Yes a massage to start the session or end it can be sublime. The key is whether you can really do it or if you just play at it. Touch is a gift. I think those that have a gift should use it.

I just roll over on my stomach, point to my back and grunt a couple of times!

Would you guys like to receive a back massage after the meetings? I am curious cause i always offer that after my meetings but most of the time, the gentleman rather just sit and talk. Give your feedback on this please. Have a great day!


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...but speaking for myself, I don't need one.  I prefer chatting afterward and getting to know the person better, especially if we clicked.  That's part of what makes me want to come back.

Last time I met with one of my favs, I gave her a back massage as we talked - which I also enjoyed.

exploring a young woman's body and rubbing lotion all over her body.  Ladies who I have had the pleasure of massaging will tell you I'm pretty good at it too.

The last lady I spent time with joined me in the shower after we gave each other a nice massage which was after we pleasured each other with some hot sex.

It's always nice to top off a session with a back rub just in case the stress was not completely melted away by other activities.

It is really nice to start with a soft sensual massage. It gets me going all the time. Thanks for your reply. xoxo

I love massages, but most providers don't know how to give a good one!!!   I like them before..........

I've been going to a physical therapist for back pain. It doesn't seem to be doing me a damn bit of good but it feels good while he's doing it. I imagine it would feel even better with a sexy woman.

i don't mind it if all the fun stuff is out of the way. i don't like one to start cause that just takes up some valuable play time. in the middle during the refractory period is ok too. but at the end is best.

I have no professional training whatsoever, but I do like to give massages. I haven't had anyone complain yet, so I guess I do okay!

But I really, really like to get massages. Mmmm. Such a nice feeling.

Edited to add: There's no reason the two (talking and massaging) need to be mutually exclusive -- unless that's preferred by either person. While I kind of lose my train of thought when getting a massage and usually zone out after a while, a little light chit chat is always nice too.

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And, some people just are naturally gifted at it, as my mentor/instructor said to me ( I was 19 when I learned that touching bodies is a way to give to another human being, a way to "tune in" to them).

I like to include a massage in my sessions, especially if the appointment is over an hour.  Using intuition, (and if the client is into it), I try to address his kinks and knots, starting out rather therapeutic, and (with the help of appropriate music), building up to a crescendo of very erotic, sensual, tantric-like massage....body to body, slipping and slithering up and down, front and back...

Most men really like it, some are just not interested in massage (it's easy to figure out what they want, and sometimes I just ask)

There are occasions when the massage is after playtime, and that's a great way to relax after some very heated physical activity...especially a neck rub, scalp massage, and soft facial.  

I have thought of conducting short teaching sessions for providers who are interested in learning some wonderful techniques, but so far haven't had enough response here in MN...

Just a thought.  It's all good.  

We could all use a little touch-everywhere (if you know what I mean)

I love both!!!