Alright, ladies, what's your take on us guys?

Meaning, outside of the screening deals of course, what would it take to see you?

There's some guys that have 10, 50, 100 or more reviews. Some that don't have any.

For instance, Gambler(sorry brother) has no reviews, but Admin thought it was a good idea to make him a mod, and I agree.  

KJ5233 has none either. But he's allover the place. Damn cool guy, BTW.

I have a few reviews, whereas my dog mrfisher has 49. And no one needs to be told about this gent.  

Does board presence help to dictate whom you ladies see? Or, does the fact they review?

I know you ladies back channel, just like the boys.

Just kinda curious as to your criterias.

Wanna share?

It's because I can lick my eyebrows!

They are very satisfied I always leave the correct donation, I am never rude unless she asks the wrong personal questions,I leave on time,and I don't bother her unless I am ready to donate again.

I like the fact that they leave when I'M done.

For me to see a gentleman doesn't necessarily have to have alot of reviews or a board presence.If the gentleman does make posts on the boards and reviews I like to read some of the reviews and posts to get a feel for the gentleman.If he has no reviews or posts my consideration is just be a respectful gentleman when contacting me.I am respectful and I expect the same.Have all of the required info ready when requesting an appointment.Which means not being vague,making me hunt for ref info,or just being a straight out jerk.Number of reviews and posts are not a dealbreaker for me as I have found a couple of times that the gentleman that has many reviews turns out to be arrogant and sometimes just weird.Just because the gentleman has tons of review does not guarantee that I am going to be interested in seeing him depends on the person.There are gentleman with tons of reviews and then look at the scoring seems like 2 or 3 scored good and the rest were scored extremely low out of the 30-40 reviews that has been posted I think can't be all the ladies were bad then I start thinking about the reviewer maybe he's the one w/the  problem.
jaydalee

because, since I am donating for a service, it is important that I make good decisions. Over time I have learned to refine my criteria, taking a lesson from every misjudgment and emphasizing those parameters that work for me.

As far as "her" criteria go, they begin with a properly counted donation. Beyond that it's the usual - be clean, groomed, respectful, timely and enjoyable. Good communication skills help - putting the best foot forward.

Throw in just a dash of decent in the sack and she's happy....

It's not a dating service....

"There are gentleman with tons of reviews and then look at the scoring seems like 2 or 3 scored good and the rest were scored extremely low out of the 30-40 reviews that has been posted I think can't be all the ladies were bad then I start thinking about the reviewer maybe he's the one w/the  problem.
jaydalee"

Always looking for smart people who figure out the technical details, that usually fly right on by, most thinking minds.
All my reviews are good because I scrap the bad hobbyists, and their reviews,before I start to evaluate hers.

I know you're a big teddy-bear with the ladies, and you're just being all gruff here so the boys think you're a selfich prick of a hobbyist!

BTW, didn't say it was a dating service. Just basically wanted to know what the ladies think because I'm all for a comfortable experience.

What makes them tick. Do they appreciate a guy with a 100 reviews like you(slut!), or like me with 9(?).

You've been not so frequent on the boards lately, as I don't have a life, and therefore post all the fucking time.

Just wondered what the ladies thought is all.

Guys with lots of reviews or P411 OKs gave them the creeps. Seriously. Several of them said that, and I guess they thought it was OK to tell me because I hadn't seen that many providers yet. One provider said that she automatically thought "eww" and declined P411 requests if they had 20+ OKs, another said that "some guys do this all the time and have no life", another said it was good that I hadn't seen that many providers, and so on. But then there were the ones that took pleasure in corrupting me. Good times.

It's crazy what providers will tell me about what they consider to be the opposite of what I am. I'm young, so they'll tell me what they think of the older guys. They'll tell me about the socially awkward guys. The ugly guys that they have to close their eyes for. I guess I'm a little too easy to talk to sometimes.

but not too long ago one gal told me that she would be concerned about seeing someone who is so promiscuous.

That's like Hertz refusing to rent a car to me because I've rented from them too often.

I bit my tongue and said good bye.

I think if I am going to base it solely on the boards... and not reviews or what not, then I would take into consideration how he acts on the boards, how respectful he is... how upfront he is, how he talks about women, is he funny, or does he seem to always get mad over little stuff... things of that nature.

but given the response I get to inquiries, and how frequently ladies I've seen contact me to stay in touch, or to be sure I know they are going to be in town, I rather suspect that it helps more than it hurts....

But I have met ladies who abhor heavy reviewers. That's why I keep my numbers down LOL by reviewing only a fraction of the ladies I see

Frankly I rather hoped you would get some honest answers from the ladies. It would have been an interesting thread....

Cheers

GTM

There is something to this theory.  I have heard some providers say they are leery of reviewers with pages of reviews, mostly from a health perspective.

It's not that unreasonable.  I know I'm not keen on ladies with ten plus pages of reviews.  Is it fair?  No, but that's life.

In the end it's all just FUCKING LIES!!!!

Part of my "job" is selecting patrons based on how I gauge compatibility both in terms of personality and in regards to what we are both looking for. I'm not a cheap date, and I recognize this. Why on earth would I lead a man on and allow him to flush his hard earned money down the proverbial toilet if had a massive suspicion that I'm not what he's really looking for? Why not simply refer him to a lady who I feel he will have a superior time with another lady?

Or, if you want to take it from a self motivated/objectiveness standpoint, doing my due diligence to ensure I'm compatible with the ladies and gentlemen I see helps "Eve" flourish in the long run as well, through positive reviews, supportive board posts, back channel recommendations, and a schedule primarily filled with repeat visits, both in Chicago and abroad. Those 9's and 10's aren't just for show, my friend. It's all about the secondary screening.

her decision making process is not transparent to me and does not figure into my calculations

if she chooses not to see me for whatever reason, I'm fine with that

OTOH if she does choose to see me, I might *hope* that the choice is motivated by a bit more than "just an envelope" - as I have found it to be in your case and in that of a very few others

but for the most part, this is not the modus operandi typical to providers in my experience....

The one place where I see an intersection between your screening and mine, is that the way in which you conduct yourself and your business plays a strong role in the reviews you receive and is a factor in the way you present yourself as well....

Going a bit further, your methods of operation are an extension of who you are, ontologically speaking. And if you were not who you are, I might not have been attracted to you beyond a first "date" '

All of that being said, I was in a "terse" mood when I wrote my post. I suspect that you may know me well enough to realize that my viewpoint on this subjects is a bit more nuanced...

Cheers

GTM

Some days I suspect the primary reason you are "nuanced" is so that you will always have a verbal backdoor.

in some cases in order to enjoy it, I'm good '