TER General Board
I prefer crunchy Jif! 
That is so wrong on so many levels.........!!!!!!!!
I dated this girl once..........
She told me this story..........
Smooth Skippy and a dog were involved.
She was a leg humper as well...........The girl.
She (actress) used to do little kid birthday parties dressed as a clown.
Yup, I bent her over the kitchen counter one day when she came home.......
Giant red shoes and wig......
I squeeked her nose at the moment of truth............
hahahaha!
What a nympho, I went into heroin like withdrawal when we broke up.
Almost got shot.
It was a low blow. AF is pretty pathetic.
I don't mind the insults being lofted at me. I expect them. I do bring them on myself 
I will not change for the sake of a few manginas, a few geezers, or a few mindless hookers either.
(1) non-judgemental
(2) Does not create or participate in gossip
(3) Does not manipulate others to suit his will
(4) Believes in live and live
(5) Is self confident
(6) Is Polite
(7) Never looses temper and start shouting at the check out clerk, customer service representative on the phone and at the waiter
(8) Is able to say " I understand but I do not necessarily agree and walk away"
(9) Not a fanatic about anything
(10) Doesn't believe is always right 100% of the time
(11) Is able to carry on a platonic relationship with the opposite sex
(12) Puts the welfare of the society before himself
(13) Doesn't tailgate and try to push people of the road just because he has Hummer
(14) Is considerate of others, not egotistical and is humble.
(15) Don't have the "me first" and I "always win" at whatever cost to others attitude
Finally, has the discipline to exercise his freedom in a that it does not interfere with others exercising their freedom.
and that is the characteristic of true true Gentleman. It is just not putting yourself in others shoes which you cannot realistically do ever. Metaphorically speaking, you can only guess which shoes others are in but will never know. I for one don't want to know due to my extreme aversion to getting into other peoples business but I do empathize and help if I am able to.
I remain stress free because I do not take on others problem. It is all about attention to simple things in life and an understanding of nature and how insignificant you are in the grand scheme that makes you humble and that makes a gentleman. Arrogance and selfishness does not make a gentleman or a lady for that matter.
My definition of gentleman is someone who is able to put himself in other person's shoes. Frankly I find few men in the real world are capable of this. Most are controlling and selfish and do not like to read/obey rules.
Also I have been known to take on others problems when it is the right thing to do in my opinion and there OK with it. I have really helped people out of some really bad places. Yes, it has caused a bit of stress in my life and it has back fired on me but such is life. I feel a real gentleman care for others, is kind, and is willing to roll up his sleeves to get to work to make the world better in a personal way. A gentleman stops to change a tire of someone who has a flat in my opinion. And yes all of your list too.
one is a moron who persistently shows "delusions of adequacy" ( I'd name him, but don't wanna get moderated------LOL ! )
As for the OP, do I detect "mangina sentiments" here ? When he says "someone who is able to put himself in other person's shoes", doesnt he mean high heels ?!------------
my experience as a love merchant has been overwhelmingly positive, and 99% of my clients have been perfect gentlemen. each one of the gentlemen i've cultivated a rapport with over time has a warm place in my thoughts.
that said, it took me about a year to find my niche in this little world; and another six months to discover my own personal obsession with pleasure (in particular, with harnessing the power of gentle touch to paralyze people with pleasure) and really come into my own. interestingly, the latter is less important than the former; once i realized i could be optimally successful by presenting myself honestly and being my own quirky little self, i noticed that i really began to attract the cream of the crop. since then, i've had a 100% success rate (knock on wood!) and i can honestly say that all of my boys are gentlemen.
of course, the way you treat people is always important. i do believe that in the majority of cases, when you put two people in an intimate situation together, attitudes bounce off of each other. the best way to guarantee gentlemanly behavior is to open the door with a sparkling smile and an enthusiastic hug.