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Offshoring
VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 3010 reads
posted
1 / 22

The world's oldest profession isn't going away, but the recent legislation in the U.S. has had an impact. We are all wondering what will happen next. It might be useful to look back at what the hobby was like in the past.

My first hobby experience was in 1996. I experienced both a rough breakup and a wild bachelor party in the same week, and learned that it was really easy to hire an escort. They were listed in the Yellow Pages phonebook in the E section, under Escorts. There were more than a dozen agencies in town, and I could call any of them and have a provider sent over. No screening and no reviews, so each time was YMMV with upselling. The appointment immediately ended with the first pop. Providers were often really late, as overbooking was common practice. Due to the lack of screening, providers often had a driver who doubled as security in case the john caused trouble. The overall experience was generally so bad that my ATF back then would be considered a TER 7/7 now.

Without TER reviews, many providers will never rise above the level of BP girls. They will revert back to bad practices of the past like overbooking and upselling and leaving at one shot, because there won't be any reviews to hold them accountable. If P411 goes away, screening is going to become more difficult, and providers will eventually lower their standards just to stay competitive. As a result, I predict that this hobby is going to be less safe and less enjoyable for both providers and customers. I hope I am wrong, and I hope P411 sticks around and TER eventually brings back the reviews.

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 121 reads
posted
2 / 22

Link up with your providers and get on their mailing lists.  We have friends in the industry as well. Imo it's the safest route right now. I have a feeling one day all the sites will go dark. Maybe I'm wrong.  But, my gut tells me otherwise.  

souls_harbor 106 reads
posted
3 / 22

Review sites will pop up offshore.  I suspect TER has American owners/assets -- which would explain their precautions. It's not enough to host offshore if you bring profits back into the USA.

Offshore will become the new normal.

colleenwir See my TER Reviews 117 reads
posted
4 / 22

There is a website to check where certain websites are hosted/based and for ter it said los angeles

VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 121 reads
posted
5 / 22

Yeah, in the short-term, I will stick to repeating with my favorites, and seeing a few highly-reviewed providers that I haven't seen yet. But without ongoing reviews, even some providers who were highly-reviewed in the past may downhill in terms of quality.

souls_harbor 91 reads
posted
6 / 22

The cloud act does not make the USA ruler of the universe. Firstly it says that US based services have to cough up data even if their servers are offshore.  Secondly foreign govs could always provide the USA gov captured data. The cloud act can't force it.

TurbayVeronica See my TER Reviews 114 reads
posted
7 / 22

My goal continues to have steady regulars for my workouts 😜 and level of service would remain the same  (advertising would be more discreet & lots of word of mouth). I am not lowering my rates and as a matter of fact reputable ladies would raise their training sessions.
Screening will be same for me like I always done it ... in fact, I would only take and would give references from reputable providers....(basically the same, in my case).

joedesert 105 Reviews 116 reads
posted
8 / 22

Really? Hmm. If so that would explain a lot of this.  

No matter what, if TER shut down entirely, some new site would emerge to fill the vacuum.  

Supply and demand.

JakeFromStateFarm 107 reads
posted
9 / 22

Until now, many whorehouses were Asian or low-end Latina fasthouses.  Now perhaps things will go back to the model of the 1980s where someone would set up shop in a converted multi-bedroom apartment offering a string of 5 or 6 girls.  It was fun back then, so why not now?

10v3sf3114t10 100 Reviews 117 reads
posted
10 / 22

I have been doing more and more of my hobbying in Latin America and elsewhere overseas, and the loss of access to reviews for U.S. providers will push me further in that direction. Even before all of this happened, I preferred hobbying in Latin America for the "meet & greet" aspect, its legality, the greater physical and sexual hotness of the local women (IMHO), the more reasonable prices, the overall travel experience, and other reasons. The only advantages of U.S.-based mongering for me were that I did not have to travel, and the review system held providers accountable and motivated them to provide good service. Now that one of those two remaining advantages is gone, mongering in Latin America and elsewhere overseas is much more attractive, for those that can manage it.

GaGambler 143 reads
posted
11 / 22

Atlanta used to have some GREAT Brazilian houses that were hardly what I would call "low-end" They would have anywhere from 2-6 girls working at any given time and some of them were really hot. Unfortunately the competing casas would often get into feuds with each other bringing a lot of unwanted heat and then one of the girls made a false claim about being trafficked, which combined with some VERY aggressive local LE attention ended those good old days, but it could happen again.

 
Now that said, they would still have to advertise to gain customers, so unless we are going to go back to the days where you'd find their ads in the Sunday sports section we are probably right back where we started. lol

VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 128 reads
posted
12 / 22

I had totally forgotten about the sports section ads until you mentioned them. Yeah that was a thing here in Minnesota, too. We also had a couple of free weekly papers focused on local entertainment (mostly reviews of movies, concerts, restaurants, etc.) that had several page of adult ads in the back. At first, it was mostly agencies running ads, but then the indies started posting ads, and then a lot of them moved to online ads.

my-0.02-cents 145 reads
posted
13 / 22

New England had couple of "SPAs" that were amazing. The best known was "Danish Health Club" in Maine and it was full of good looking strippers from 100 mile radius and it was an amazing facility, but just like any other really fun place it got shut down. Now they built luxury condos in the same location. Every time I hear Kittery Maine the only thing I can think about is DHC.

GaGambler 120 reads
posted
14 / 22

Most US "hobbyists" have become so reliant on reviews they forget how to interact with a living breathing woman.

 
Two tips for getting what you are looking for and avoiding the non GFE "dead fish" we all rely on TER reviews here in the states to protect us from

 
1)  If you are in a country where it is legal, there is no need to "speak in code" and absolutely no reason to wait until you are BCD before asking her what's on the menu. I know BBBJ is very important to a lot of us and a CBJ is a complete deal killer for many, I hear a lot of clueless gringos whining about CBJ when all they have to do is ask BEFORE agreeing to a date. All you have to do is ask is oral is "con" or "sin" el condon. Why rely on what others have to say when you can simply ask a chica what she is willing and not willing to do?

 
2)  I am a huge fan of passionate kissing, in my experience women who won't DFK are most likely going to give a lackluster performance in all other areas. I ALWAYS get a kiss, a REAL one, before agreeing to a date. It's like an "audition" for what's to come IMO. If she sticks her tongue halfway down my throat, we are off to the races, if she turns her face or gives me nothing more than a light peck, I keep moving and find myself another chica.

 
Yes, many of us were getting laid decades before there even was an internet, just because we have become accustomed to "this" way of doing things doesn't mean that we too can't adapt, just like the women here.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 116 reads
posted
15 / 22

its just a bump in the road turning back the clock a little.  For the guys who have ALWAYS had internet and cell phones, the sky is falling.  

 
You are correct about DFK.  I can tell within a minute after the door closes whether its going to be a good session or a mediocre one, just from the intensity (or lack thereof) of the DFK.  

herbtcat 6 Reviews 137 reads
posted
16 / 22

Growing up in Los Angeles, one of my 1st experiences in mongering was on trips to TJ. I don't speak Spanish, but I have learned enough to order food, stay (mostly) out of trouble, and find a bathroom.  
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Once I learned that I could cross the border back and forth with ease (the US did not require a Passport to re-enter the US back then) I also quickly learned a few key mongering terms in Espanol likeBBJ w/o condom, how much for the room, and what's your age (not that any chica over 30 would admit it, but it's a good way to judge her honesty/character).  
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But that was well before I was experienced with navigating the local provider world as well as having the funds to pursue top-shelf providers (inlcuding porn stars) local to me. While I have a deep sense of nostalgia for the 'gold ol' days' of heading to La Zona Norte and bouncing between Chicago Club and Adelita's to flirt with the chicas and bang my brains out, I can't really see myself going back there now.  
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The problem with travel to some idyllic location with legal, cheap and high quality mongering is that you have to travel.  Yes, I'll always inlcude time and funds when I travel to enjoy the locals just as I have been doing for 30-ish years. But I'm not on the road outisde the US that often.  
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For my part, in order to continue to enjoy the local flavor, I'll go back to pre-internet times and ask my current local ATF's to refer me to other's they know and trust. Not all will do so, though I suspect my porn star providers will be more open to the idea. And a referral is no guarantee of specific service.  But it's going to be better than looking for street walkers - just not going there! And it will be easier (and more "honest") then relying solely on strippers who will go OTC. Yes, I do find the occasional stripper who is a gem, but mostly they are the very definition of GPS asking for north of $500 for what amounts to poor service or worse; ROB's.

Stormy See my TER Reviews 128 reads
posted
17 / 22

I was REALLY young, and green of course, living in Austin, TX.  I had just finished high school, living in a small town in Northern MN.   With my desire for some excitement, I decided to move on to find some-anything.   My best friend had already moved to Austin to be with her BF, who was stationed there in the Air Force.  Texas looked pretty good to me, so off I went to find myself.  

We had this neighbor gal who always seemed to have enough cash for our insatiable appetite for getting high.  She always had the best "botanicals" (and they weren't found growing in her garden out back).  At the time,  I was working as a waitress at a Mexican restaurant, living paycheck to paycheck, trying to save up enough to purchase a car (the public transit system was actually pretty efficient back then in Austin).  However, coming from a small town where my high school was two blocks from home, I wasn't accustomed to the hassle of using mass transit.  I was used to getting around riding my bicycle and in friends' parents cars.  Back then, the only kids who had their own cars were spoiled rich jocks and cheerleaders who didn't hang with us pot-smoking hippies.  They liked to party, but drew the line with using alternative substances and growing their hair long.

Anyway, one Friday evening this neighbor girl and I were at her place smoking and drinking wine when she went upstairs to get ready for work.  Her story was that she was a waitress at "Ol' English Pub" on Guadeloupe Street.  I knew the place.  It was a quaint Pub with good draft beer and a somewhat conservative ambiance.  Well, she walked down the stairs in tight blue jeans, stiletto heels, and a black lace top that may as well not have been there.  I could see her size D breasts bouncing with every step she took down those stairs.  I'll never forget that moment.  I said to her "you're going to work like THAT"?  A knowing smile came over her face, telling me that "no, I don't work at Ol' English Pub".  I work at a massage parlour calleld "Body Works Massage".  

"Carman" was her stage name.  She gave me a short rendition of how her shift would go, said that I'd do well there, and there were openings.  Easy smeazy!  The next day, I was "Marie", donning a leotard and heels (looking like a gymnast going to a party without changing her uniform-except for the heels)!    The "madame" was pleasant enough.  I remember thinking that she looked like my aunt Doris who could use a wardrobe consultant and a bike ride around the block or two.  She said to just sit on the sofa in the LR, and wait for customers to come in.  They came in, alright.  

Every girl had their own look and style.  Mine was the petite, perky one with the pixie cut and small breasts.  Carman was curvy, long legged and busty.  Sylvia was earthy and plain, a redhead with a natural hippie style.  There was Cherrie, the one with the long, messy afro-style hair, red dress, red lips and yes, a lot of cleavage popping up on top.   She was cool.

The hot black dude, who laid low in the kitchen most of the time was our "bouncer".  He also supplied us with plenty of recreational bud and was constantly trying to make his way in each of our....rooms.  That's another story.

I had no training whatsoever, zip.  On the second night on my shift, three men came walking in, one of whom chose me to spend an hour with.  There were three rooms to work out of, two with massage tables, one with a water bed.  I took him to my room, a massage room.  I asked him what he wanted, he told me, and I gave him a price.  Two minutes later, I was under arrest and being hauled off to jail.  

Barb, the "madame" had a deal with the local police in that town.  Every so often, they needed to make some arrests in order for them to look like they're doing their job and making the community safe.  She set me (and Cherrie) up.  I didn't find that out until  later when my case came to court.  I guess the training came fast for me.  

I lasted a few months at that gig, and will reveal more at another time.  But, the thought came to me when all of this legislature bull came down that maybe we will be renting out houses (wellness centers) like Body Works Massage in Austin, Tx.  Who knows?  I have enough training now.

Those were the old days of this industry.  

J2526 85 reads
posted
18 / 22

Yep. An entity under US jurisdiction doesn't get much benefit out of moving its servers offshore.

However, I'd like to see the U.S. government try to get at a company/servers that are based entirely in Venezuela, using a *.ve domain.

Also, while U.S. prides itself on the transparency of company ownership, that isn't the case in other parts of the world. Tracking corporate ownership in much of South America ends at the name of the company, and it's designated agent (usually an attorney).

That could all change, but it's the current situation, as I understand it.

There are a lot of countries that generally support the U.S., but wouldn't have much interest in helping us go after a business in their country solely because it facilitates prostitution in the U.S.

Katherine_Taylor See my TER Reviews 134 reads
posted
19 / 22

Every high end provider I know will want to keep more regulars. Lowering our service level will not be an option at all. As far as less safe, d.m for the underground newsletter I started. I had gotten the top 100 of each city before it all went down and we are pooling all the verified girls and clients to receive this. it will state thier tour dates every month in your proton secured inbox-

They industry will adapt. sex work has always adapted.

AlluraKnight See my TER Reviews 115 reads
posted
20 / 22

Hi Cossette~

Would NOT consider myself high end but within top 30 of two US cities before shutdown.  Do I qualify?  

~AK

ChristineGFE See my TER Reviews 116 reads
posted
21 / 22

I am seeing some of the TOP 100 on switter from a few cities already, with big specials. However there will always be a niche for the cream of the crop, the very best or the best. I hope you best success. I did see a post the other day someone talking about "the list" . It would be nice to see people benefit from such a tragedy.  

Christine

VincenzoG91 5 Reviews 119 reads
posted
22 / 22

Big specials? This is what I predicted. Without reviews, providers are going to need to compete on pictures and price, and pictures are less reliable now without reviews to vouch for them. I think the idea of providers starting their own safe site beyond the reach of recent legislation is great, but it looks like Switter isn't the right format. Quality providers were able to make good money because of their reviews.

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