Could you elaborate a bit on that?

those who see providers at parties, m&g, etc. must have noticed certain alpha females with male "friends" in tow.  guys who will do anything for the lady.  the guy(s) looks a little "hooked" from loneliness, the gal looks like she's kind of taking advantage.  a little sad, but something for everyone, i guess.  MANGINO, what say you?

I saw a show where men were paying to be ashtray and toilets for the domina.

I'm pretty new...but what the fuck are you talking about.  These guys sucking dick for her, than giving her the money?  No? Than they sound like pussy whipped guys.

i've seen it a few times in LA and wondered what the deal was.  sound like nobody else has noticed this.

It's not just "friends" at M&Gs and parties. Some providers prefer BFs who are doormats or jellyfish. They get stressed out if they don't have total control and obedience. NOT ALL. Just some, I'm saying.