I have had many experiences with older men and I LOVE them!!!! Case in point: two weeks ago I had a date with a 30 year old. He showed up for a dinner date. We went out to eat, had a great time and in the car he wants me to blow him. WTF! I say no and let's go back to my place. He gets upset and insists. Even going as far as trying to push my head down in his lap in the restaurant parking lot. That was it. I got out and went back to my car. (We met at the restaurant) He then later emails me to apologize and sets up a regular date. I said fine. It was for Tues. I never heard from him. No call, no email, nothing. Then two days after that he calls and wants an appointment. I said no and don't call me anymore. I have never had that kind of experience with a man over 40. They are always nice, have manners and are excellent in bed. I have had many 50 year olds wear my ass out! Now let me say not all under 40 year olds are rude like that guy. I have had many who are just as kind and respectful as my older clients but more often than not the younger guys are full of poop and want to waste my time and play games. I even had a 26 year old who scheduled a date and again we are playing the phone call, email game. When he arrived he wants to start without any mention of donations. The younger respectful guys get it back when others their same age are stupid like this. I have no reservations on age. I do see them all and will continue to see them. Many are good guys but then you get the few that just mess it up for others. Shame indeed.
Back in my twenties and thirties I was a lot less likely to take the entire hour to finish. lol Now that I am in my fifties it is a rare woman that can get me to finish in 10-15 minutes, WTF 15 minutes of actual intercourse used to be a long time for me, not anymore. Lasting an hour is not any problem at all, sometimes I wish I could finish faster. It's impossible to have two pops in an hour when you use the entire hour just to get your first. lol
Could be wrong, and don't mean anything negative about that other than you seem to have a misinformed view of being 40+, so I assume you haven't been too close to 40 yourself.
The reasons I've seen are quite different, starting with a belief (didn't say a reality) that sub-30s are more likely to be too rough or in the extreme to rip them off. Perception is what matters in many of those cases.
Also 40+ generally means a different view on what a session should be. Not a better or worse one, just different, and if that's what a provider prefers she will go for the odds on the clients she sees.
More longer dinner dates on average, partially because 40+ generally means more disposable income.
More likely to repeat, as many sub-30s are into variety over repeating.
There are exceptions to all the above, but it's playing the odds.
1.Is it because older men are less likely to give 'em a good run for their money.
2. Older men are more likely to want to talk, touch and cuddle rather than do anything physical.
Don't know about others ladies but my reason (based on my experience), would be a combination of numbers 1 & 2. Why put myself through that when I don't have to. That's not to say there are some older guys who like to work a lady for the whole hour. I like and see those who fit well with me and the style in which I provide.
I am sure every provider has her own reasons, just as hobbyists have their own preferences, young or old, blonde or brunette, thin or a little more to hold onto, etc... That is the beauty of the hobby. There is someone for everyone's tastes and preferences.
Being a mature provider myself, I do state 40+ in my ads. For me, it has nothing whatsoever to do with stamina. I have a few clients who are under my age limit, but none by more than five years under. A few of these clients state that I wear them out, so reasons of stamina? I don't think so, lol.
As far as kissing, cuddling, and the physical connection being more than just sex? Not so much, either, because I have men who like this and men who would rather get "right to it," lol, who are over 35-40 years of age. I cater my sessions to the man's needs (or try to as much as I possibly can, no matter what his age). I do enjoy cuddling and getting to know someone on a different level, if that is what the client desires, but I am not going to focus on that if a client is not into cuddling, etc. And I am sure there are younger men who enjoy making more of a "connection," as well.
My reasons are pretty simple. First, a man who is 35 or older is more likely to have more experience in the hobby itself, so fewer games and headaches. Second, I have many young men (family and friends) in my civvie life, and to be with a man in his twenties or early thirties would just remind me too much of these guys. Not a great feeling. lol And last, I already consider a 35 year old to be a "young man," due to the number of years between us. I just choose to not stretch it any further than that.
That being said, I have a civvie friend whose ideal dating range is one year older than her oldest son and one year younger than her father! Everyone has their preferences and ideal age ranges!
I have had younger guys write, offended that I will not see them. I ask them to not concentrate on my reasons, and to instead find that hot "milf" who enjoys the twenty somethings. Again, she is out there, because there is "someone for everyone," in this hobby.
I don't have an age requirement.....as long as they are legal and RESPECTFUL we will not have any issues.....I love it when a younger man year old fills out my form, gets through screening, and we can hook up. The under 45 years old crew often do not have the disposable cash that it takes to hobby. Hobbying is fun, but it is extremely expensive.
I don't care how old the man is....I am not having a two hour meet and greet because "I am really scared too death to fuck" session with anyone. So a total fuckathon works for me!
....and for the record.....I have had some 60 year old men take me there.............do it well.......and take me there again.....being young does not mean the man has SENSUAL stamina.......it may mean he has an iron hard on that can stay hard for hours....but he may not have a clue as to what that iron is supposed to do. He may have all the energy in the world, but has a womans body confused with a piece of furniture with no nerve endings in it at all. Older men are typically better lovers. That is attributed to yearsssssssssssssss of practice. A few young men are naturally good, but most of the time....it takes a longgggggggg time to hone in sexual skills.
1.Is it because older men are less likely to give 'em a good run for their money.
2. Older men are more likely to want to talk, touch and cuddle rather than do anything physical.
this is my first time posting, and i hope to contribute in a positive way, please cut me some slack if i come off as otherwise I use verbiage that is similar, and the impetus behind it is, in my provider's opinion, this verbiage when stated in a gentle, flexible way (meaning that a good intake chat or along with a few solid, sympatico emails can persuade me to bend my protocol for a younger gent) is a very effective way of 'screening out' the fairly predictable younger demographic who 1. MAY have the agenda of 'seducing the masseuse' and getting her to blur her boundaries. 2. often younger guys are one dimensional and ask pointless questions that don't enhance our sensual bond 3. can't be relied upon to be punctual or discreet.
for me, in my tantra sessions, men in their forties have their egos a bit more under control and are refined and relaxed and know how to treat a woman like a charming enchantress and not like a vixen to be 'conquered'.
while NOT the case with me, the other obvious inference in some providers' using this verbiage is that they want to meet with gents from their own cohort, ie, age group.
Allow me to add that it goes BOTH WAYS: my gents tell me that they find 'younger' providers to be one dimensional, conversationally unstimulating, and lack the emotional depth for a connection to transpire, however fleeting those few hours may be. when i was a table dancer, all we talked about in the dressing room was being revved up that day to go 'out there' and 'be a money maker!'. men were marks. johns. not people.
that they prefer more mature clients because younger guys have a tendency to wanna date strippers and escorts and have them as girlfriends. Apparently it's some sort of "badge of honor" for them.
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Posted By: numbnuts11
1.Is it because older men are less likely to give 'em a good run for their money.
2. Older men are more likely to want to talk, touch and cuddle rather than do anything physical.
this is my first time posting, and i hope to contribute in a positive way, please cut me some slack if i come off as otherwise I use verbiage that is similar, and the impetus behind it is, in my provider's opinion, this verbiage when stated in a gentle, flexible way (meaning that a good intake chat or along with a few solid, sympatico emails can persuade me to bend my protocol for a younger gent) is a very effective way of 'screening out' the fairly predictable younger demographic who 1. MAY have the agenda of 'seducing the masseuse' and getting her to blur her boundaries. 2. often younger guys are one dimensional and ask pointless questions that don't enhance our sensual bond 3. can't be relied upon to be punctual or discreet.
for me, in my tantra sessions, men in their forties have their egos a bit more under control and are refined and relaxed and know how to treat a woman like a charming enchantress and not like a vixen to be 'conquered'.
while NOT the case with me, the other obvious inference in some providers' using this verbiage is that they want to meet with gents from their own cohort, ie, age group.
Allow me to add that it goes BOTH WAYS: my gents tell me that they find 'younger' providers to be one dimensional, conversationally unstimulating, and lack the emotional depth for a connection to transpire, however fleeting those few hours may be. when i was a table dancer, all we talked about in the dressing room was being revved up that day to go 'out there' and 'be a money maker!'. men were marks. johns. not people.
I agree. I use to say not under 40, now it is not under 35. Because I don't enjoy spending time with someone I have nothing in common with. All my life I have dated older men and now is no different. A man in his 20's is a kid to me YUCK!
Also, just because a man is over 40 doesn't mean he is any less active in bed than a young buck. Actually, they are much better lovers IMO!!!!!!!!
I've been turned down by some ladies cause of my age. Im in my early 20's. I respect their preferences and just move on until I find a lady willing to meet with a younger gentleman.
Older guys are simply more pleasant to be around, they have learned respect, we have more in common to talk about and they have learned a few things about how to please a woman sexually, not just shove it in and pound away. As an older provider it is also uncomfortable for me to see younger guys that could be my son's age.
its all about preferences. Being young and being able to fuck like rabbits doesn't mean you are good at it. All these over 40 guys were once younger, they all thought they were all that back then too, who didn't right. Now you think you are pretty good in bed, so like anything with practice you should improve with age right? Well I like the improvements that age brings into the equation. Most men in their 40s and up have been in a relationship, long term, they have learned a lot about women, lived with women and have more respect for women. Its a very different experience than with a younger guy. No some can more than give you a run for your money trust me. Age for some has no effect on their stamina. It just becomes more about the sensuality and passion Intimacy and the connection than just random sex. Somethings only time can teach you, and this is one of them. Besides I have more fun with them and prefer to see Gentlemen in the age range of which I would date, if I were dating. Being young and spry is not *all that* no matter what you think. A well seasoned lover can drive you out of your mind. After all in the end it's really a mind fuck anyway isn't it.
in all my ads it states I only see Gentlemen over 40. I think its pretty clear. Its my preference and thats not going to change. Each to their own right!
Do you enjoy rejecting youngins after they invest time drooling over your pics?
It's more humane to put this notice on your website.
Just curious...
I reviewed your site and could not find age limitations in your intro, FAQ, or other sections. You only state you "accomodate older gentleman" while not mentioning younger men. It seems rather cryptic. Since I'm older, maybe my failing eyesight could not notice.
If you are healthy ~ and have a healthy sense of sexuality ~ age does not matter! (other than you have to be of ‘legal age.’)
One of my best lovers of all time was 5 years younger than me - just a couple of years ago. We went for 5-6 hours at a time without stopping - except for quick bathroom breaks, including a couple of showers in between to wash off the sweat! We were a match made in heaven - until I found out that he was married! (Before I discovered the Escort World.) I don’t think I’ll find another like him. It was hott while it lasted…he broke my heart.
Many men cannot keep up with me - I am a sexual pussycat - I pounce. The young men love me - and the older men love me. I’m just a lovable and wild pussycat.
All kidding aside. How old are you? I'm 43. I've had all kinds of ladies, from all sorts of places, and walks of life. Had them when I was old enough to be older than their own father, and had some that had kids almost as old as me, at those times.
I don't mind talking(obviously), touch, cuddle, whatever.
But don't get me wrong. When I lay down with a lady, she better be ready to fuck the taste outta my mouth. I don't give a fuck about her age, her affiliations, her taste in music, when she has to go home and make sure the hubby is fed for breakfast.
I don't give a fuck!
As long as I find her attractive, and she fucks the shit outta me, I'm cool.
at least for me, neither of the reasons listed in the OP are applicable to me or my reasons for not seeing men under 40.
it can most easily be described as a comfort thing. perhaps because i was an only child and therefore had many of the characteristics common to such children (verbally/academically advanced yet socially stunted), perhaps because i am very submissive by nature, perhaps because i was a hardcore Daddy's girl, or some combination of the above...it has always been much more natural and comfortable for me to be with older men. my Husband is 19 years my senior, my very first sexual experiences were with a man 11 years my senior. i enjoy the disparity in generations, i enjoy being able to look to a man (yes, even a man within this hobby) as a protector, caretaker and teacher. i find the idea of engaging on any level with a man who has all the same unanswered questions and worries about life that i do very disturbing.
as for the idea that older men are less physically demanding, i find that quite laughable! most of my clients are extremely demanding and delight in pushing my body to its limits. they have the knowledge and acceptance of self to openly express exactly what they want, and the experience to know exactly how to go about making that happen (safely).
I like all men of all ages, please know how to carry on a conversation, lol and be a gentleman! Cleanliness is also a must and if I have to tell you to take a shower then we are in trouble! Call me, you don't know what you're missing until you've had the best!
I have had many experiences with older men and I LOVE them!!!! Case in point: two weeks ago I had a date with a 30 year old. He showed up for a dinner date. We went out to eat, had a great time and in the car he wants me to blow him. WTF! I say no and let's go back to my place. He gets upset and insists. Even going as far as trying to push my head down in his lap in the restaurant parking lot. That was it. I got out and went back to my car. (We met at the restaurant) He then later emails me to apologize and sets up a regular date. I said fine. It was for Tues. I never heard from him. No call, no email, nothing. Then two days after that he calls and wants an appointment. I said no and don't call me anymore. I have never had that kind of experience with a man over 40. They are always nice, have manners and are excellent in bed. I have had many 50 year olds wear my ass out! Now let me say not all under 40 year olds are rude like that guy. I have had many who are just as kind and respectful as my older clients but more often than not the younger guys are full of poop and want to waste my time and play games. I even had a 26 year old who scheduled a date and again we are playing the phone call, email game. When he arrived he wants to start without any mention of donations. The younger respectful guys get it back when others their same age are stupid like this. I have no reservations on age. I do see them all and will continue to see them. Many are good guys but then you get the few that just mess it up for others. Shame indeed.
Maybe I've been lucky but my younger clients have been fucking awesome. It's always the older ones who try to get away with sneaky shit I tell them not to do. Perhaps I'm more assertive with guys my own age & they know not to cross me. lol
Only speaking from my personal experience, the older gents know how AND will take the time to please a woman. We can also talk about stuff that a 25 yo maybe has yet to experience. I prefer 40 and up!
If a lady is offering incall at a residence, an younger guy might think its ok to just ring her bell one day without an appointment. Or hand around her building etc. Also will try to become friends or her BF so that he can get it for free. Its not about getting worn out, better to get worn out than be bored!
Posted By: numbnuts11
1.Is it because older men are less likely to give 'em a good run for their money.
2. Older men are more likely to want to talk, touch and cuddle rather than do anything physical.
I see men in their 20s, 30s and 40s and 50s and honestly age has nothing to do with anything. I noticed some have said because the lady doesnt want the 20 year old wearing her out fo rthe whole hour..BUT it really doesnt matter.
I have seen young guys that wanted to chill and hang out and play, and some older guys that just wanna rock it for the entire time LOL, and ofcourse vice versa. Hey either way I am happy to be there!
Some guys DONT wanna talk and they dont want to cuddle, they just wanna get down to the business of pleasure!!! Others want to wine you and dine you, and again I am just happy to be there! I am up for anything.
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