Medium and heavy clients are always like "is this okay, is this okay?" self-conscious that their weight will somehow harm me.

Unless you're into 110 lb girls don't worry about it.

You don't have to spend time with women who are comparable to your size...but you should find women who compliment or can accommodate your size but who still stir your visual sense.

Medium-athletic body types can hang with your weight without you crushing them.

A few key points..

Anatomy is what it is..

I like big boys and at a very short 5'2 My ex was 6 3 and 260.. our friends used to joke. about elephants Fucking Mice.. and how bizarre we looked together.. There is hope..

But, you have lost a few inches due to your extra weight. which does make it harder to get to some of those other more desired positions.

I am not sure what your medical situation is but, you can do something.. even if it is hand held weights and diet control with a professional.. This is not a dig.. We could all use a little help or at least most of us..

I have worked in Healthcare for a long time and there is a solution for everyone.. no matter what your medical issue is.... Don't give up..

My question to you is. whats wrong with Lady on Top..?
My confession.. big boys have a very nice little pad of fat just above the jewels that rubs very nicely in all the right places.....

Yoga lessons r cheap as dirt, but it is very beneficial.  There r specific types of yoga lessons that is related to your objective. After a couple of weeks, you can be 1 with your body, and with enough practice, you have the confidence not to smush a girl.

If you want to be blunt about it. Tell the yoga instructor, I need lessons on how to be a better performer cause my SO is telling me I am putting too much weight on her. A friend I knew told me after 3 weeks of this yoga class, he can do Mish very well, without the fear of smushing her. Good luck. And, have you tried other positions? There r plenty of positions u can do with skin-on-skin contact without the fear of smushing her.

A high amount of weight and pressure on anyone's upper body can be uncomfortable. If it is on the chest, breathing can be restricted. I mean an average weight guy can't sit directly on a woman's chest, full weight, without cutting off her breathing. Yes?

So, if you are asking a question with an obvious answer (that you might already know), here it is in print:

A 350# man can't lay full weight on top of a 100# woman for any period of time without causing her problems, whether his extra weight is from fat, muscle, or a backback.

With that being said, despite what that ASSCLOWN alias said earlier, the number of ladies who do not want to see a respectful, clean heavy set gentleman are very, very few. Also, most ladies are happy to CREATIVELY GIVE PLEASURE to a good client.

If you are not getting the skin-to-skin you need, you might try asking a provider before you book (although it is not usually necessary for them) if they are ok seeing a large heavy-set man. You might be surprised the some will answer with an enthusiastic "Sure!" That can give YOU an extra comfort level to start with.

Next, once a session starts, communicate your desire clearly and respectfully to the lady, and be ready to work with her with ideas she may have.

It is simple geometric fact that if a man's shape is like Santa Clause his mid section will stick out further than his protrusion. That makes full chest-to-chest contact with a woman during intercourse unlikely, unless she is a chinese contortionist.

Even so, there can still be very satisfying skin-to-skin while in the throughs of pleasure. The more flexable the lady is the more that is possible. Keep in mind that there are ladies who are not spinners who are amazingly flexable.

Based on my experience, you my find that more mature providers may have skills, patience, and abilities - not to mention desire! - to wotk with you and provide a more fullfilling experience (and God bless ladies for that!)

One other possibility, though the specificity makes this more rare, is the young spinner who likes big guys. I have met a few between the ages of 18 and 22, who really like heavy men. It's always been for the same reason: They have had several boyfriends, most of whom were assholes (as men tend to be at that age) EXCEPT for the one or two heavy guys she dated, who were kind sweethearts (as heavy men tend to be at that age). Their experience left a soft spot (no pun intended) in their hearts for a big guy.

If you find a provider like that (I've found them) you should try laying back and letting them lay on you and make you happy. This is best accomplished after you bring them to climax with a good ol' fashioned tongue whipping.

Good luck to you!


HH

sissors, spoons, etc.  It is time to be creative.  I will get on top briefly but it's no fun if she can't breathe.  I would say you can both...  but perhaps not at the same time.
H

Never done it, but it looks like the ultimate in skin to skin....