This may be an old topic but I'm one of those guys who started having fantasies as a very yound child. I remember things that turned me on even as young as 4 years old. By fantasies I don't mean candlelight dinners on a beach and then making love in the missionary position. My fantasies often were about a woman saying and doing very specific things while she had sex with me. And by sex I don't mean just intercourse but foot fetishes, golden showers, cunnilingus, that kind of stuff.

I'm told that all men have these kinds of fantasies but that only a small pecentage of women have such desires. Would any of you ladies care to comment on this?

some different. There are some fantasies you might do if the opportunity came up, and some that you wouldn't do but are sure fun to think about!

Now, I'd like to know what things you like her to say to you! Care to share? PM's available..
Because I really like that too - a lot!

I was under the assumption that most people fantasized while having their, uh..er..'alone time', but I just discovered that's not so. I do.

My favorite fantasy is TP - triple penetration - three guys.
That one's one of the 'mind' ones since I don't do anal..LOL

Getting peed on doesn't do it for me..

I'm a guy but I never had fantasies like the ones you had. Mine were just normal stuff like kissing, fondling, things like that. Mine were weirder just cause of who I was fantasing about. The most normal lady was my 6th grade teacher who was unbelievably hot. I also didn't have fantasies like this at such a young age. Mine came later on like when I was 8 or 9yrs old.

wow-  the tp thing seems so.... like a guy's dream and a ladies nightmare...

glad to hear it has some appeal

not for me though- Mr. Vanilla

I'd like to offer this sugestion. Try DP with an anal training vibe.Close your eyes and have a Calgon moment. Just my $.02

When I was younger I loved male ballet dancers, Nuryev (sp?) and Baryshnakov. Also vampire fantasies. The close embrace, breathing on neck but no kissing, with the climax into the neck bite. Thinking about this fantasy reminds me of previous encounters with S&M. Its true, a dominatrix was a good submissive. Centers for pleasure and pain are so closely related. As far a foot fetishes, what girl doesn't have one? We all flock to nail salons for pedicures, and spent sizeable sums on shoes. Its not just for the men, its for the feeling of power. Fetishes are great, I love them. People who have them are always fun, its great to be with someone who really knows and understands what turns them on. That turns me on.

As far as current fantasies go, I really love Belladonna porn, Ms. XXX. I like to think about what she would do to me. I am a sucker for Muholland Drive, anything David Lynch. I like to masturbate while reading books, such as ones by Charles Bukowski. I love jazz from ~1955 to late 1960s. It is very sexual.

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"Calgon moment"...I bet that isn't what the laundrymat owners had i mind when they said "Ancient Chineses secret"! :P

Sedona,

Tonight there can only be one fantasy for me, sitting in a hot bath with you.  And you know why!  

Of course we have fantasies

Sedona hits the nail on the head, some are just 'mind' fantasies, some are ones I'm dying to act out but haven't yet had the chance.

Two (or more) guys always works for me when fantasising and having fun on my own.....

My fantasy is to write such good reviews that providers would call me up and say      "Forget the fee just come over and do me so you can write my review"     now I'm sure that the ladies here will tell you that this is truly a fantasy.

I can see why you would make that caveat about your fantasy because you wouldn't want us to call up and ask for the TP, but in the real world you could give it a try with 3 friends (or 2 friends and a hubby if needed).

Yea I can remember getting wood and playing with myself when I saw those nature movies in 1st grade where the spiders would place a prey in bondage by spinning their silk around it. Another perennial whack off favorite at that age was when the girl would be tied to the railroad tracks in those old western movies. And then I would absolutely spew from a session after I would see a girl beat up a male classmate. But that was in 2nd grade and I'm going to school with big kids now...