I have had a couple cringeworthy moments!! Here is my favorite!

One Friday afternoon I was looking through the local escort page, when I saw a lady that caught my eye.  I reached out and she responded shortly and a date/time was set.  Got to the room, she texted me the room and I headed up.  I went to the room, knocked on the door and no answer.  I headed back down to my car and sent here a text, she responded back apologizing.  Little head won and I headed back up.  As I got off the elevator I passed a guy who seemed to be giving me the stank eye.  Paid it no mind, just assumed it was a customer.  Got to the room and she answered, all smiles, we hugged and kissed and we were off to the races.  She was an image of perfection, country twang accent, nice MM DDs, 5'2", librarian glasses, cute bubble butt, the whole 9.    

after having him followed to your place. Lol

Stewart Avenue.  Atlanta.  Seedy motel just north of the Gold Rush "Gentlema's Club".  I was young and naive.  LOL (Need I go on?)

there was this one gal who visited me ato my doorman protected condo. Let's just say she was a biker chick. It was the gal in the pics but ... not the cleanest garment in the laundry bag.

When I left LE my sister got me into medicine.  
So I had to go back to school yada yada yada. But the increased $$$ let me hobby all I wanted.  
I wanted a change of scenery so I moved to Orange County.  
Started seeing a mature provider and she quickly became my ATF.  
We spent all kinds of time together off the clock at her insistence.  
Got very close and she shared that she actually commuted from Texas and that her ex and kids were all in west Texas.  
No big deal, just part of the getting to know her better.  
The only problem was that I never knew when she'd be in town until last minute when I got a text.  
This went on for two years.  
By then she was asking my advice on various business ideas she had. All good.  
I get a call from a company I was consulting for and by chance they'd like me to visit a hospital in West Texas.  
Cool! I texted and texted but got no response when I told her I'd be in TX. Weird.  
There was one particular Dr who was having trouble with a procedure  
We arranged to have dinner when I got to town and he insisted I come to his house for a home cooked meal.  
Want to guess who his wife was?
I've deployed twice and that was less painful and awkward than that dinner  
No idea what the odds are but nothing else I've ever encountered in my life has been more of a disaster than that evening.  
The Dr had no clue. He thought she was traveling and working on biz plans.

Lol....maybe

Amen! I do not do unto others what I would not like done to me
 I live by that rule.

After two years of trying to see a certain woman in Phoenix, I was finally able to set a date about a month in advance.  She primed me even more by telling me that she was on an extended break and she'd make me her first date back...told me to bring my "big boy" game because she'd make my 2-year anticipation worth the wait.

A buddy and me were leaving a casino in the "nice" section of Cartagena, I call it the "Waikiki" barrio personally. Both of us were drunk and this was a bit after midnight or so. We grabbed a cab and asked the driver to take us to where "the action" was for chicas. Yes, this was one of my first trips to Cartagena. He proceeds to take us through the "historical district" which is seedy enough to a ghetto on the outside of town where I am sure no gringos EVER venture to, at least no gringos with a lick of sense. Picture going "up the hill" in Medellin or Rio, it's something gringos who value their lives just "don't do"

is almost always "well spent".

I found her to be my PERFECT "type". Just an incredible body and her face and hair drove me crazy !
First meeting was fucking awesome! Both of us really into it and went multiple cups and an hour over. I only had like $300 cash past her donation which I gladly gave her.
Couple weeks go by, and I schedule again. She arrives late wearing 6in. fuck me pumps, zebra striped spandex and a crop top barely covering her perfect tits. I'm single, my apartment is in a building with 3 gay male neighbors, I don't fucking care !
So I start complimenting her and get things rolling by massaging and touching her ass - NOPE, she moves away so that's strange. Then she says "let's get you off, I have to be at the airport to pick up my sister". I'm thinking "dressed like that?"
So we head to the bedroom where she immediately drops to her knees and starts a mechanical BBBJ and I'm willing to just keep going. I ask her to remove her top as I'm a tit man and hers are PERFECT as I needed to keep hard.
Next I ask her to come up on the bed and ride me. At least I got to see her in all her glory (for 5 seconds) as she is stunning.
She jumps on top and starts CRYING !
That's it, I'mdone and head to the envelope and give her $100 and end the date. Her phone fell in an odd spot and was lost. She's now freaking out and practically screaming about it.  
Unknown to me was she had a driver. I couldn't kick her to the curb and those 10 minutes waiting on her driver were awkward to say the least.

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With those giant tatas of your you're lucky you weren't blinded lol
Or maybe the guy was so awed by those massive pillows upside down he couldn't talk.  
I know I'd be speechless...at least for a minute or two 😜😍😜

yeah, imagine what would have happened if she didn't want to see me lol

Several years ago, I booked four hours for dinner and playtime with an indie.  Playtime was first, and after dinner, we went back to her place and enjoyed a bottle of wine together.  It was clear to her that I shouldn't be driving, so she invited me to stay the night and sleep it off.  I was appreciative and went right to sleep.  In the morning I asked if I could shower before leaving and she let me.  As I was showering, she got into the shower with me and asked if I would share.  I said sure.  Things got playful, and before I knew it, we were back in the bed for another round.  Afterward, I dressed and started to leave, and she said, "Aren't you forgetting something?"  I said what.  She said the donation for today.  I thought she was joking, but she was dead serious.  I had not brought enough money with me to pay for another two hours of fun we had in the morning.  She seemed very annoyed and pointed out that she didn't charge me anything for sleeping over, but only for the sex we had in the morning.  I left, feeling I had been hustled, since I would have not gone for it had she gotten joined me in the shower and gotten aggessive with me.  In retrospect, I don't blame her for wanting to be paid, but I thought she should have said something like, "Do I want to go for another hour or two this morning." which would have clearly told me she was expecting to be paid.  Since I had paid for four hours, I just thought she was considering it as going overtime, which often happens on multi-hour dates of the provider doesn't have another customer booked in right after.  I ended up sending her the donation for the extra two hours, but it changed the dynamic between us so after a couple of more sessions, I just stopped seeing her.  I was pretty new to the hobby then.  Now I would probably ask to clarify what the status of continuing is going to be were I in that situation again.

Ez. Got a massage.  Went for the flip. It was supposed  to be a 3 hour gfe. Saw the hands.......he was a she......

1. The time at a K-girl agency in northern VA when my car got towed because I parked in the wrong spot. There was no sign posted saying anything like "If towed, call XYZ". And then spouse calls and says "Are you on the way home yet?" For anyone in a similar situation, here's the quick thinking that saved me: googled "apartment complex name towing" and got the towing company name. Yep, they have my car. Called the agency booker "I was towed", "Oh, no honey, stay right there" and she sends her "friend" to pick me up. That turns out to be a Korean "taxi", something like Korean community Uber, before Uber existed. He knows the towing company, whisked me right there, I'm saved and he wouldn't take a tip! After my wallet is $150 lighter for towing fee, I'm home safe, but the $300 at the agency got a bit more expensive that day.