Hi all - it's hard to imagine that as recently as 2000, I was lifting weights and competing in the triathalon. Sure, in my 40s I got the love handles, but I looked and felt good, and the compensated dating girls in Japan seemed to like me pretty well. Then I got posted to the Pentagon and strapped to a desk for a few years, retired, and had a run in with Leukemia. And I got older. The result is that I'm probably about 40lbs overweight, and a lot of what used to be very sleek is now a bit saggy. Nobody who saw me in clothes would say that I was at fat. But I'm uneasy about picking up the hobby again. Now I am generous, distinguished looking and reasonably well equipped and a thoughtful lover. Do you think the providers here in the US would want my business?

In reality though, I think we just want those who screen out well, are gentlemen, and keep squeaky clean hygiene.

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I can't even get them to like me for my mind! Good thing I made all that money on phoney documentaries.

Be generous, be clean, and be respectful of the lady and her time.  These are the most important male attributes in the hobby and, for the most part, the only ones that matter.

Your money is green, right??

Let's be frank...most ladies do not care what you look like (for the most part...).  Each and every escort is in this to make money, and therefore do not have the same criteria as one might if they were dating you in real life.  Does this mean they won't genuinely enjoy spending time with you??  HELL NO!  But the checklists are different about what we are looking for in an acceptable client (ie: acts like a gentleman, good hygiene, on time, pays as agreed...) verses a boyfriend or someone we would pick up at a bar.

Good escorts do not look at clients the same way as significant others (or *potential* SO's).  We look for the ways we DO connect, and focus on that...ignoring the things that might not be perfect (and believe me, there are bigger things to ignore sometimes then someone's weight or what kind of shape they are in...).  

I learned a long time ago that finding that *true* connection was never on the surface anyway.  I actually sometimes am let down when a guy shows up at my door that looks TOO good, as the metro-sexual/high maintenance guys tend to be all style and no substance...no ability to really connect with anything other then their cock, which I guess is just too one dimensional for me anymore (most of the time...LOL).

Sexy is about more then just what you look like...it's about how you carry yourself (and this is more then just plain confidence).  You can be just as sexy with an extra 40# as you were back in 2000...but that is about where your *head* is at (and to some degree, your heart also...) more then what shape your body is in.

And considering the gas prices and current recession...I'm sure you will have no problem finding someone to take your money... LOL  Hopefully it is with someone that brings you what you need in that exchange.

All my best,

xoMegan

If you would feel more comfortable sitting at a large table with me in uniform, I can provide that but I need to know whether I'm playing a drill sergeant or a captain -- big difference.

All kidding aside, we all gain a little weight as we mature and become more sedentary. I have, too, but I'm already working on it and losing the extra 10 pounds that I've gained over the past seven years. However, people look different undressed and I'm always referred to as skinny. God love America!  So . . . thank goodness this business has taught me one thing: Beauty really is skin deep and I mean it.


Hugs,
Ciara

i  enjoy larger men since i myself am a bbw

then again...so is Sawyer from Lost, but he does have a tiny tummy...and that is HOT!



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And if you've got good stamina with tongue and cock it won't hurt either.

Your wiener is!  

woooooooooooooo!!!

Hell no! I looove to ride and its kind of hard to ride a thin guy. It's much better with a bigger guy with some cushion!

Looks don't matter to me.It all depends on attitude.A guy can be the most fit and attractive person in the world.But if he has a bad attitude,no one would want to deal with him.

Besides,who am I to judge?