I normally like to make arrangements with the ladies via email.  I'm a little shy, so it can be hard for me to call someone that I don't know.  If you prefer not to use email, I will call you, but I just find email easier.  And I have a record of what we discussed.

Now you'll never git no date!

sspelling, grammar mistakes and punctuation errors in my email and text communications. Typically when I am trying to respond while in a hurry, in transit or multi-tasking. No excuse though. However, I am always mindful of my manners. I value respect and decency so I apply and practice those values. Being rude is unacceptable. These are good and respectable points as well as a necessary reminder to all. Decorum.

I have always assumed it was lack of education, not lack of effort. A little slang is fine, a typo is not a big deal, but if you can't form a decent sentence or you can't read for comprehension and write a coherent response to a question, then it can get rather frustrating.  

As for the OP, IMHO anyone who has to come on the board to whine about such petty nonsense probably isn't getting much action to begin with.

The ones to whom you are addressing your advice likely don't give a flying rat's arse what you think of their spelling, punctuation, grammar and syntax.  

to suck your dick or do your homework?  When the top of your head explodes from an intense orgasm, do you really care whether they can spell appointment or not?

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I forgot what grade they teach the difference between your and you're?  Oops.  Sorry, why am I asking you?

So what is clear is that no one is immune from bad writing/grammar moments.  

Stupidity and laziness aren't sexy. I also want to talk to them on a higher-than-third-grade level.

when messaging you sometimes get stiffed?  (No pun intended.)   It happens to most guys who see agency girls until they get established.

As long as they respond in a timely manner and I can understand what they trying to say, I don't care. First anyone who reads my posts can testify to, I don't have much room to talk. Second, I am not paying them for their writing skills. Third writing ability doesn't necessarily equate to intelligence. I am much more intelligent then my writing would indicate and I know people who can write well yet outside of the written word they are dumber then a box of rocks.

You know how your sarcasm goes over most people's heads?
I am pretty sure John's use of "ladys" and "your" was sarcasm.
Based on many of his previous posts, he knows the difference.

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....but when you see that one of the most common questions asked on the Newbie board is " why am I not getting a reply to my email?" you realize that it still happens far too often.

I'm a little disturbed that no one caught "to."

If you are going to be the language police, at least proof-read your post before you send it.  You're stepping all over your message

I also think it's pretty lazy and generally unattractive on the both ends, but especially for the ladies.

For him that is. As for me give me the rest of the uneducated but cheap pussies any day.

It's not laziness or stupidity that causes people to misspell. It is the year of 2016 and in case you just fell off a turnip truck yesterday everybody these days communicates by cell phone. Meaning lot and lot of texting with its abbreviated words and slangs. People just do not have the practice of writing complete sentences anymore.  

"eduction" so he could come back at me.  Lol

Kgirls, because I'm not lonely, I just want to fuck.  Talking is a waste of time with them.  But I get where you're coming from.  You apparently just have more voids to fill in your life than I do.

because they don't know how to make an appointment without coming across as a time-waster.

I've had a good time with some k-girls and a j-girl this past summer.  As far as I know they didn't understand English.  It was mostly pointing and touching to convey ideas.

Of course spelling and grammar are important, but is that enough?

I have this urge to call you up and introduce myself with a giant "WAAAAAAAAAASSSUP"

Oh man, throwback! I miss those budweiser commercials.

It happens to stupid people as well.  

want pussy bad enough.

I always start humming Allman Brothers tunes. One, in particular, though the name escapes me...

As is clear from the responses, what bothers you is not an issue at all for others; some are looking for hot sex and others want a conversation to go along with that on the side.  

I know, I know!

"And I have a record of what we discussed."

that was due to sensory overload -- all in one subject line! Who can deal with that

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Actually, most the responses I get are pretty well written. And I do try to check out their website or posts here to see if they can carry on a conversation.  But some of these websites sound like they were written by professional writers but when you get around to actually trading emails, they can't write a coherent sentence. Like pictures, such things can be faked.

... and anyone who thinks so hasn't been paying attention.  Most email is not encrypted, meaning anyone with network access can read everything you send or receive. I have a hobbying email that no one but me knows about.  And even then, I don't discuss sensitive information. However, it is nice to have an email with appointment time and place, so I don't forget (I'm getting older).