Have read a number of reviews where the hobbyist felt "rushed."  In some of those reviews, the hobbyist indicated that the provider said, "hurry up and cum."

If it's in a heat of moment thing, like they're begging for your cum, "hurry up and cum for me baby" or sth, that's one thing, and not a bad thing.

Hurry your ass up, my roomate, sister, boyfriend will be home any minute is different.

She had some issues checking into the hotel, so our date got cut in half. I like to chat and take my time and so probably should have canceled at that point, but I had already planned to meet and was on my way. This was an agency girl, and when I got in the room she indicated that she had a "full schedule" that day.  

I've had that a couple times and is very very rude of them.

Certainly would be a bummer....  I would feel that I had really wasted the time and the fee.....

Hookers usually only come twice in such a short period of time.

But I imagine some BP girls doing that.

because if she is saying it, then I am past the point where it has entered my mind...this doesn't help.

Delicious.........I bet her telling you she had a "full schedule" made you feel quite special (NOT) and a "one of a kind" date.

Do you rather have quantity or quality?

If I have reached my vaginal limit of friction I just let the client know we need to move on to something else. That way, he does not need to come to give me the relief I need.  

Hobbyists should ALWAYS respect a provider's time...........while I try to make my encounters as realistic as possible, given the circumstances..........I believe wholeheartedly that we hobbyists should expect no more time than we contract for.........my initial post was referring to a provider urging a hobbyist to........hurry up and cum...........even when the contract time was being respected..........should have stated so in my initial post.

Some people act as if saying "Come for me baby" is like talking to a coffee pot and it just starts pouring out... um, no. When you're pressured to come, you usually can't.

I'll simply pull out mid stroke, take my cum with me and go home.

Sometimes the rush happens, and sometimes not. That's the way it goes. It doesn't mean the session was any less thrilling. Yeah, it's nice when it happens, but the older one gets......

You just made this stallion cum, and you're a thousand miles away. That's what I call mojo! And that's hard to find. You are one fun lady! Next time I'm in LV baby.

That's a wrap folks. I've had one provider do that when I first started in the hobby. I laughed inside bc I was like....Damn babe, it's you. Lol. Maybe she sensed that. We just weren't compatible as far as compatibility goes in the hobby. Lol. No biggie to me. Still, no matter the reason, if it's in the agreed upon time and the entire time hasn't been from first sec to last, a romp focused on only you the gent, then frankly, those words should never be spoken. If so, they should never be allowed to speak such words a second time on a later date ever in the history of time to you For realz. I can definitely understand how some men would allow it to bother them and trying to get there. I would most importantly just take it as a learning moment about that provider's personality when times get crucial (lol) in general or specifically her personality around me during "crunch" time. LOL.

Wine helps take the edge off and usually leads to some good conversation. However id say I don't cum half the time when I am meeting a new provider. Usually the second dates is much better!!!

After all, it's not what you say, but HOW you say it!  

My dates are based on time and time alone. If they feel they can only pop once then it is what it is. I have stayed and chatted and thats fine. I have also had them pop only once and they ended the date and gave me my full donation. I have had them pop multipule times with no word from me about "cumming and getting it over with." I don't want either of us to ever feel rushed in this experience together. I know some probably do want it to be rushed and to get it over with. I personally don't.