Reading all the reviews I found that only a few do dinner dates. In my case I prefer dinner dates to know her better and to get much more relaxed. I am a big bust fan and being in public with a big busted girl you get a lot of attention, which sometimes is very funny. And a lot of men are jealous about you. So I feel like a star and this makes the meeting special, not to mention when in the hotel room. I am from Europe and when I am with a provider, I know that nobody knows me, there is no terror to be caught. I would never do that in my hometown, which is a very small town. Wanted just to know if somebody else do dinner dates and likes to be in public with a good looking girl. Just curious.

well to be purrfectly honest (as ever) in my own hometown i wouldn't be caught dead dining with a busty blonde eye-catching babe ... for a man of my social standing if my friends and colleagues were ever to catch me with a busty blonde i'd have some serious explaining to do ... cuz they'd all be like "Singy, we thought you were into flat-chested brunettes, so what gives?  what's up with this busty blonde over here?  does your ATF know about this !@#$???"

and they'd be pointing and making a federal case out of it ... and i'd be like ... "Scottie, beam me up already!"  


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Lots of guys like to do a dinner date appointment for some or all of the reasons you mention.  It's not everybody's cup of tea but it is popular.  There are financial considerations, though, so not even all those guys who like the idea may be in position to do it very often.

It's your money - do with it as you wish. If having dinner first is a 'build up' to the Main Event and that increases your enjoyment (and you can afford it), have at it.

Seems funny that you want to be seen in public - but not the public where you live. We have another saying in America "Fuck 'em if they can't take a joke". I thought you Europeans were more at ease over matters of the flesh than we uptight Americans.

And of course I enjoy the company of beautiful women.  But I do get self-conscious whne that lady dresses in such a provocative manner that everyone in the restaurant knows that I'm getting laid later.  So I have learned to ask my dates to dress conservatively for dinner.  That way the others may be envious of my beautiful date, but the rest is left to their imagination.  And mine also.

I've offered dinner dates for a while now.. And I'm finding them to be very popular as well.

I recently started offering an incall dinner date.. Whereby, I cook him a lovely meal (its ok, i'm a good cook, and nobody has come down with food poisoning yet!) and we spend the evening in.  Its proving more and more popular with married men who are from the area and don't wish to be seen out with another woman.. lol

I find that most dinner dates are booked by clients who are from out of my area.. xx

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Except for whatever crack singleton was smoking or sniffing those answers so far are all right on point.  Dressed appropriately but racy enough to keep my attention is always the best course. Being seen in my home state is absolutely out of the question.  And besdies hr8675309 - Robin Williams said it much better - "joke'em if they can't take a fuck!"  Cost is certainly a concern.  So to answer your question. Yes to dinner dates whenever the piggy bank allows! It does feel good to be in public with a gorgeous gal and it is definitely more enjoyable if you can connect before you jump in bed.

Enjoying a nice diner with a lovely lady is something that I prefer as well. There are, however, some ladies...I'm thinking in particular of one small in height/large in bust Las Vegas provider...who seem to feel that exposing one's self in public is what guys want.  I'll pass on that.  

On the other hand, a lady whom I've seen regularly has just as big a chest as anyone in the business (she's been advertised at 72-FFF), but she's 5'10" and dresses conservatively. When we go out to diner, we do so to enjoy the meal and each others company. If I catch people looking, it is usually at her face. (Of course, there was this one time in Vegas when we went to the hotel swimming pool....).

My ATF lives 10 minutes away. We go to dinner, movies, shopping and (fingers crossed) have never run into anyone we know in more than a year and a half.

The first time we went to the movies I made her walk seperately as if we weren't really together. Boy did she get pissed. I vowed never to do that again.

When we're out we always get looks because she is gorgeous and twenty years younger.

If I could just figure out how to motivate my wife to divorce amicably I know I would be happier than I've been (suggestions appreciated).

I realize this post is meant more for hobbyists, but as a provider I can honestly say I love dinner dates. I believe as long as the man that you're with is polite it doesn't matter who sees you in public because you could be on a date, at a business dinner/meeting, whatever, as long as you are able to provide a logical answer to your friends'question "who is he"?

Hugs,
Ciara

Sounds like your a lucky guy to have such a great ATF. If you're really so unhappy in your marriage, how can it be that your wife is content? She must be as miserable as you. Why not approach the subject of divorce with her and see how she responds. You might be suprised that she wants out as badly as you do. Remember you only live once and "if not now, when?" Keep us posted and don't let your ATF go!~ She may be your future GF/PFR(Partner For Real).Cheers,
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My ATF is such a hottie I feel like King Shit when in public with her. It also puts more GF in the E if you know what I mean.

Most of my dates are dinner dates, and I much prefer them.
I'm so envious that you can do what I would absolutely LOVE to do - both HAVE an incall, AND make him dinner!

Someday..

Hey Nadia that sounds like a great idea I have had several requests for dinner dates, but all wanted them to be very discreet. This would solve all the problems as I am a good cook. Mind if I capture your idea and make it my own?

A problem with being recognized is not necessarily that an explanation can't be found, but that it would probably require a lie, which many people would rather not have to do.

Providers I have been with have joked and laughed with me about the lies we would tell, but neither of us want to have do so.

Best to tell the truth, and the truth is I am ready to go out to dinner with you Ciara!

I would love to have it that I was able to make you dinner at your place.

I think that would be great! I think some people like the public part because it is a chance to "Show off" the beautiful lady. Or it is the public ... and public sex thing.

Hors d’oeuvres of you and me to start the night. Then some Dinner and if we have the room, dessert to finish. Mmmmmm Maybe some people would think it is too much like a date, but that is what I want. I like romance, even if it is only a paid for illusion.

I don't hobby in town or in the state for that matter so I go everywhere with my ATF.  We have been to shows, dinner and dancing.  It is a lot of fun.  I took her to a convention once though and that was a mistake.  I don't take her to places where we will run into people but if I didn't have an SO I wouldn't have any problem with being seen by someone I know.