I had the opportunity to go a baseball game couple days ago if I wanted the tickets, normally I would have taken them and asked someone in my family if they would have wanted to go, but since it would have been last minute it would have been tough (it was and afternoon game on a weekday). I was thinking about asking a provider I had seen a couple times if she would have wanted to go, I turned down the tickets, and did not ask her if she wanted to go or not, but my question is....

If the tickets you were getting were season tickets, then you run the risk of being outted for playing with the ladies. You'll be sitting around other season ticket holders who may know the person you received the tickets from.

If you are nothing but a client, most likely no.

I have been to both an Angels game and a Dodger game as part of an arranged date. There was a dessert part of the time, however, but I was considerate when determining the donation because it involved some fun and leisure activity that I actually enjoy. I doubt that I would be interested in a 5 or 6 hour (when you consider the shower/get ready/ drive to the meeting point/drive home) outing with no compensation.

There have been a few occasions when I've had tickets to an event I thought a client might enjoy attending with me, and have extended the offer.  They usually say no.  So I've stopped asking..... I'll drop a hint and if he doesn't bite, then that's all.  

I would have taken you to Olive Garden.  

I hang out with hooker "buddies" all the time, some of them I see professionally, others strictly as friends, but I am not worried about blurry lines. Sometimes a friendly drink is just that, a friendly drink and no more. Some guys seem to have the hardest time getting that concept.

Gourmet food trucks seem to be all the rage, but I've never partaken.  

but I will confess, I can do their soup and salad.  

...I'd go...

I have a hardon for that salad. LOL

many "social" dates with my regulars.  There are usually two reasons a provider will consider going out socially with you.

No hooker is going to be induced by some warm beer, a couple of hot dogs and some $50 seats at Wrigley unless she actually likes the guy she is going with, OR if he has spent a lot of money on you in the past and you expect him to spend a lot more on you in the future.

A girl who just wants to hang out and have fun. I actually feel a bit sorry for some of the girls who are so rigid they can't set the rules aside at times.  

And here we thought you hung out here all the time ... Maybe it just seems like it.
BTW it's much funnier if I use cartoon character, Archer's voice while reading your posts. Makes it less cartoony for some reason, but still damn funny.  

Did she give you a discount?

Most I know only work a day or two a week.

a number of girls tell me they miss a "normal" life, and some retiring saying the same thing.  Social dating gives them a break from the fantasy work they do and gives them an occasional feel of being on a "normal" date.  Many new girls in the business have told me that after a couple of months they felt lonely and isolated, and welcomed the chance to go on a normal outside date with someone they know and trust.  

It's really a shame you can't bring yourself to ever consider a client as also a friend. You have no idea what you are missing by having a guy friend who "gets it" where it comes to your chosen profession.

If the outside date involves a session, I just pay the two hour rate, but have spent the whole day with her.  If you consider that a discount, then it is, I guess.  In eight years of hobbying, I have never asked a provider for a discount.  She sets the rate.  If I didn't think it was worth it, then I don't repeat, but I don't discuss the donation with a provider, ever.  It ruins the GFE fantasy for me.  Just put the envelope down and go about your business.

I have taken a provider to a Hockey Game and a Basketball game. After seeing these women a few times I have an idea of who enjoys going to the games and who has no interest. I also invited a follow hobbyiest to a Knick's game recently. I get tickets all the time usually last minute when no one is around I will ask a provider or a bum off 5th Ave if they want to go. Ticket always gets used.  

The ones that are actual friends or more, more as in being actual GFs and it appears that they are of all age groups. Obviously the younger gals are more likely to be both friends and hookers I hire, mainly because it's a rarity for me to pay a woman for sex who is much more than thirty. That said, I have a lot of platonic hooker buds that I have never, nor will I ever have sex with, but women that share some common interests and are simply friends, friends with boobs I guess. lol

Being the young one who isn't jaded or married if a provider ever asks me anything the answer is Yes. I understand why the married man would say no but someone who is just doing this for fun why would anyone turn down a food truck date? Those experiences are awesome. Monster truck sky diving or any sporting event or concert YES PLEASE.

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There have been a few occasions when I've had tickets to an event I thought a client might enjoy attending with me, and have extended the offer.  They usually say no.  So I've stopped asking..... I'll drop a hint and if he doesn't bite, then that's all.    
   
 I am aware that as the professional in this equation,  I should always avoid making anyone feel uncomfortable or awkward.  And unfortunately, suggesting OTC time can make the other person very uncomfortable, indeed.  
   
 I've also invited guys I only know from the boards to grab a drink/coffee/food-truck-lunch or whatever.  Most of the time they either turn me down or try to book a date with me instead.  I think they are under the impression that my motive was really to get them to schedule, even though it wasn't.  
   
 As long as the terms and expectations are clearly laid out in advance, then it is totally possible to hang out like normal civvie people.    
   
 Now, some may see this as over-stepping or crossing the lines of the provider/client dynamic.   And that view is ok too.  
   
 This is what we make of it.    
   
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 Nooner: A sexual encounter at lunchtime; especially one that is illicit.  
   
 

I have done what you describe with lots of women. Typically I pay for an hour session, and with agency women I simply schedule the last appointment of the day. I pay just like any other client, but when BCD time is up we go out to dinner, the movies, drinks or whatever just like any other two people of the opposite sex. Some of them still like to play a little "kissy face" just like a real date, others prefer to be treated simply as friends during our public time. I've never had any issues either way and I have NEVER insisted they stay "On" during our OTC time

Your my type of women.

I've got a friend who has taken several hookers to baseball games.  He even showed me a picture of one we'd both been with at the ballpark.

Going anywhere with a gal that could be very public could be a major league problem for both of you.

I coached youth sports for 20 years and officiated

I simply pointed out that you are filling the void left by H+T and if you weren't paying attention when H+T was around, her and I got along pretty damn good most of the time.

i have...but only if i had time in my busy schedule

Where would she find such a "guy friend"? A real one.  
Not just one who says he "gets it",but one who actually does.  
I know ... TER!

I'm honestly surprised by this.
I guess the guys must be married

Hahahaha...I have a cousin who is a gourmet Italian chef ( her dads side) and she makes the most crinkly face when I say OG.  
But I've been known to polish off a few bowls of that salad

unless we draw them. And I understand why they're drawn.  
I've honestly never been big on paid dates. Just being honest. I prefer the time in bed. I'm starting to think a bit differently now that I've met women whose company I enjoy differently. Still to be seen

The bottom line is we are all just people...period.  
We laugh the same, cry the same, hurt the same.  
If I ever get to the point where I'm so jaded I can't spend time with someone of any profession just because I like her company and vice versa then it's just pathetic.  
Somewhere along the line when you have q cash register where your heart and brain are supposed to be you're going through the motions of life, not living.  
And that's both sides of the street in this equation.  
The girls have a unique problem in that some guys get stupid after a couple of drinks and all of a sudden he wants something for free.  
But I'd hope that they were people savvy enough to not accept his invite in the first place.
And guys usually want to think they are more than just a donation. Hell, read some of the fairy tale reviews and you'll get the point.  
For me personally where she's a friend IRL or a provider I'm fond of I treat them all the same. My time is valuable and I choose wisely who I'm spending it with.

what alyson, you wouldn't have an otc date to meet president trump?

What can you possible say that is going to turn someone off? I don't see anything that can be said where you can lose a client off a bad date going to a sporing event or show. The way i see it a provider doesn't need to be on her A game when she is out to the game. It's meant to be time just sitting back relaxing and enjoying a night out with good company.

It does not happen often, but he makes a really good point!
 

When I played Sports I frequently got called for an illegal use of the hands penalty. Can't teach an old dog new tricks, I still do

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Should I do some recon for you on Ms Nooner when I'm in Chicago next month? I think she'd possibly be fun.

are televised somewhere. Camera guys look for the attractive women in the crowd. How would you explain you sitting next to an attractive woman while talking with her if your SO or boss saw you on TV at the game? Also the boss thought you were sick that day--ummmm. Is your resume' updated?

this question is not specifically FOR you, but anyone that feels the same.  
ITRW, the mantra is "it takes more work to gain a client than to keep one"

lol eom

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the kinds of gentlemen I see typically would never broach the topic of OTC time. It just unsettles the balance of what we are doing together. This relationship we are able to have depends on the envelope. I've stated before in previous posts that the paradise we create together has walls which *are* the envelope. Within the realm of those walls, we can cavort happily and freely as we like without ever worrying that this thing we share will ever creep into either of our real lives. Money is not an issue for them, and the safety it provides is worth far more than any savings they may gain by scoring OTC time with a couple tickets to a game. But that's my experience with my friends.  

you want her to join you for the game because you're taken by her company. You're taken by her company because she's on her a-game when you're together.  

how do you know we don't have "guy friends who 'get it' when it comes to our chosen profession"? I have like 5 that I can think of off the top of my head. I am sure I have more if I actually think about it. Kinda presumptuous to presume we don't, non?

The retired horny hooker. Don't tell me it was a freebie?!?!

and it is always good to at least offer a compensated time before or after if she is since she will take a good chunk out of her day to attend with you.

More like a 60 minute miner?

I called out Alyson, not the entire hooker population and I called her out based on her own admission, that's how I know. There is nothing presumptuous in the slightest about taking someone at their word. Would you have preferred I assumed she was lying?

Is that really so hard to believe?

because this is a huge reach, even by TER standards. and even if I were to stipulate to this argument of yours, (which I don't) you still don't explain how you get "we" out of this when my comments were directed only at Alyson and NOT hookers in general.

(I wasn't whining, you were.) And looks like you're whining again! Of course, in a grumbly, macho-manly sort of way. Bless your heart. I promise I won't respond to anything you post again unless it is directly posted to me. K?  

Just don't expect to completely mischaracterize my post without getting a bit of pushback

Yes, it was a freebie.  Retired working girls are people, too.  There's no reason to think they don't have the same emotions and responses as any other civvie girl you might take out just because they USED to be a hooker.

Agreeing with you is starting to become a rather annoying habit. lol

I'm not sure how addressing a point you made to Alyson from my perspective is "mischaracterizing" your post, or "bending, stretching, and mangling the truth," nor how it is in any way a "huge reach". You seem to be getting flustered that I said "we" when you (apparently) wanted a private conversation between you and Alyson. Sorry! It's still not mangling any truths.  

You seem to want to keep picking at the scab until you make it bleed, but admin frowns on this kind of thing so I will give you the final word on the subject rather than have the branch pruned just because you want to argue this to death.

Seriously, why not?  There are so many dating sites with woman wanting to go on nice dates like this.