What percentage of your clients have you been genuinely attracted to?  That is, even if you met them in civvie life, you'd want to spend time with them.  And what did you find most attractive about them?

well it depends on how one defines "genuinely attracted." there have been many clients where i was attracted to them in some way, and played off that attraction to enhance the experience for us both.

however if we're talking all-around attraction...only 1. an eastern european gentlemen i see about once a month. His personality (very passionate, romantic, yet aggressive, controlling, almost arrogant), the way he carries himself and dresses, his scent and taste....simply everything. He is definitely someone i would enjoy seeing "off the clock" and i have even told him as much, however he says he prefers to pay, as he loves having his "little whore." oh yeah, that's another reason i'm attracted to him...he's a dirty old man.

What do you expect providers to say to this question?  99% of course.  You see a provider for the fantasy.  She provides the fantasy.  If you hear a response that is probably closer to the truth...namely somewhere around 10%, your fantasy is compromised.  

Let's try it the other way around though?  How many providers are you attracted to that you have seen that you would spend more time with?  Weird to say, but after the main event it is about 25%.  Why?  Because after the little head has had his bit, the big head needs to stay engaged.  I suspect this is true for the providers too.

Providers can use aliases like everyone else here.

Let me see.... they attracted to Mr Franklin, the original George W.,  Mr Lincoln - especially when he takes them to the theater... Mr Grant, Mr Jackson, Mr. McKinley, Mr. Cleveland!  Oh, just so many they meet in this hobby!  

But beware if your name is Mr. Smith or Mr. Jones....  

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To answer your question Xenopus, there are 0% providers that i would see or spend time with after i finish my business with them. I know it sounds harsh, but for me, it is a pure fantasy thing and once that thing is over, i go back to civil life...until next time. that is it.

as I can afford with them.  I enjoy doing social things like dining, going to shows, etc.

Overall, about half the new providers I see become regulars because I spend a good amount of time selecting people with whom I think I'd be simpatico.

No Southern Gentleman...him...eom

At least that is what I tell myself.

Denial ain't just a river in Egypt!

To answer your question Xenopus, there are 0% hobbyists that i would see or spend time with after i finish my business with them. I know it sounds harsh, but for me, it is a purely financial thing and once that thing is over, i go back to civil life...until next time. that is it.

Look what a few changed words does. Still doesn't sound at all nice but I thought I'd experiment a little.  
 

Just for sex, I'd say 90%.  For interaction, maybe 2%.  Most of my providers have been pleasant enough, but are not in it to make lifelong connections.  Those few that I've been able to find engaging, I have the most fun with. I have never had a hostile interaction with a provider, though I've had indifferent.

Sexually I'm relatively vanilla - I don't care for Greek, BBBJ is not more important than CBJ for me, I love DATY and DFK - but the sense that this person actually likes my company, adds to the experience.

I have not been able to see providers in the $400 and up range so maybe the interactivity quotient goes up at that point.