But if others are, more power to them. It cost someone money to shoot that photograph. There must be someone jacking to her.

*sets down cake*  

Hello gentlemen,  

If I respond to this intelligently as part of a conversation, can we refrain from the demeaning comments in regards to my size ? Im simply here to offer a point of view from an actual BBW provider who does happen to see her fair share of business. As im not here to get into a war with anyone and put down anyone because of their difference of tastes.  

Ive addressed this type of topic on my local board as well..  

Its clear that everyone has their own individual tastes.  
Though im still wondering why when this subject is brought up, it has to be done in such a derogatory manner and that people who comment on it have to be insulting, when all it is a difference of taste.  

If you look on Eros which is a good example, they have categories, Petite, Ebony, MILF, Mature, Big Booty, BBW, PORN, Asian, TS, XXX, BDSM etc..  

Categorically speaking, these have existed as long as the sex industry has and there is a demand for niche market providers as much as what you would consider your typical mainstream providers, and this industry has room for all of them.  

I know this may be shocking to you big girl haters, but there is a healthy market out there for BBW providers. What may be as equally shocking is not all of us hate ourselves and there is a majority of us who embrace ourselves and all our BBWness proudly.  

It has nothing to do with the economy since BBW providers have been around as long as this industry has been around, its considered a niche market, because there is a demand for them.  

Speaking from personal experience,  and trust me when I say this , there is absolutely no lack of self-esteem on my part. I'm a women so I have my days, but over all I think im pretty awesome.  
Im smart, funny, well-spoken, quick witted, full of personality and I was blessed with the fact that as a big girl I fill out my plus size hourglass rather well and darnit people like me.  
I love being a provider, I am passionate about this industry, and I am passionate about continuing to build a sex positive environment for myself and others who participate in it. I've been blessed with the opportunity of connecting with some amazing clients and providers. And I'll be damned if anyone is ever going to  make me feel less than fabulous with something as simple as words.  
There are so many quality men in this community that love big girls as well as men that love women of all shape and size variety that Im not lacking in dates.  I actually offer a 2 hour just desert type experience where I bring the client my favorite desert and we share ,, and its gone over rather well ..
There is room for all and to each his/her own
 
Pleasure is a buffet with an endless amount of delectable entrees to serve yourself from. and there is always something for every taste..  

And If you want to put me into a OTHFBC, thats your choice, but I dont think being in your 30's is considered over the hill either  
Ive also notice that any provider who tries to debate this subject is also accused of being bitter, and that isnt the case , just simply offering a different point of view..  
I think it would be nice to see the community refrain from putting eachother down because of our individual tastes, or stop making a bigger deal over body types , when it is a simple as " if you dont like it dont try it" stick to what you love ..  

Whats the big deal anyways, How does it hurt you if I dont hate myself ?  
 
Now if you'll excuse me, I have a piece of heavenly 7 layer dark chocolate cake that I have to partake in and afterwards im going to wash that down with a glass of whole milk,, and god damn if Im not going to enjoy every last bite...  
 
Bless, Beauty and Bliss,  
Yours Truly,  
~Cat xoxo

I could not imagine a more disgusting evening than one spent with someone of her attributes.

I know there are "chubby chasers" out there, but BBW to me means...FAT!