Out of all the ladies I have met(this predates my days on TER) I can only say about a handful of them were strippers prior to becoming providers. I thought this number would be much higher. Guys, have you also noticed only a small percentage of the providers you have seen started out as strippers? For the ladies how many of you started out in a stripclub before getting involved with providing?

There's nothing better than a hot lap dance to get me in the mood for some fun. I love a gal who is expierenced in the art of striptease. When I do find a provider who was a stripper I always make sure she gives me a lap dance before the fun starts.



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I don't work in the clubs anymore, But I was an exotic entertainer for almost ten years. I loved meeting and teasing as many guy's as I could get my hands on!

Too many strippers do not understand the "Art of Seduction" and too many escorts do not "enjoy sex"!  IMHO.  I would think that the ladies I enjoy enjoy both... but often you can encounter a lady who either doesn't understand or doesn't enjoy either seduction or sex.  (And they can be separate... think c**k tease for one who enjoys seduction but not sex... and the wham bam gal for one who does not enjoy seduction, but does enjoy sex)....

I glady encounter ladies who enjoy both, and if so, they will get a 9 or a 10 automatically with me, irrespective of the services offered..

Two ladies I have spent time with where once dancers.  I ask both why they stopped and they both gave me the same answer.  Too much competition and they hated "the hustle".  I always had a fantasy of having a dancer strip for me and then "rock my world".  I ask one of these ladies to dance for me and it was better than the fantasy!

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prostitutes and strippers don't usually like each other from what I hear, now I speaking of brothel prostitutes, only because strippers seem to think they are better than we are , and they think they make more money and don't have to have sex. They think they are getting over on the guys.
I don't know if I would ever dance, it seems like a lot of hard work for dollar bills.

I never danced in the clubs, did some ameture nigth stuff but I love to seduce men and get them all worked up before we get to the real good stuff, and how I achieve this is by doing a strip tease then an eroctic dance for a while and you know what?  Everyone asks me if I am/was a dancer!!  When I say no they tell me that I should be but not here in Seattle, too many restrictions and new laws that would make it hard to hustle to make a good living.  Out of State maybe! Just for Kicks

Your team didn't do well today. I feel for ya.

When I read what strippers say about men and when I encounter them in those dark places where they vacuum the money out of men's pockets, I am not surprised that there may be a low conversion rate.  Exceptions aside (and it seems my experience is confirmed on this board) strippers generally seem to have a pretty low opinion of men.  And if you figure you can get anywhere from $500 to $1000 a night (net) from guys you consider lechers, lowlives and losers, why would you want to associate intimately with them?  Which is to say we may be only making things worse for ourselves--every time a guy goes into a strip club thinking he can get laid, I think he helps give strippers a yet lower opinion of the male of the species.  Remember, you don't go into McDonalds expecting a Ruth's Chris steak.  So every time you badger a stripper for a "date" or for something special, you're just asking to be ripped off, you're exasperating women whose limitations are written over the entrance (strippers not providers) and who might see your attentions as grasping, desperate and overbearing, which will result in having your name added to the great book of "Men are stupid, grabby scum so let's take all the money from them we can".

strippers are great at screwing us.
escorts are in some occasions giving us what we are paying for....and that what makes it worth while

re: "new laws that would make it hard to hustle"

Don't ya just hate that?

Started as a stripper/dancer/etc., back in 1997 ... was tired of handing over nearly half of what I made over to club(s) so, I decided to go into escorting/providing/etc. back in 2001, and loved it ever since! ;o)

I do miss dancing from time to time and use to dance every now and then but totally retired a couple months ago from it as the clubs in Chicago all SUX!(in my opinion)

I also, kept dancing and escorting totally seperate while in the clubs!

Besos!
Jade J'adore

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There are plenty of clubs and plenty of dancers who do provide sexual services that go as far as FS right in clubs.  This is not rare at all in private VIP rooms...

It seems to get them used to the sex industry and opens their minds to other possibilities. A few of them have continued with dancing after becoming a provider.  A few stayed in dancing only a short time.  One got started as a provider through an offer at one of the clubs. Another one I know has injuries after years of it and simply could not do it anymore.    

Yeah they dont allow alchohol in the clubs, which has been that way for several years now, but to add insult to injury there is a 3 ft rule. Poor girls out here, makes it pretty hard to make good $$ I waould assume on those lap dances, that is if the clubs are making sure the law is in use!

Baltimore Block - any one of a dozen clubs , City of Industry, CA - Hawaii Theater, and in the Good old days in Tampa - lots of places.