I have a question that has been bugging me for a while, I'm a young proffesional who likes the company of great looking women. Money is not an issue, however, I saw a provider once who told me she only liked seeing "mature guys" since they can only go at it once per hour.  A agency didn't return my calls and when I called for an appt. i got the feeling they pretty much were giving me every excuse in the book when they found out how old i was.  I'm on my late 20's, pretty good shape and like to participate on this hobby.  Am I too young to be doing this?  do i need to be married or older to participate?

Reoes age matter to participate?

yes about 10 years too young, and married would be much better i'm afraid, give yourself about a decade

Just do what you feel is right and what makes you happy.  Unfortunately for me I found out later rather than sooner you don't need to do all the so called "normal bull shit" to make your life complete or happy.

my .02, 2strk

I've always assumed ladies who only want to see older guys prefer them because they think they are more respectful than younger guys.  It's never crossed my mind it might be because they think there will be less sex involved!

How did the agency know what age you are?  There's no need to mention it, IMO.  Don't worry about your age, there are plenty of escorts who will be happy to see you and if you're having fun that's the important thing

Thats nice. Just be careful if you do BBBJ. Older men tend to have prostate problems. Prostate problems cause blood to be in semen. We know what is in blood.

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do you want to do it all night, or take all night to do it?  

I think most prefer them because as Carrie mentioned they are more respectful.  
Also in regard to the one cup issue, most know how to pace themselves to allow for all the satisfaction they personally desire during the time period they reserve.  Also with the invent of lavetra and viagra, the above it definitely not true.

In my experience, age doesn't mean shit when it comes to how the guy will treat me.

I've met older guys who kept calling me names and were forceful on me, just because they are PAYING and I'm a whore in their view and I deserve to be treated like one.

And I've met wonderful young lads that were sooo much fun and were the true BFE. Guys that I wish I could keep for my private enjoyment.

Providers do not like to see certain types of men, just because they most likely will cause "wear & tear" in their view.

Let's compare the young with the old:

Young Guy:
he's full of energy, he's passionate, he's agile and can change to many positions, he's fast like Speedy Gonzalez.
He's also a long lasting fucker, meaning he can fuck as long it takes to cum.
He's there for HIS pleasure first, he is not worried if the provider cums or not. He wants the fun and non stop action.
He also expects to cum many times, his reservoir is full and need to be empty.
A session with a young guy is never passive or have a dull moment.
He's not into massages or laying back to talk waiting to recharge.
After the session is over, you are spent and need a hot bath and a nap ~~~~

Older Guy:
He comes in, he's laid back and enjoys to take HIS time.
His priority is not to please himself but to please the provider because is how he gets his kick.
So, he will spend lots of time exploring her body and doing DATY and popping once or maybe twice. No rush, lots of laughs & talking between pops to allow him to recharge, a massage here, a cuddle there.
The provider goes with her motions, the session goes smoothly and, when he leaves, she is not feeling "fucked to death" and she is ready to get her next appointment after she refreshes herself.

Now, which one the majority of providers will prefer? Business wise speaking?

That's why lots of girls have the "30 and over" or "40 and over" or "I prefer mature gentlemen" on their sites.

They can see 3 or 4 older gentlemen in a day for couple hours each and still be able to have energy after their day is over.

Now, if they have 3 or 4 young guys they will be exhausted, sour and ready to collapse.

That's the truth.

BDG

. . . for the "passionate" part. I'm 50 and as passionate as I've ever been, except more so. I have more passionate sex than when I was in my 20s; the important ingredient is chemistry.

I'm 50. When a lady tries to get a second cup from me I would say "You may try but it's not going to happen". My heart wasn't in it not becuase I'm sure it won't happen but I'd rather chat and get to know her before I go.

As for vitamins L and V. Although they help with erections, they actually impede ejaculations. They gave me some multiple orgasms from delayed ejeculation.

I have always been attracted to older men. I will not even date anyone under the age of 40.

Bring em on...

I'm not saying mature gentlemen can only go one per hour, it's what I was told by the girl.  Some agencies have a form on their website for prebooking and ask for a birthday date. Guess I was too young for their girls.

I've had good times with most girls doing the giggling, cuddling kind of things without going xtremely wild but was puzzled about that comment and my age contributing to not seeing the girl I wanted to see.

Thank you darlin'.  I recently had an unexpected session with a new to the biz 20yr old, I'm 68.  I gave her three very explicit chances to decline.  Not only did she embrace our time together she was quite clear that she preferred older men because "you know what you're doing." I found that attitude refreshing as well as erotic.

Simply lie about your age.  Add a few years, but mention that you don't look your age.

re: your statement: "Young Guy: . . . .He's also a long lasting fucker, meaning he can fuck as long it takes to cum."  Never was the case for me when I was young. I came quick but often.

You also have me curious about your comment, "His (old guy's)priority is not to please himself but to please the provider." Are we old guys wasting our time?

. . . at the end of the session to prove that I'm really 50; I look younger.

That is why I offer multiples- of course.

Maturity is not age it has more to do with the respect and the way a person conducts themselves. I for one have seen several younger gents- some younger than I am - which speaks volumes as I am not exactly old myself at age 26.

I know some providers don't like the disrespectfulness or the stamina some younger men present, but there is no guarantee that an older man has more respect or less stamina- thanks to the little blue pill. LOL

You will find someone to cater to your needs be patient. You have a willing list of female participants right here in this post to work your way through. Of course you can add my name to the top!

MUH!
Dylanne

"wearing me out." I only see one client per day, so this simply isn't an issue for me. Overall I have tended to prefer older gentlemen because they are, on the whole, more respectful in the way they treat me.

That's not to say that younger men can't be gentlemen though, and if I'm approached with a nice email, and treated right, I'm happy to see someone under 30.

"Stamina" and all of that simply doesn't enter into the equation for me. I'm more interested in the person, who they are -- not what they do in bed. I like all kinds of sex, from the slow and leisurely, to the hot and heavy, and everything in between. So I have fun with whomever I'm with, regardless of age, staying power, number of cups, what have you.

It's boils down to respect, for me.

xxxooo
Beverly ;-*

There was the guy who was 87 he goes to a provider she looks at him and says pop how old are you? He says 87 she says pop you've had it. He say's i have What do i owe you?

Reoes age matter to participate?

I am 35 years of age.  I regularly see a man in his early 20's and I also regularly see a man in his early 60's.  Both are interesting, attractive, repsectful and lots of fun. Age is a number.

The post directly above cautions that blood in semen in dangerous (i.e. HIV).  This is very deceptive.

How do you think AIDS is spread in Africa?  By male-female sex and semen, not blood.  Semen has HIV and is no safer than blood.  Spinal fluid (from spinal taps) is even more dangerous and contagious than blood.  Therefore, escorts should use condoms if they do spinal taps! ha ha

Semen blood, you will be amazed all the hits you get, lol.

If the provider is turned on by the client she will stimulate for a 2nd round and a 2nd pop within 1 hour.

I wholeheartedly agree. It doesn't matter to me WHAT age you are as long as you treat me with the same respect I accord you. That's the turn on before the appt. for me. I'm halfway to arousal before you're through the door if you're respectful in your approach. Watch out once I open that door, no matter what your age!!  

Naughtily yours,
Anneke

That it was!  You aAs one of the very few ladies I see who are all "mature", blonde, and experienced this was a totally unexpected and pleasant surprise.  But once upon a time long ago someone had to introduce me to scotch, raw oysters, and the joy of something outrageous.  Bless you my Princess.  Have a wonderful trip, and visit all those admirers who have been pining for you from afar.

Stamina is not the issue here.That is how they spend time together.

Relax, young folks!!

Reoes age matter to participate?

I'm pretty new at this and I was surprised when I found out I was on the younger end of the typical client at 40.  It seems 40 is the ideal age, not too young to be turned down, not too old to feel inadequate, not too poor anymore to be just a spectator.  I somehow see myself phasing this out around age 50, I think it's a perfect thing to do in your 40's.  I was also surprised to find out how many of us are married, but I guess if I wasn't, I really wouldn't have to do this, 40 is also a perfect age to pick up chicks, if you have that freedom.