Faye and I emailed many times. We had plans to take pictures together and just meet and talk since we share so many of the same interests.

Been out of town on business, checked the board and saw this post.

My heart goes out to her and her family.

Love always Faye...you will never be forgotten my sweet,

heather barron

Hi Heather ... you crazy chica! Big Kiss  

I too have been elsewhere, but heard the news and finally I'm starting to come round re Faye. I wasnt going to post.  Far too upset.  But a friend/client called me from Hawaii this evening. He was on the island amidst all the storms when this happened. Then I saw your post here,

I just dont get it.  we are human, we do stupid things to each other because we are still too frantic to survive to take time to care enough about another ... some of us are too willing tear another down because we are afraid of losing something?  Didnt Faye say we resonate largely on fear?  I dont mean we have to go unreasonably out of our way to coddle someone else, good God knows we have enough to handle...but to just be kind? Is that too much to ask from some people?  Thank God I run into kind souls though, that gives me hope to keep going, Faye was one of those souls. Embodied, now gone.  who of us will carry on our belief in this?

I pray she was in a space of love (love casts out fear), to be able to be willing to die peacefully. Did she? For someone who seemed to love life on this planet so much, and who at least seemed to have lived so heartily, i imagine it was not an easy thing to do without a higher vision.  I pray she was granted all of  that.  Drowning and suffocation must be the most frightening of deaths.  

I hope that at least some of us can hopefully soften a little every time and remember that the next time we wish to ABUSE another. The provider and the hobbyist could be kinder to each other, but in general, that will take evolution...

Remembering that anyone can be swept away in an instant does that even matter to some?  As the songmeister Sting says, "How Fragile We Are".

so in my own lame ignorance, I still knock over sensitivities.

Anyway, my recognition/eulogy to Faye. Sing with the angels!

And knowing Faye as we do she will.  Especially with our collective sendoff, huh?

ff








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This just goes out to show how fragile life is, and it can be taken at the least expected times.  Although I have never met her, she touched many lives of others here.  One person who will be remembered by the people who know her and those whom we wished we could have gotten to known her.  

Life is precious and if given a second chance at life you must seize it and never let go of it.  I know someone knows what I am talking about here, but being given a second chance at life like me has made me more aware of the beauty of the world around me, and I realize my life could have been easily taken away ....   Here today, gone tomorrow as some would say, but what we do today is what others will remember us by when we leave tomorrow.... Faye has left behind memories for us to cherish, let us not forget that....

Neutrogena

What are you doing up dear?  

You are so wise and so kind. You have not let circumstances change that about you. And I doubt you will.  You will have no regret when someone you love passes. Because you have that hard earned gift to treat them in life as you would if you knew they will die tomorrow.

I wish I could do that.




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Marilyn, guess I had an inkling of something awry, I checked the boards less often these days.  The news about her passing hit me like a ton of bricks, and it will be much more harder if I find somebody I love passes along.  

I have not experienced the departure of people I truly care about for all of my life.  I have accepted my own mortality as something that is up to God to decide, he gave me a second chance at life, so there is yet some purpose  I have yet to fulfill here before my time is up too.  

I have been reminded of a poem I read in High school.  The title is "Death be not Proud"

"Death be not proud, thou some have called thee...."

What I got from the poem is,
"For those who thinkst, thou dost overthrow"  

Death is a natural part of the life, and for us to worry about it constantly, it will surely catch up to you.  

You have to live life to the fullest like it is your last, and don't let todays problems pester you.  


Sorry if I dragged down the feelings of the people who reads this, but this is how I really feel.  Hence I have a happy go lucky way abouts me, not much gets me down.

Neutrogena

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A loving front page and eulogy.

www.fayedesiree.com  

This is a tough one for me.  Didnt know the woman but feel the ripple of someone on a path to make things better in a very controversial medium.  What a committment and what courage.  She was truly on an elevated plane.  Not consumed by fear.



Striving to be in that place of total love. Love casts out fear.
Yeh I know. New age and all.

xoxo
ff

 



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