just what we need..Another Fucking Alias..

in my generation,  you were turned loose as a child to go play in the dirt with others. Nobody minded you to organize you or make sure everybody "won" or nobody was "bullied".   Most learned to sort things out for themselves.....

That dip shit shrink wants to feminize men so the male identity is lost. Males are traditionally the aggressive, most assertive and dominating not to mention it's in our DNA.  

..not to mention no one he is real or can inflict real pain. And if someone here is actually hurt by what is said they dont belong here.

Now, if we can just get everyone to follow the way you do, things will be better for everyone.

Is that right?

Tell us who you think is being abused and who you think the abusers are.  Or STFU and go away.

I don't go to the Mosh Pit unless I'm  up for physical bumping around.
     
 The  poorrichguy  system of using freedom with  self control, works for anyone .    

You are unable to carryon a discussion using your own thoughts and words.

Emotional hurt is real pain.  

You do your best preaching there.

Focus on the message not the messenger.

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Re: abuse

Back again? So soon?

Posted By: RobbinYoung

Posted By: macdaddy1944

just what we need..Another Fucking Alias..

   
 macdaddy1944,  
   
 At least this one is an alias, not an ali-ass.  

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Are everywhere.  

If the "mean" words hurt your feelings leave.  
If you don't like it here, leave.
  Your not being forced to stay here.

That is the all time best subject lin

Second, I don't necessarily disagree.

People can't take low blows around here.

With all do respect... No one on this board means anything to me.

First rule of the fuck board  all guys here truly believe that they are gods give to women

Second rule of the fuck board .. all women LOVE to suck dick and LOVE to have mediocre sex with middle aged bald dudes hung as hamsters.

Anything deviating from these rules is somehow viewed as abuse by overly sensitive individuals and my advise to them - GET THE FUCK OVER YOURSELVES

Other than things that will arouse a guy. That's just my line of thinking.

and come back all in the same post.

we are adults (who act like children at times) who have made a choice to be here.  As much as I would like things to be friendlier at times, I also realize that the hard truth that is viewed as abuse is many times the best learning tool.

Is there a special group on TER for effeminate males? What do you call yourselves?

It was your character (or lack of) that upset people.  Personally, I wasn't upset at all by your "rape sympathy" posts.  Amazed, yes.  Upset, hardly.  Nothing anyone says here is capable of upsetting me.

My generation (also yours, I believe) was also taught to show others respect.  To do otherwise opened one up to a range of punishments (age dependent) from Daddy whupping your tail, to fist fights on playgrounds, to getting the crap beat out of you and in days gone by, getting shot or stabbed in a duel for a perceived slight.

the best way to police trolls and haters is to not try and control them at all.  Just ignore them and never respond to a thing they say.  Eventually, trolls get bored and move on to other websites.

Name calling — Stripping the person’s identity by using a fowl name.

I tend to agree that this board is a bit overly hostile. But I've always assumed that it is because the bullies are always the ones with the lowest self esteem.

If I were to tell you that Costa Rica outlawed prostitution and that both the Del Rey and the Co Cal were now closed, I bet you THAT would upset you.

Calling you names, not so much. lmao

The mere thought of the Del Rey and the Cocal being closed made me lose my lunch.  And I haven't even had lunch yet!

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as were  your hopes of NOT being perceived as a mangina.

Sorry, but it is what it is.

and there really aren't any bullies here, just a few of us who aren't bashful about pointing out stupidity when we see it, like the stupidity of the OP's psychobabble.

Nick why can't you read?

Can't ask for a fight, lose the battle, then claim they aren't a suck up because they lost.

we were indeed expected by our parents to show respect - however, we were not micromanaged by our parents either.   Most of us were taught how to be independent,  and how to solve our own problems.  We were taught that if we were teased the answer was to ignore the tormentor and they would move on to someone else.  We were taught that if we were bullied the answer was to stand our ground and if need be punch him or her in the nose.

just by not being verbally abusive? I've always known the male ego was fragile....but damn. Be careful out there.....lol...

If people focused more on the content of the messages posted by the supposedly "hostile bullies," instead of the tone, they may attain a firmer grasp of what is actually being said. Quit worrying about various personalities and concentrate on the information that is actually being conveyed. Is it bullying, or is it sheer exasperation over the pseudo-ostriches who habituate the board's and spew their dangerously naive rhetoric that P4P is anything more than an illegal , sex for compensation activity. For all of the white knights out there who want to label them as misogynistic bullies, there is an extensive body of academic research and literature suggesting that your enabling pandering is misogynistic as well, as it serves to propagate a culture that inherently debases and devalues women. I am not a sociologist, and have no idea whether this line of thinking holds water. At the end of the day, as others have so eloquently pointed out, these are fuck boards, and participation is completely involuntary.

And considering my hourly rate I get paid at my job doesn't come close to that.  Is it really the women who are being devalued, or some of us hobbyists?  The thought of that makes me chuckle.

Totally agree too, but RY should change the last part of his statement from:  

Is there a special group for the aggressive chest thumping neanderthal type too.? You have cited one extreme and belong to the other.

Oh please.  

... oftentimes there is no "message"; there is only abuse of a specific individual.  There is no "information" being conveyed.  Is that "bullying"?  I believe it is.  Being exasperated about what someone has posted and using strong language to give a counter-opinion is one thing.  But making a post for the sole purpose of beating someone up is another.

Paaaaaaleeease......you should change your user name to JustAFatGal....Truth in advertising.  
Make sure you shower before a hobby date, word out that you have a stank down there, fat girls sweat a  
alot down there,  so clean it up prior to the date

"Voluntary" it is, thank you for pointing that out. My response to your thread is this. "Abuse" is a completely subjective term, and in my opinion, is part of the psycho-babble that permeates our "victim" culture. It's use when describing the effect of offensive comments on the individual psyche by the intellectual elite is intentional, because of the obvious connotations to physical battery, ergo, physical harm. "Stick and stones will break my bones" has now been relegated to the dust bin of PC censorship.

How many years has it taken you figure that out?  

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Try some estrogen therapy too. You may be able to get rid of the mustache and even hotplants may not be so repulsed.

They have to be feminized first and it is starting at a young age. You do know that verbal abuse is common in lesbian relationships too. Go ahead and make a date with lopaw. She will bite the back of your neck until you submit, then you will be all hers.

are sadly missing out on? Keep it up, let us all know what embodies an aggressive real man. It didn't take years for you sunshine, just one post and I could tell you were your type of "real man".  

Notice how all he can do and do very well is insult. Yes, the true mark of a "real man".

Your bitch tits are huge and saggy Ms. Panthera

I would call you a has been, but you never were a top tier prostitute. You are just another failure. That's really bad when you can't make a good living on your back.

And prove I have not made a good living at this. Your lame retorts are getting bad when I ask for proof, you shut down.  

If there is anyone around here who should be upset, I would say it's Tobi. Note to dumb shit, Stalking is not the way to win women over to your side.

between the feminists who want to eradicate his male identity, the growing number of MHB's on TER, the decline of white guy privilege, and andropause his testicles must be the size of peanuts. I can understand his anxiety.

Include the fact that he has no balls to back up his assertions about me and my business and you really have to pity him.  

I like it when people are truthful and even when they are assholes. At least you know who you are dealing with and can deal accordingly.

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Come looking for diet advice? Suddenly the board lesbians are your friends now too? How quaint.

Wait a minute ... I actually don't give a flying fuck.  Sowwy .... you actually have to try a bit harder.  

No, I don't find your board persona objectionable. You should be proud of who you are, albeit a failed venture. I like bitter old whores. The portly one and the lesbians can stay as long as they like too.

It's been said many times.

(yourself included) several times.

And its most certainly not clever.  I was being sarcastic.  So you happen to be correct on both counts.  See? We happen to agree on something for a change!

Do tell us the story of you trying to book K-Girls and getting pissed off when you couldn't find one to service you. I could have told you that those beautiful ladies do not cater to Lesbians with bowl haircuts and a manly gate.

This just keeps getting more hilarious with everyone of your posts. Yet you can't prove anything you have said. You are so full of shit your eyes are brown. Yep all talk and zero action. A blowhard at his best.

He can't. He is an epic failure.  

These chicks are rad so knock that shit off. It's bumming me out.

To pretend to be what you're not, a man? This is the only place you can pretend to be a big shot he-man.  

I am like a cat with a mouse, batting him around a tad. If he leaves who will I play with? It's just too easy.

In case one of you gets knocked down, the other one is to go to a neutral corner.  Nah. Fuck that!  Go for the WWF all out caged match throw down.  Just make sure you two kiss and make up before going to bed.  Bad mojo going to bed angry.  HaHa

accomplishment then???
Being bad at doing something like being a prostitute isnt a bad thing,  
 To say your the best hooker and the queen of sucking cock for money, Is that really anthing to brag about, I d rather be someone with BAD reviews to show i dont KISS every horny old dogs ass that comes in with some cash,
 The fact one can be a people pleaser and make ANY and EVERY john think they are a once in a life time? I wouldnt call that good i d say being the one NOT successful at lying on the back the winner in that equation , But again i disagree with everything and anything you stand for as always on this board, Like how you cyber stalk me and give me shit all the time,  
 When i hhave no idea who you even are.
 And further more you should be ashamed of yourself using a name like panthera, What have you done to earn using one the best metal bands of all times name to use as your alias? your arent very rock n roll at all your an uptight whiny bicth is what you are. All you do is act menapasal and negative. Its a fuckin joke!
 I actually was at dime bag darrels LAST BOSTON show, Where were you? cyber stalking hookers you never met???yeah thats what i thought asshat. GO ON WIT YER BAD self you suckah, hahaha. what a joke,
 You think some one bein bad at being a whore is wrong? if your good at being a prostitute thats NOT good it means your fucked up.
 I am good at being a prostitute so thats good in your mind? your view of whats a accomplaishment and whats not is totally backwards my friend, being a great musician, a great writer, a great mother, a good person, Thats something to be proud ofm Makin fun of some one thats failing as a sex worker your the dumbest idiot i ever heard off. i cant even imagine who you are in real life, A LOSER nobody that aint done shit in thier life is who. I bet ya money on that one, ha, fuckn joke. get a life pantera my ass, you aint know JACK shit bout netal fuckn losah!
aww whats wrong you can dish shit out but cant take it? aww poor wittle whiny bitch,....

Those who squeal the loudest about how they cannot, will not, must not tolerate any action which falls in line with "social norms" or "State policies" undoubtedly see themselves as edgy rebels defending the Nation from "government" control.

Awww! You're so sweet.  

He can always file a restraining order to the stalk-ee. Remember, he feels the victim is to blame

Because, according to the dumb shit, the victim is worse than the aggressor.  
Remember, victims existed before aggressors.  What if stalking doesn't sell?  

You bring up good points here.  Please explain your thoughts on why this verbal abuse has gone on for so long here on the GD board.  I have been here one year, and it has always been hostile on this board.  Why has TER allowed it to go on for so long?  Do you feel they should share in some of the shame for allowing this to go on in their very own back yard?  

While they do their best to act like men. Feisty when they are confused, aren't they. I wouldn't call them chicks either. You may insult them.  

You know Brut, what is funny about your post is that you forget what some of the things you have said in the past here.

So are you going to take my advise and start showering just before before an appointment, those chubby thighs of yours sweat a lot and ferment. Even chubby chasers want a smell free and tasty kitty.

As I have stated elsewhere, there appear to be groups of individuals who hold diametrically opposite viewpoints of what the P4P industry is all about. Those conflicting viewpoints are consistently debated and argues on the boards. Maybe I've missed it, and if so would ask you to point it out to me, but I have never read where any of the legitimate posters (excluding the obvious trolls) have ever advocated violence against someone with an opposite viewpoint, or threatening to expose or in any way compromise their true identities.  

Although u may need a mirror to see them if by any chance u do )))

I have absolutely no problem with conflicting viewpoints re the P4P industry being debated and argued on the TER boards.  In fact I welcome that kind of discussion.  But I cannot believe that you have never seen posts--many many posts--that include no viewpoint other than a personal attack on an individual.  How is that behavior consistent with the purpose of these boards?  How is that behavior consistent with TER's stated policies for that board--policies which you and every other TER member who participates in these boards has agreed to abide by?

... as to why TER allows the behavior on the GD discussion (in particular) to continue.  But they are only theories.

Just because something has gone on for a long time doesn't make it right.  I hope the friendly version of a GD board goes up soon too.  Thanks for discussing the matter.

a gal i am and have and am pretty well liked by well quite a wide range of different crowd s in Boston from d.j.s to the manray crowd when i did performance art with other sin dancers that was ages ago. To musicians of which i soent alot time with . Even bikers!
              So as long as you know your cool and talented and like yourself no what a few people that never met you think about your posting style. Which is all they know of you,.
 For all we know johnny cum already doesnt even believe any the stuff he posts maybe he is entertaining himself by getting under testy or touchy people's skin?
 Maybe in real life those arent even any where near your real vocabulary or any thing you would even say in real time?
                          The thing about being more polite and kind and stuff. I think it is a good idea, I think i could be reminded to not to be tempermental and always show such blown out of proportion reactions, Why not? whats wrong with suggesting peoplle behave nicer and have more manners toward each other?
                          I know it can be like attacks on each other here, But in any entertainment biz, acting, hollywood, musician, oerformers, porno. It is an industry and industries where your putting yourself out there and people will have an opinion.
 The hollywood actresses they cant change that every move they make is documented and they are judged contantly . By haters most the time, They met fun fo gwenyth paltro for being 'TOO PERFECT' at parenting even once!
             I recall my first show with M4T at mid east downstairs, boston. I had only been in band for 30 days, I didnt have the set down, It was our first gig together out ofthe jam space.
                   They posted the video and pics on that waaf local music site they used to have and one comment was. "nice try guys."
                   Little did they know what it is like to step on stage after only being in a band for 30 days in front of a huge crowd of people. They themselves wouldnt do it! Yet they want to bash and judge and hate, They probly only wished they had the talent and balls it takes to get up there. AND the death metal metal scene is tough arena for a female. The first shows always are the hardest.
                     BUT this is same case the escorts performance and looks and appearance especially is open for the bashing or praising and alot the guys base there view on escorts by the ladies look and how good her bj is . They really arent here to get to hear out view on stuff,
 SO obviously they are gonna get annoyed and disagree. They are just wanting thier experience and probly get annoyed when we go on here wanting to be equals and chime in on conversation, If god forbid we arent in 'character" every waking minute and soeak out true view points then watch out they are gonna re3ally get angry.
                            I have my own sometimes resentments as my dad got divorced and then had a new wife and i felt squeezed out picture I got kicked out my mums then he let me sleep on a couch at his new familys. Then i wasnt welcomed there and lived with my granmother.
                         My views on stuff is always gonna be brash, unreasonable, over reactive. I am just crazy and dont often say what people want to hear, I say what my thoughts are they maybe arent nice and maybe they dont make sense to people but.
                         Sorprisingly after i post alot i get alot of appointments, and alot more business and with guys i click with that understand me and there is less drama,
 You can like me i use this as a tool to attract the right clients.
 My most recent reviewer cam and we talked about female musicians, he was so cool and I was actually having a hard time hiding i wasnt having a good day but since i PUT MYSELF out there and communicate I may need a tad more patience than other ladies and no its not gonna be the same for every guy,  
 I can get a ten from a guy i actually really like then have another guy come and get uncomfortable and do an awful job.  
 i want them to know that, Then theres no angry customers i am just getting the more compassionate guys that have aptience .
                           If they want the same exoerience every time they cane see the ladies that do ten ten for evry one i cant do that, . If some one is making me feel uncomfortable I cant do a good job,  
                                      The posters i have external relationships with dont post anything rude to me. And the only 2 that gave bad performance score they did so under thier alias so they wouldnt have a reason to also post mean under an alias, they already let me know thier feeling s under thier alias they review under.
                                           The ones i argue with i never met and dont know off the boards either, All the aliases i HAVE met like me and i liked them too. I say 88 of the aliases that reviewed me that i know OFF the boards, I would say 40 of which i met more than once. I never have had any one time where they were rude to me in person or on boards.
                               When people know you dont know who they are and never will they tend to have more balls than they do in real life,
 The only 2 guys that gave me bad scores they had balls to do it under the alias where i knew exactly what customer it was that said this, I thinnk the ones that post rude so you dont know who they are they are just losers, I do tell them off back and get MY PANTIES in a bunch too but i just am not the type that can be the bigger person and not react and get pissy back. So i am immature too. I get bull shit when i see rude shit and i fire back and then I feel better
                             I dont know how some one could see some one insulting them and not defend them selve.I definetly get into it with people all the time, I think alot the times peopke that start shit arent expecting some one to give it back. I know that guy that aggresively approached me makn fun my speed walinj he was dumb founded when i said he got an ass like a bitch and could use a power walk and looks like he sits on a couch all day eatin twinkies, He was taken a abck then couldnt handle it so he waited til i was far enough away to yell he was gonna fuck me up. Mind you he was under 18 and male and twice my size. So who was the loser a guy sayin he wants to beat up a chic speed walkin her dog ? or is he the real lser for even havin the energy to wanna bother an older lady , If he had balls he would go get into street fights with boys his size his age, but he is a pussy so he approached me to show ioff for his little hood rat friends and tried to show off and got shot down,
 When your a boy and have huge child bearing hips with a big ghetto booty you totally shouldnt make fun of some one for excercizing.

First, I never espoused censorship in any form, so I fail to see what contradiction you are referring to. The first paragraph of my post was an attempt to draw a distinction between what you and your faint-hearted associates commonly refer to as bullying and abusive language (i.e., derogatory euphemisms and petty name calling), with board talk containing threats of physical harm or the release of potentially damaging information. It had absolutely nothing to do with censorship.

He definety seemed confident with himself and outgoing and confident, I could see that, that he wouldnt be affected by any one he argues with, He definetly is actually cool in real time, and if your cool in real time you dont gotta worry about an alias you dont know you never met that wants to argue. He was a pretty cool older dude , he definetly wasnt nerdy thats for sure or socially inept and awkward or creepy, like sometimes customers are, No offense but some of them seem very uncomfortable with themselves and out of tune with what they want or enjoy, And they have a kind of annoying vibe about them, No offense but i d picture one of the ones that attacks me as beiing like one of those customers, Like kinda just creepy, miserable, bad in bed,  
                 I know that why some them come to us they arent good at socializing and want to maybe learn more about pleasing a woman, Inicki was outgoing definetly a guy that is social and got alot of friends, Not some one youd feel uncomfortable around at all, ...pretty good lookin and handsome for an older dude.

First, I never espoused censorship in any form, so I fail to see what contradiction you are referring to. The first paragraph of my post was an attempt to draw a distinction between what you and your faint-hearted associates commonly refer to as bullying and abusive language (i.e., derogatory euphemisms and petty name calling), with board talk containing threats of physical harm or the release of potentially damaging information. It had absolutely nothing to do with censorship. It was simply an attempt to contrast what I consider offensive with what you consider offensive.

Bet you'd like me even more, now that I've got a little ink.  There have been  a couple of other "improvements" but I can't speak of them here, LOL!

This is so typical.