Ok all of you wise and thoughtful people on here I do need a little help with this.

My birthday is next week, and I do have an appointment set up with my atf lady friend. Yes she does know it will be my birthday. I also know when her birthday was and I do know what I am getting her for her birthday.

My question to you all is this. If by chance she does get me something, or offer a special on our session should I or shouldn’t I accept her offer? I don’t want to offend her by taking her offer, but I also don’t want to receive a special rate just because it my birthday. It would be easier for me if she doesn’t do anything for it. I am not expecting anything from her nor do I want anything from her. Beside what she brings when we are together I do enjoy her company.

Your thought and suggestion will be appreciated and taken into consideration.

Thank yo

I made a double for my birthday with two of NY finest.My birthday is in 3 weeks. I have no clue what they have planned for me but they told me to take my vitamins and that they were going to take care of me the way I did for them on there birthday. If I remember correctly and i don't forget anything I sang Happy Birthday to both of them with a cake and a nice birthday gift.  

I would accept anything that they offer. It's your birthday and if the relationship is anywhere near where mine is with these two girls then I know it wouldn't be offered if they didn't want me to have it.  

I'm a giver by nature but on my birthday it's the one day of the year where it's all about me........

Those are my 2 cents.
Zak
 

And may never be given to you?

What is going on here lately?  

I mean it's bad enough I got GaG telling some dude on the NYC board to fk a 45 year old broad over a 25 year old hottie and now I got you turning down a potential gift of free ass.

Christ, I can't even go on vacation without coming back to numerous piles of shit all over this joint for me to clean up.

I got laid tonite so since I am in a good mood, I'll help you out here.  

You pay her the MSRP and ask her to give the free cooch to me. I am used to getting discounted poon so I won't suffer from all that guilt you seem to have built up.

Win/win

I would never tell a soul, nor would expect it on any future dates with her.

Just wanted to make sure I handle it the right way. Don't want to do anything stupid with her. I did that once this month and already lost.

Graciously.

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Don't you ever give anyone (friends, family, etc) gifts? Do the recipients feel "stupid" when you do?

Come on bro.

I am pulling for you to be a "somebody" one day.

I mean, who really wants to be a "nobody?"

The "right way" to handle a gift is to accept it gracefully.

Or are you suggesting it's ok for you to give her a gift, but not okay for her to do the same?

Are you seriously trying to lock up the SPOTY when it's only March?

I am trying to win that award?

Yes I will accept a gift from her gracefully. Just wanted to make sure it is ok to accept a gift from a provider.  

With all of the x-mas post about gifts giving or receiving gifts from a provider. I was just wondering about birthdays.

Thank you

-- Modified on 3/7/2016 10:41:12 PM

Bad choice of words again. (stupid) I was not thinking accepting a gift from her was stupid. I don't want to offend her by not accepting it, or having her think I am taking advantage of her generosity. I know it would be a one time gift because of my birthday, unless we are still seeing each other next year. I would never expect a reduce rate on any of our future session.

This is not real life. I am paying for her to come and visit me for two hours of her time. I want to make sure it is alright to accept a gift from her. That that is stupid or a good ideal, just that it is ok to do.

Why would I want to be a somebody when I am having way to much fun being a nobody?

Thank you

-- Modified on 3/7/2016 11:12:37 PM

If she offers you a Birthday Special and you seem to be on good terms with her, I'd say sure accept it. You should buy her a gift on her Birthday.  

My ATF's Birthday is next month. I'm spending the whole day with her. I'm taking her out shopping and to dinner.  

A former ATF I use to see always gave me a free session on my Birthday.

Overnight with my original ATF.  I paid for dinner, she for the hotel, and I left the next morning a very happy man.  Nothing more needs to be said...

You are not taking advantage.
She knows you enough to know it is your birthday and therefore it is either a business or a friendship decision she makes,  if she does give you a present or wharever.
Do not overthink this.
The worst thing you could do would be less than gracious in receiving a gift/